Question DATO request by MPA

[Happyman]

After see a MPA half a dozen times, she wanted me to serve her DATO. Is she playing me / want to torture me? I don’t even want it from a MPA because I think it’s bad hygiene for both parties, I said no to her in a nice way; I told her I need more time with her to get to that stage. On the other hand, am I too reserve/traditional, not romantic?

 

[BigO822]

What is DATO?

 

[Happyman]

Dine on her ass, lick her ass

 

[banality]

Not a question of romance lol. I understand some people are into it and some aren't. You're certainly not in the minority if you pass on her ask. But -- I'd be happy to help her out in this regard!

 

[daty869]

I had the same request a few months ago from a regular that I have seen at least 50 times over the years, she is very clean and it was the first time that I had considered doing it for the same reason as you. She had tried rimming me a few months before saying it was something she wanted to try for a long time but hadn’t found someone yet that she felt comfortable enough to ask. I told her that it wasn’t my thing after trying for a couple of minutes and all was fine. When she asked me I was a bit hesitant but the experience was not unpleasant at all, especially given how clean she always keeps herself. She hasn’t mentioned it again and I have seen her a few times since. Cheers

 

[Happyman]

Sounds like I am on the conservative side. I have done it with my girl friend but not even have thought of doing it for a MPA. May be if I see her more often, I may get convince to do it for her. But she does not even want to do a BJ for me, that's why I feel she is selfish. Other than extras (BJ) she does a wonderful job on the sensual side, one of the best GFE I have got from a MPA.

 

[luvdafurburger]

Sounds like I am on the conservative side. I have done it with my girl friend but not even have thought of doing it for a MPA. May be if I see her more often, I may get convince to do it for her. But she does not even want to do a BJ for me, that's why I feel she is selfish. Other than extras (BJ) she does a wonderful job on the sensual side, one of the best GFE I have got from a MPA.

You've told her you're not into it. Why do you have to explain or feel pressured? If you're not into it that's that.
If roles were reversed (which sounds like they are in the bj dept) then how would she take it if you kept pushing her to do something she clearly said she wasn't into?

 

[hangul99]

Start with a SF2 to make sure she's absolutely clean to your comfort level. Then recommend a 69. Take it from there if you think it's something you want to try.

 

[MorningWood]

You can also use a piece of saran wrap to use as an impermeable barrier between tongue and asshole.

 

[Twistit643]

Start with a SF2 to make sure she's absolutely clean to your comfort level. Then recommend a 69. Take it from there if you think it's something you want to try.

I agree with getting into a 69, I have done it before but more spontaneously where I'm really horny and it just happens. In a 69 you can always bail with the DATO and be a champ with the DATY!

 

[The hook]

Just give it to her why not enjoy ....

 

[Caracalla]

If I found the girl attractive, and her ass looks healthy, DATO usually gets me super turned on.

I tell them to bend over then I just dive in, girls love it.

 

[daty869]

You can also use a piece of saran wrap to use as an impermeable barrier between tongue and asshole.

There’s also what I think are called dental dams for this purpose- try a adult toy store and see if they have them.

 

[Happyman]

There’s also what I think are called dental dams for this purpose- try a adult toy store and see if they have them.

Thanks, found it on line. Wonderful idea

 

[daty869]

 

[Pay2Play]

After see a MPA half a dozen times, she wanted me to serve her DATO. Is she playing me / want to torture me? I don’t even want it from a MPA because I think it’s bad hygiene for both parties, I said no to her in a nice way; I told her I need more time with her to get to that stage. On the other hand, am I too reserve/traditional, not romantic?

You had to be asked?

 

[Mantel]

Na, you're not a romantic, you just have good hygiene, forget that shit (pun intended).
I wouldn't do it to her and I won't let her do it to me.

 

[xtc27]

After see a MPA half a dozen times, she wanted me to serve her DATO. Is she playing me / want to torture me? I don’t even want it from a MPA because I think it’s bad hygiene for both parties, I said no to her in a nice way; I told her I need more time with her to get to that stage. On the other hand, am I too reserve/traditional, not romantic?

… can’t imagine spending time & energy doing something I’m not into w a girl I’m paying.

… she’s likely offering something she thinks U like, & she’s ok w doing…

2me, doing DATO 2 make her happy, while she’s offering 2 make U happy… just silly

Luv the gf vibe, but I don’t do anything I don’t like just 2 make her happy… even DATY, I only do it if I want… DATO? Only actual gf getting that, & she’s gotta ask nicely!

 

[luvdafurburger]

… actual gf getting that, & she’s gotta ask nicely!

Wow! You're a cheap date
She'd have to at least buy me a drink and Swiss Chalet.

 

[sy barite]

Though I've never heard that particular one, over the years I've had p4p girls ask me to do things to them. I always gently remind them, more with actions than words, that the direction the money's flowing makes MY pleasure what matters.