Review DIY versus ASSISTED Happy

[Albertaman]

Assisted happiness is a good term and agree it is not just DIY. The experience I am thinking of is usually 90 minutes and is a blend of excellent massage and stellar teasing, incredible reach under, finger tips and the edge of her hand sliding between the butt cheeks, and frequent caressing of the balls. On the flip it is 20 minutes at least of massaging my balls, hands sliding over the LG and my hand between her legs from behind (over her yoga pants or uniform. She rocks back and forth and seems to like the pressure I provide there. When I look up at her she is totally focused, her eyes on what her hands are doing and the look on her face is erotic, hot, never clinical. Eventually she places my hand on the LG and then massages my balls until I explode and she is watching this with a lot of interest and rocking on my hand. While I do want the full meal deal, and get that elsewhere, I have to say my experience with her is very erotic and pleasurable. I like different experiences and this is one of them. When I am spent, she cleans me up and finishes me off with another 20 minutes of massage.

Dont ask me who. My point here is to describe my experience with assisted happiness. Good post Albertaman.

Nicely summarized. These experiences require creativity on the part of both client and provider. And mutual curiosity, and shared satisfactions. As such, good quality 'assisted happiness' will remain on the fringes of the YMMV offerings, and not show up on the list of the Menu driven providers. Strangely, this makes it more rare, and rewarding.


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[Wills_willie]

Awhile back I showed up near closing time at one of the Asian spas. The lone lady was going to close up but told me she'll lock up while I go get on a table. She was wearing Lulu Lemons with a loose top. She started with a nice relaxing full body massage, undraped. At some point the tease strated, ass play, inner thigh work, reach under etc, etc. My hand was on the edge of the table and she positioned herself over it and started moving her crotch back and forth. Eventually she moved up to my head and reached down my back to caresse my ass. My hand found that spot between her legs where I continued to rub her while fully clothed. Pretty soon she was on her tip toes, tensing her legs, lightly moaning as she orgasmed. She then had me roll over and gave me a very sensual lower abdomen massage. She placed my hand on the lg and rubbed the berries encouraging me to orgasm. She was watching what was going on with a smile on her face, she pulled up her top, no bra, small tits, nice nipples, and placed my hand on them. Boooommm, that was it, WOW!! Went back the next week and they told me she was gone, crap.

 

[Albertaman]

Awhile back I showed up near closing time at one of the Asian spas. The lone lady was going to close up but told me she'll lock up while I go get on a table. She was wearing Lulu Lemons with a loose top. She started with a nice relaxing full body massage, undraped. At some point the tease strated, ass play, inner thigh work, reach under etc, etc. My hand was on the edge of the table and she positioned herself over it and started moving her crotch back and forth. Eventually she moved up to my head and reached down my back to caresse my ass. My hand found that spot between her legs where I continued to rub her while fully clothed. Pretty soon she was on her tip toes, tensing her legs, lightly moaning as she orgasmed. She then had me roll over and gave me a very sensual lower abdomen massage. She placed my hand on the lg and rubbed the berries encouraging me to orgasm. She was watching what was going on with a smile on her face, she pulled up her top, no bra, small tits, nice nipples, and placed my hand on them. Boooommm, that was it, WOW!! Went back the next week and they told me she was gone, crap.

Lesson, if the service is awesome, exchange cell phone numbers right away. Using a hobby dedicated cell phone, of course.


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[Bullet]

" Using a hobby dedicated cell phone, "
Unless you are NOT cheating on any one. (ie) Divorces / Single with no CF

 

[Bullet]

Lesson, if the service is awesome, exchange cell phone numbers right away. Using a hobby dedicated cell phone, of course.


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Unless you are NOT cheating on any one. (ie) Divorced / Single with no GF or attachments. I use my regular Phone

 

[Albertaman]

Unless you are NOT cheating on any one. (ie) Divorced / Single with no GF or attachments. I use my regular Phone

I was sharing a personal learning. Even being single or unattached, imho it is helpful to have a spare phone for this hobby, unless you only visit chiropractor office RMTs who offer nothing other than the draped massages, and zero sensuality.


