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One of my known DB girl called me for help. The general versions are as follows..
Mera thoda help kar doh, kuch paisa ki jaroorat hai..
Me: kya ho gaya, kyun chahiye paise
Girl: office acha nahi chal raha hai, ghar pe ganpati baitha na hai, kharcha bahut ayega, aaj ganpati kharid ne ke liye jaana hai
Me: toh kya hua, market se ganpati bhagwan ki photo ya murti milti hai, leke aa jao, 100 ya 200 rupya lagega, bas fir puja kar lena, jitna karna hoga
Girl: nahi, bada ganpati bithana hai, murti ka toh 10000 rupya kharcha hota hai, 10 din tak puja karna padega, sab logon ko khana khilana hoga, toh kharcha hoga bahut
Me: itna jyada karne ki kya zaroorat hai, bhagwan itna sab kar ne ke liye bolta hai kya
Girl: main har saal karti hun, iis baar thoda problem hai, mai ganpati bhagwan ko bahut manti hun. Aap kitna kar sakte ho batao, mera mobile number pe Gpay kar do
Me: mere paas paisa nahi hai...
I could have answered lot more harshly, but thought it is only waisting my valuable energy at the wrong place.
Last time during ganpati puja, one girl has sent me her picture. She was wearing gorgeous saree, huge ornaments covered her neck, wrists. She was with her other gorgeous friends. Side by her there was small ganpati bappa with minimal flowers and clothes. Lots of food/sweets items were placed adjacent to the deity. Lots of decorations, lights, sound systems were there. The expense for 10 days should not be less than 40 to 50k. Clothes and ornaments are separate.
One way I got surprised, and other way I felt pity for our Ganesh bhagwan also.
Does ganpati want us to borrow/deceive money from others and spend on lavish ornaments, saree, decoration, food items..
Does Ganpati wants us to observe the festival in such lavish way, without an iota of pure bhakti??
These stupid girls are exploiting these religious and traditional rituals by transforming traditional techniques and methods into the modern ones, which are dangerous and hazardous to mankind.
Crux of the matter is Girls find/exploit every potential occasion to ask help/money from mongerers.
New year day
Pongal
Valentine day
Shivratri
Baisakhi
Gudi Padwa
Id ul juha
Id ul fitar
Moharam
Ganesh puja
Dushera
Diwali
Kalipuja
X-mas
.....
Kuch bhi nahi hai toh "aaj kal office acha nahi chal raha hai"
So once you succumb to their plead and give money, then you are the most potential candidate for the next occasion.
The amount varies from a couple of thousands to even twenty thousands also. Girls have multiple boyfriends for this types of occasions. So if a girl has 4 BFs then easily 80k is in her pockets.
many times we think, de dete hain, baad me aur nahi dunga, lekin we don't know that "Baad me" kabhi nahin ayega.
Everytime, the request will come with a different recipe of emotions and sentiments.
There are many other ways to ask money, like
Maa bimar hai..
Hospital jaana hai..
Gaon jaana hai, ticket karado..
Uncle Mar Gaya, ghar jaana hai..
But this "Ganpati bithana hai, paisa de doh" is really epic.
Bhagwan ko bhi nahi chorenge ye log..
I will not say "Ganpati bappa, ladkiyon ko gyan doh"
I will must say "Ganpati bappa, ladkon ko gyan doh" so that one will not fall in the traps.
That girl sent me a video of her home yesterday, she was doing puja to a ganpati bhagwan, with all decorations, lights, clothes, ornaments...
Uski paas paisa nahi tha toh kahan se itni sab hua, wo bhi itni jaldi...
There is only one answer..
Emotional blackmail is a powerful form of manipulation. It leaves you in a Fog, when there is haze of Fear, Obligation and Guilt.
Often the emotional blackmailer is not a deliberate tactic, on the other's part - it is just the method that gets them what they want, and they have found that it works...
Ganpati bappa morya...
Agle baras tu jaldi aa...
