Opinion Cheating on your regular

[curvluvr]

I used to see one particular MPA at Muse a few years ago. She always encouraged me to see other MPAs there. She would even suggest the ones she thought I'd like based on my preferences. Most of her suggestions were great. Some of the other MPAs would tell me that my regular told her to ask me to do this and that with her because my regular said I was very good at it. Lots of fun. This scenario led to a number of over the top duos.
My regular always asked how I liked her suggestions. She just liked to see everyone having fun and she had plenty of customers, so my $$$ weren't really missed.
But she did always remind that she was my number 1. And she lived up to her standing every time.

This one is an absolute keeper. I'm sure that the majority of them aren't like that.

 

[snoopdoggie]

You know research data actually states that men fall in love more quickly then women. We are more " visual" creatures. So I don' t know if women are the more emotional ones.....maybe when its their time of the month. I would agree to that.

I agree men get turned on more from visuals than women do. But I remember in college they had a bookstore with nude magazines for sale. The girls were checking out Playgirl magazine, as much as the guys were checking out Playboy.

 

[Barney_B]

This is a service based industry. I have my favorite restaurants that I frequent. And I switch them up. Sometimes I want a nice bowl of pasta, other times a nice steak, or mexican. I don't see myself cheating on an establishment because I wish to change the menu. Same applies here.

I look at the menu. Order what I want and never challenge the price.

Same applies here. Take advantage of me and it will be my last appearance at the establishment.

Just business.

 

[Barney_B]

Hours of operation is the tell for me. Home is close to 3 spas. Open 7 days a week from 10am to 10pm. Unless all of Vaughan is suffering from back problems, suspect spa is open to services beyond a massage.

The question becomes what services are available and pricing. Assume HE is the baseline.

 

[bigd905]

For me, every time I've seen another girl one or twice instead of the girl I've been a regular at in the same spa, the service went down with my regular girl. Less intimate, more rushy and didn't want to partake in some of the extras we were doing to each other before. Think it just goes to show that its not always transactional on both sides, no matter how much you want it to be.

Usually the opposite tbh, I found them trying to do more in an attempt to get their business back

 

[cupcrazy]

how is is that you are cheating on her. it is not like you made a promise to her that you will see her exclusively. at the same time will the mpa solely see you alone?

 

[Pay2Play]

how is is that you are cheating on her. it is not like you made a promise to her that you will see her exclusively. at the same time will the mpa solely see you alone?

Some bitches be crazy yo!

 

[parkways]

how is is that you are cheating on her. it is not like you made a promise to her that you will see her exclusively. at the same time will the mpa solely see you alone?

anytime you're with an mpa your body makes a promise to her soul and if you cheat on your mpa a part of her soul cracks and the damage can never repair. you're not new here you should know this by now

 

[Gulag107]

I while back, I cheated on my regular and made sure that she could hear it through the ultra thing walls with the help of her co-worker who was in the know.

Like she really care$

 

[xtc27]

For me, every time I've seen another girl one or twice instead of the girl I've been a regular at in the same spa, the service went down with my regular girl. Less intimate, more rushy and didn't want to partake in some of the extras we were doing to each other before. Think it just goes to show that its not always transactional on both sides, no matter how much you want it to be.

So, @ semilegit spa, they got rules… “NSNF” … no suck no fuck…

And yet… esp since some gals work holistic & even incall other days of wk… these rules get broken… but only carefully…

So, her own clients, her regs, theyre 80% of her biz… helped her survive COVID lockdowns.. so these guys = precious… & giving them bj&fs keeps them coming back! And shes already doing that elsewhere, so no big deal…ofc many semilegit gals dont do hi milesge xxxtras, so this only applies 2 those that do…

BUT! Ones giving hi mileage xxxtras? They have 2b hers… if she gives bjs & fucks 2 OTHER gals clients… uh oh… shes effectively suckng away her colleagues clients! That’ll cause fights & get her fired…

… thin walls, eh? U fuck yer client, other gals no… they dont care if its yer own, but if its another gals client… theyre gonna tell mgr… mebbe break yer windshield!

So, @ semilegit spa, u cheat on yer reg… shes gotta b careful now, yer not hers… yeah, those xxxtras could disappear… the other gal now thinks u could b hers, eh?

Holistic spas work a bit differently… theres no rules, so u can see other gals, but in my experience, sometimes they wanna punish u 4 straying…

 

[snoopdoggie]

I see both sides. I too have had a favourite tell me to try other girls at the spa, after she had been my go-to for a year or more. I saw her every week at least and had paid her thousands, so it was a little bit of a shock when she started suggesting that. I mean, she was also the manager, so maybe she was getting some flack from the girls, or maybe legitimately she was trying not to be in the room anymore. Regardless, for a hot minute there I felt a little twang of “why?” I’ll admit. But, in the end, she wasn’t only seeing me, and I wasn’t only seeing her, so I moved on. I made the conscious decision to cold turkey it, and haven’t seen her since.

On my side though, because of the rapport I had built, I didn’t feel right seeing anyone else at the same spa. I have since, but on days she isn’t there. It’s been a little while now so maybe it’s time to reconnect, but I’m also not in a hurry to do so as there are some new names that have me interested.

The best part about this hobby is that there are literally endless girls to try. Makes it easy to roll out of one good thing to another.

