orient longman
Reviewer
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I want her, My ego on stake
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Don't make it an ego issue... you will end up on the losing side - guaranteed. You will end up spending on some other girl that you don't fancy as much as the one you are interested in. Even if the 2nd "jealous" girl comes out with you, it would be a "compromise" fuck for you. Unless the 2nd girl provides exceptional service, you will end up regretting spending money on her.
It is better to accept that fact that some DB/OB girls don't go out and will not make an exception for you, no matter how well you treat them. Sure, they want your money - so they might make you feel like they are exclusively your girl friend in the bar. It is simple economics for them - they want to ensure that you don't spend on any other girl in the bar. The "mera customer" is a very common phenomenon in every DB/OB. All they want is exclusive access to your wallet/money.
i would advise you to go to this bar only to have a drink or 2 for a few weeks. Be cordial and nice with the girl you fancy, but don't give her "collection". Spend a little bit on the OB stage dancer who went out with you for the movie - don't spend a lot, but just enough that your main girl notices. There is no guarantee that she will agree to go out with you eventually because that may never happen. It would probably be best to move on to another bar and hope that an entirely new girl will catch your fancy. There are more than 40 bars in Navi Mumbai with a total of over 1000 bar girls. There are definitely some apsaras somewhere in Navi Mumbai who will treat you right, if you give them the opportunity to do so.
When you look back on this situation in a few weeks, hopefully you will realize how silly it is to get your "ego" involved.