Bro...have been through similar to what u went there...
Just enjoy the pain of this situation...and save it in your memory...thatโs the only way to get something out of it..
Avoid the girl for atleast few months...(do let me know the bar name where this happened...so that I can also avoid...I promise I wonโt visit the girl to enjoy her in the mean while when u r not around...DB ki Kasam...just kidding bro..donโt tell the name...hum bhi line me aa jayenge
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What I did in this situation: avoided the place completely from few months..also no contact with the girl...
During this time, every time u visit another DB, she ll be there in your mind but other girls in front of u...this way u ll enjoy other eye candies without spending much on new ones as u wonโt feel like spending..
Hereโs what changed in me after such situation:
1) everyday has to be a new experience.
2) I no more care which place I visit..newer the better.
3) I no more care who the girl was yesterday...
4) no giving fone number. I donโt want the headache of msg-management. This way if the girl wants to make me her regular then she has to perform in front of me and not on smgs and fones...
Cheers
Ashwin