I have seen her a few times, but not recently. I have sent her etransfers with no issue. If you are willing to risk it, I would be interested in an objective review of what went down and then see what happens. Something like, "I'm not sure what happened given all the positive reviews..." Of course, no matter how soft it is, you may still get banned.
You could try DMing her on CAF to see if that helps and she sees that you are a member. You'd have a record of the exchange. Good luck.