I am pretty sure now that you have a very inadequate understanding of marriage. The SB / DB / OB girls may make for good mistresses. They cannot be good marriage material. Don't let the dick guide your decision regarding marriage. Presuming that a man gets married at 30 and dies at 70, assuming a voracious and manicacal sex-drive and factoring in the gradual drop with age, he would have spent barely around 0.01880% of his time having sex. The remaining 99.9812% would be spent in companionship, child-rearing, home-making, nursing, quarreling etc. So make sure you choose a spouse based on the right attributes. This decision, once gone wrong, will wreck your entire life for good.
I had the good fortune of observing quite a few couples over the past few decades. I will give you the case of two particular extremes because they got married in the same year. I was a teenager back then. Here is what we thought about those two couples then. Let's call them couple AB and couple YZ.
Couple AB: The guy (a relative of mine) got married to a very beautiful, well-groomed woman. She had a great sense of dressing and make-up. We all envied him and wished that we end up with someone like her when we grow up. She was an assertive, careerist woman who made good money on her own.
Couple YZ: Ok, let's call them ZY since YZ is local slang for (Yed Zava). This guy got married to a woman who hailed from a lower-middle class family. She was ordinary looking. What pissed us off further was that she seemed to make no attempt to groom herself well. She was raised in a chawl and the hardships showed on her face and reflected in her choice of dresses. Behind her back we all made fun of her and secretly hoped we don't end up with someone like her.
Decades have passed by. My observations now are as follows:
Couple AB: The woman had a heightened sense of self-worth. Her world revolved around herself. The husband got a job in Dubai. She refused to let go of her job to relocate to Dubai. The husband let the chance go. Later when she got a chance to relocate to Gurgaon and then Bengaluru to further her career she immediately moved on. She made the life of her in-laws into hell. She wouldn't do any work and would expect to be taken care of when she came home tired from work. Soon Couple AB moved away from the in-laws home and shifted to a place close to HER parents. Their presence on family outings and functions became rarer. The engagement with HER family increased although. The in-laws later fell ill. She made sure that the husband packed them off to an old-age home. Their son was also admitted to a Military school as soon as he became old enough. It was also later discovered that to further her career, she flirted with her bosses and also had an affair or two outside. Her mother-in-law passed away a few years back at a time when she had just received a foreign placement. She had to fly back for 5 days. She made sure that her father-in-law knew how the mother-in-law chose the wrong time to die just to make HER life hell. The couple is still together. But now they are older and the husband who seemed to be quieter in the younger days now makes sure that he reminds her of every pain that she has inflicted on him and his parents. There is a grim silence when they go anywhere together. An unsettling cloud rests between them at all times when we meet them.
Couple ZY : The woman was used to hardships. She was not well-groomed because her world did not move around herself. Before marriage she always placed her duty as eldest daughter above everything else. After marriage too her life continued to revolve around other family members. As her husband moved to border postings, she literally took on a super-woman, super-mom, super-daughter-in-law role. Over the past years, she has taken at least 3 breaks from her career to take care of children, in-laws etc. We have seen her run from pillar to post when the father-in-law suffered a cardiac arrest. She has literally raised her children single-handedly. She now epitomizes the ideal daughter-in-law, wife, Mom to the entire extended family.
So, once again, when it comes to marrying based on external attributes like beauty .....
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