It sounds like a sad story, saying good bye to someone you like. But I don't think you need to feel bad if the other girls are giving her flack because you're only seeing her, do they? When I go to a spa, the receptionist more often than not, quickly ushers me into the room. So, most of the time the others girls don't see me unless we're passing each other in the hallway or lobby. Most girls are busy either servicing other clients or are getting the room ready for the next client.

 

[snoopdoggie]

So, @ semilegit spa, they got rules… “NSNF” … no suck no fuck…

And yet… esp since some gals work holistic & even incall other days of wk… these rules get broken… but only carefully…

So, her own clients, her regs, theyre 80% of her biz… helped her survive COVID lockdowns.. so these guys = precious… & giving them bj&fs keeps them coming back! And shes already doing that elsewhere, so no big deal…ofc many semilegit gals dont do hi milesge xxxtras, so this only applies 2 those that do…

BUT! Ones giving hi mileage xxxtras? They have 2b hers… if she gives bjs & fucks 2 OTHER gals clients… uh oh… shes effectively suckng away her colleagues clients! That’ll cause fights & get her fired…

… thin walls, eh? U fuck yer client, other gals no… they dont care if its yer own, but if its another gals client… theyre gonna tell mgr… mebbe break yer windshield!

So, @ semilegit spa, u cheat on yer reg… shes gotta b careful now, yer not hers… yeah, those xxxtras could disappear… the other gal now thinks u could b hers, eh?

Holistic spas work a bit differently… theres no rules, so u can see other gals, but in my experience, sometimes they wanna punish u 4 straying…

It's a good thing you ride your bike. They can't break your windshield. Unless you got one of those homemade jobs.

 

[qinging]

Yep these girls don't like it when you try someone else....and it doesn't take much for them to think you are theirs. This is the don't get emotionally invested rule. If she thinks you're a shit...so be it. I remember seeing a girl max.2 times a few years back then switched to a hot looking babe. The first one slagged me off to the new one who then questioned me about it.

 

[Young heart]

We are human...customers and mpas. Emotions, feelings are natural....business transaction or cheating depends on the individual mpa and the "relationship " you have with her.

I have beautiful friendships outside the spa with several mpas because of the loyalty and trust I have built with them over several years ( 8 to 10 years) I would never jeopardize that friendship by seeing someone else in the same spa. I also know they have friends in other spas so I know which ones to avoid.

At times they would suggest I see others in the spa as a test of my loyalty... which I passed....

If you want to see someone else, go to a different spa without jeopardizing your loyalty to that attendant.

If you don't see them outside the spa then no harm, no foul...

 

[Dongo]

It sounds like a sad story, saying good bye to someone you like. But I don't think you need to feel bad if the other girls are giving her flack because you're only seeing her, do they? When I go to a spa, the receptionist more often than not, quickly ushers me into the room. So, most of the time the others girls don't see me unless we're passing each other in the hallway or lobby. Most girls are busy either servicing other clients or are getting the room ready for the next client.

I know that some spas have a monitor in the "GIRLS" room so they can see the clients coming in. I know this, but the girls would try and sometimes they to throw me off by saying something like " what a surprise", or acting surprised when they come into the room !

 

[snoopdoggie]

I know that some spas have a monitor in the "GIRLS" room so they can see the clients coming in. I know this, but the girls would try and sometimes they to throw me off by saying something like " what a surprise", or acting surprised when they come into the room !

That's true, I forgot about that. But still, they can be surprised sometimes if they're doing something when you go in.

 

[Dongo]

That's true, I forgot about that. But still, they can be surprised sometimes if they're doing something when you go in.

Yup, lets hope the little darlins keep focused when they are "trimming it up", don't want any work related injuries.

 

[Mav]

It sounds like a sad story, saying good bye to someone you like. But I don't think you need to feel bad if the other girls are giving her flack because you're only seeing her, do they? When I go to a spa, the receptionist more often than not, quickly ushers me into the room. So, most of the time the others girls don't see me unless we're passing each other in the hallway or lobby. Most girls are busy either servicing other clients or are getting the room ready for the next client.

I think they give her flack because she is a mgr and isn’t supposed to be in the room. So the other girls feel that I should be in a room of theirs. But she usually would take me herself, but not anymore. She pushed me into trying others, and I did but it wasn’t good so I’ve moved on.

 

[xtc27]

I think they give her flack because she is a mgr and isn’t supposed to be in the room. So the other girls feel that I should be in a room of theirs. But she usually would take me herself, but not anymore. She pushed me into trying others, and I did but it wasn’t good so I’ve moved on.

… if yer fave = a spa mgr… shes gotta work on drumming up biz 4 her gals … its weird when yer gal keeps foistng u off on other mpas, but kinda fun.

… imagine if u luv beer

& yer best buddy just started a brewery? More beer than he nose what 2do with… if yer buddies w a spa mgr, shes just got girls everywhere, sometimes gd & not busy, 4u 2 try… taste testing! U just gotta get over that shes not always on the menu… but sometimes she is, 2!

 

[Mav]

… if yer fave = a spa mgr… shes gotta work on drumming up biz 4 her gals … its weird when yer gal keeps foistng u off on other mpas, but kinda fun.

… imagine if u luv beer

& yer best buddy just started a brewery? More beer than he nose what 2do with… if yer buddies w a spa mgr, shes just got girls everywhere, sometimes gd & not busy, 4u 2 try… taste testing! U just gotta get over that shes not always on the menu… but sometimes she is, 2!

Oh I’m over it, all good buddy !