I'll admit that I wasn't really fan of
@Unclesam, until he left. Perhaps it was because I didn't some of the nuances in his posts because of not being familiar with the Hindi language and as a result, the cultural aspects of it. But I certainly miss him now, there were a lot of fun/informative elements in his posts that made reading them quite enjoyable.
While I might have disagreed with some of his ideologies. I chose to keep them to myself, because
1. I respected his thought process behind his points, even if I disagreed.
2. There are definitely other members of the forum who agreed with them, and that didn't bother me.
But something I always liked about his ideologies is the fact that he said Mongering is for everyone. SBs has their own crowds, DBs have their own crowds, OBs have their target crowds, NL has their own base, etc. I completely agree with that, and is one of the reasons I am keen to try every level and every phase of mongering. I've taken models in Dubai who charge $1000 an hour, to whores in NL who take 2.5k rupees an hour. I've been to strip clubs who have featured pornstars like Samantha Saint in Vegas, and I am planning to go to a DB/SB where I'd probably make out with someone like Kajal. I've had blowjobs in legit Korean parlors in K-Town as well as in shady ass parlors in tier 2 cities in India. I appreciate different classes, races, types of women and enjoy mongering as kind of an exploration into the fabric of modern society.
I completely disagree with what
@Shivamrut has written, Mongering should not be restricted for the elite. If someone thinks that he can only go to SBs for his budget, why even put a damper on his mood and talk shit like this
"So now onwards I will make sure to show you all your level in social ladder ..."
" I sure my driver gets more salary than you all per month.."
I personally feel like posts attacking another member like these shouldn't be a part of the forum, but whatever. He feels comfortable with what establishments he visits with whatever money he makes and he makes FRs to pander to other forum members just like him. I feel like that it is an essential part of the thread. If you don't like it, follow your own advice and ignore/skip his posts.
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I just wanted to say that Mongering is absolutely for everybody (unless you are actually having problems meeting your living expenses). Pick and choose what establishments you can afford, and how frequently you can visit. Maybe someone who frequent SBs, but wants to visit an OB can save up money for that one trip and spend lavishly. Draw up a budget each month and stick to it.
You can use
@ferrous183 's
post as reference. It's well written and is a pretty good cookie cutter guide for anyone new/experienced in the scene. Personally I don't follow his guide because I have 0 loans to pay, a trust fund building up for savings, and my family business taking care of investments and other home expenses. So I put in 30% of my earnings towards mongering, 40% on other leisurely stuff, 20% to personal bank account and 10% towards my living expenses.
Lastly, I hope you comeback
@Unclesam . Just because this thread has lost most of it's charm and colorfulness with your exile.