Curiosity for SRM

[nsw]

I understand, to an extent, your position.

So to answer: first, yes, I take information from this site, but do want to withhold information that might be useful to you and others. I'm self-interested here - I only hope you appreciate that I've been honest in stating it up front.

Please understand why. Here's an example - there was/is a particularly hot attendant, very well reviewed, at a well regarded MP. I saw her several times. I asked for extras - small ones at first - and offered a signifcant tip for them. It took her several occasions, but she agreed.

Three months after first seeing with her, I was meeting her in at a hotel for weekly "dates". We had a sugar daddy/sugar babe relationship.

Now I really don't want to appear to be bragging. I'm telling you this because I think it would be absurd of me, as long as I was interested in continuing to see her, to be saying anything whatsoever about her on this site. And once the relationship ended, it's ended - I'm not going to go around talking about it, and use juvenile euphemisms in discussing the "massage" aspects of it.

I got what I wanted, and now I'll respect her by leaving her to the rest of her life.

Now, criticizing someone on this site, is an extremely poor way of helping them perform better. If I'm not fond of someone's technique, I'll tell them. If I think they aren't expressing the right attitude, I'll let them know - and they won't be seeing me again. It happens. It even happens with some girls that come recommended here (we all have our own tastes).

But more importantly, being critical in this forum may well hurt that girl's business. And that's simply not the kind of action I want to take.

I'll give you an example.

There is one popular girl at a popular MP who is often booked up. Frustrating to get in to see her. The first time I saw her, we hit it off. Frankly, at some point in that first session I mentioned that what I really needed was to be alone with her in a bedroom. I guess I said it in a way she liked - and she told me she was open to the possibility of a "sugar" relationship. We kissed.

I told her I'd see her again, so she could get to know me.

Two straight weeks I couldn't get an appointment.

Finally, I got an appointment - for an hour and a half (I like long sessions). I showed up and was told by the receptionist that I was 30 minutes early, and that the girl was on lunch, but she'd ask the girl if she'd take me early. I was sure I wasn't 30 minutes early, but what could I say?

The receptionist came back and said the girl couldn't make the session earlier than planned. There wasn't much sense in disputing anything - there was nothing to be gained by this.

I left to get a cup of coffee and said I'll be back. I came back in exactly 25 minutes - now on their schedule 5 minutes early.

The receptionist had me wait. That 5 minutes passed. Another 5 minutes passed. A further 5 minutes passed. I was now 40 minutes beyond the appointment that I had scheduled, and 10 minutes beyond what they had said I scheduled. Let's not forget I had booked a 90 minute session.

So I got up and told the receptionist I was leaving. She seemed very surprised and told me that the girl was just finishing a quick session.

So - apparently minutes after I was told the girl was on lunch, this girl took on another client and pushed me further back yet.

You don't need to be a rocket scientist to figure out what happened. I complained to the company. She was reprimanded. She doesn't like me now (oh well).

But I'm aware she is well-regarded and lusted after here. I'm not going to mess with her career by filling you in on who she is. I don't have any ill will toward her. There'll always be another hot girl. Criticizing her here wouldn't be giving her good constructive feedback - it would be harming her ability to earn.

I hope you can understand my point of view.

 

[Nickoooooooooo]

There's nothing the matter with holding back, and I guarantee everybody does it.

For instance, at one point last year I was discussing P Massage with an MPA. MPA X had never done it and was rather curious. Next session I took in rubber gloves and taught her.

Yes I've reviewed her and NO I'll never tell in a million years so please don't PM.

WHY?

1.) The MPA asked me not to say anything and I gave my word. She told me she was curious, had been asked before, but didn't feel comfortable with the client.

2.) Too many clients on the board would assume if MPA X performed P Massage she MUST be doing other extras like BBBJ and FS. You haven't been on massageplanet.net that long TQM but you'd be shocked at the kind of PM's senior members receive on a daily basis.

Last weekend I received a PM from somebody looking for Indian MPA's he could HIT ON. Why? Because he's a "good looking guy" and doesn't want to pay for it. I responded that I'm a good looking guy too and carry my wallet.

The point is, even if player coach's original request about extras was totally legitimate and it probably is, what about the other 100's of members who've read the thread? Some are creeps with a sense of "entitlement."

IE> they've paid their money and they're OWED.

3.) Lastly, I'm under NO illusions that I'm somehow special. I assume that MPA X continued to offer P Massage with other regular clients. Hopefully they enjoyed it as much as me, but it's something they should discover on their own.

Too many guys use massageplanet.net as a READ ONLY Encyclopedia and why should I help them any more than by saying "try MPA X" ? I believe some things are better left unsaid.

 

[babygirlbrunnett52]

TQM,

Thanks for the response but I think the problem is we are misunderstanding each other. I'm by no means suggesting that you divulge all the details of your massages or anything else that happens. There's no need to know who has given you extra contact info or services.

As for getting bumped I don't think that it is necessarily the girls fault. I've seen popular mpas who are running behind schedule because guys show up late.... thus bumping everyone back. Could be a number of reasons but I doubt that would hurt this person's business.

Anyways, no need to justify not posting reviews. I was just hoping to convince you of the contrary. As I mentioned before there are plenty of lurkers.

 

[Tainted Love]

I can relate to your above experience. I saw this MPA for a while. And when she became popular, my session was either pushed back or cut short. I too realized later that it was all done on purpose because she knew that her regulars would go out of their way and wait for her. I have not seen her again after this incident.

 

[Brittany H]

What an interesting read. Love the reply's and thank you guys. YOur all right.