Jai ho..
HH
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Mera thoda help kar doh, kuch paisa ki jaroorat hai..
Me: kya ho gaya, kyun chahiye paise
Girl: office acha nahi chal raha hai, ghar pe ganpati baitha na hai, kharcha bahut ayega, aaj ganpati kharid ne ke liye jaana hai
Me: toh kya hua, market se ganpati bhagwan ki photo ya murti milti hai, leke aa jao, 100 ya 200 rupya lagega, bas fir puja kar lena, jitna karna hoga
Girl: nahi, bada ganpati bithana hai, murti ka toh 10000 rupya kharcha hota hai, 10 din tak puja karna padega, sab logon ko khana khilana hoga, toh kharcha hoga bahut
Me: itna jyada karne ki kya zaroorat hai, bhagwan itna sab kar ne ke liye bolta hai kya
Girl: main har saal karti hun, iis baar thoda problem hai, mai ganpati bhagwan ko bahut manti hun. Aap kitna kar sakte ho batao, mera mobile number pe Gpay kar do
Me: mere paas paisa nahi hai...
I could have answered lot more harshly, but thought it is only waisting my valuable energy at the wrong place.
Last time during ganpati puja, one girl has sent me her picture. She was wearing gorgeous saree, huge ornaments covered her neck, wrists. She was with her other gorgeous friends. Side by her there was small ganpati bappa with minimal flowers and clothes. Lots of food/sweets items were placed adjacent to the deity. Lots of decorations, lights, sound systems were there. The expense for 10 days should not be less than 40 to 50k. Clothes and ornaments are separate.
One way I got surprised, and other way I felt pity for our Ganesh bhagwan also.
Does ganpati want us to borrow/deceive money from others and spend on lavish ornaments, saree, decoration, food items..
Does Ganpati wants us to observe the festival in such lavish way, without an iota of pure bhakti??
These stupid girls are exploiting these religious and traditional rituals by transforming traditional techniques and methods into the modern ones, which are dangerous and hazardous to mankind.
Crux of the matter is Girls find/exploit every potential occasion to ask help/money from mongerers.
New year day
Pongal
Valentine day
Shivratri
Baisakhi
Gudi Padwa
Id ul juha
Id ul fitar
Moharam
Ganesh puja
Dushera
Diwali
Kalipuja
X-mas
.....
Kuch bhi nahi hai toh "aaj kal office acha nahi chal raha hai"
So once you succumb to their plead and give money, then you are the most potential candidate for the next occasion.
The amount varies from a couple of thousands to even twenty thousands also. Girls have multiple boyfriends for this types of occasions. So if a girl has 4 BFs then easily 80k is in her pockets.
many times we think, de dete hain, baad me aur nahi dunga, lekin we don't know that "Baad me" kabhi nahin ayega.
Everytime, the request will come with a different recipe of emotions and sentiments.
There are many other ways to ask money, like
Maa bimar hai..
Hospital jaana hai..
Gaon jaana hai, ticket karado..
Uncle Mar Gaya, ghar jaana hai..
But this "Ganpati bithana hai, paisa de doh" is really epic.
Bhagwan ko bhi nahi chorenge ye log..
I will not say "Ganpati bappa, ladkiyon ko gyan doh"
I will must say "Ganpati bappa, ladkon ko gyan doh" so that one will not fall in the traps.
That girl sent me a video of her home yesterday, she was doing puja to a ganpati bhagwan, with all decorations, lights, clothes, ornaments...
Uski paas paisa nahi tha toh kahan se itni sab hua, wo bhi itni jaldi...
There is only one answer..
Emotional blackmail is a powerful form of manipulation. It leaves you in a Fog, when there is haze of Fear, Obligation and Guilt.
Often the emotional blackmailer is not a deliberate tactic, on the other's part - it is just the method that gets them what they want, and they have found that it works...
Ganpati bappa morya...
Agle baras tu jaldi aa...
Jai ho..
HH
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