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[JacobB]

I got the literal DIY once...Great massage, I felt some of the classic teasing. But after being flipped she goes "You can stay here as long as you like if you need to take care of yourself". And walks out of the room. The reviews here said that only one or two of the women did a HE. So at first I wasn't expecting nothing, but with the teasing I felt like I had lucked out and got one of the good ones. Only to be really disappointed.lol

I prefer a bit of sensuality over being jack hammered. So this doesn't sound too bad to me.

 

[Albertaman]

I got the literal DIY once...Great massage, I felt some of the classic teasing. But after being flipped she goes "You can stay here as long as you like if you need to take care of yourself". And walks out of the room. The reviews here said that only one or two of the women did a HE. So at first I wasn't expecting nothing, but with the teasing I felt like I had lucked out and got one of the good ones. Only to be really disappointed.lol

I prefer a bit of sensuality over being jack hammered. So this doesn't sound too bad to me.

In an 'assisted happiness' journey, the therapist is far more engaged and involved with client than in a rushed handjob in the final minutes of a massage session where they just want to 'earn' their tips. With assisted happiness, the tip is on the basis of the old fashioned idea of a gratuity. One gives voluntarily, not on the basis of menu pricing.


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[luvsluvsmassage]

while not purely the assisted sense originally presented - I have had similar experiences where the focal point is a mutual interest in the sensual play and interchange. And when this happens, especially after some repeat visits, i have found the manner of finish to be rarely the HJ. in my instances, its never implied that i have to DIY, but a few playful interchanges turned into interesting finishes using other parts of the lady's anatomy, all flowing from the entire massage as it built up and progressed. I have found this kind of sensual release more satisfying than most attempts at a FS transaction with other providers.

 

[jzburner]

while not purely the assisted sense originally presented - I have had similar experiences where the focal point is a mutual interest in the sensual play and interchange. And when this happens, especially after some repeat visits, i have found the manner of finish to be rarely the HJ. in my instances, its never implied that i have to DIY, but a few playful interchanges turned into interesting finishes using other parts of the lady's anatomy, all flowing from the entire massage as it built up and progressed. I have found this kind of sensual release more satisfying than most attempts at a FS transaction with other providers.

Please elaborate on the anatomy she used for this. Sometimes knowing what to ask for results in a great session.

 

[jzburner]

This is a great thread for sharing Ideas. Personally I am not a fan of the girls that stand beside the table and jerk it while looking at the ceiling. Linda at XP comes to mind.
Some of my good experiences are the ones that sit between my legs in modified lotus position and my legs go over theirs. Seems like girls that will get oily with you are the best.

 

[luvsluvsmassage]

This is a great thread for sharing Ideas. Personally I am not a fan of the girls that stand beside the table and jerk it while looking at the ceiling. Linda at XP comes to mind.
Some of my good experiences are the ones that sit between my legs in modified lotus position and my legs go over theirs. Seems like girls that will get oily with you are the best.

100%. Everything i look for now is to avoid the massage-flip-jerk-done session. Ones that flow are great. I've found bodyslides with a few of the stars lately have gone next level in this kind of thing - literally getting oily together, and its not about a hj anymore its about a more mutual connected experience.

 

[heythereuqt]

I think I may need some assistance.

 

[masterchief214]

I think I may need some assistance.

Haha! That was my line in XP. Can you help me?

 

[Albertaman]

100%. Everything i look for now is to avoid the massage-flip-jerk-done session. Ones that flow are great. I've found bodyslides with a few of the stars lately have gone next level in this kind of thing - literally getting oily together, and its not about a hj anymore its about a more mutual connected experience.

Creativity, Intelligence, Sensuality. The intelligence being more of the EQ, emotional quotient type, not the IQ type, maturity, playfulness. It does require two way communication, even if much of it may be non verbal. And mutual trust, respecting the level of privacy that both parties desire. I have found that by pursuing such a venue in 2021, and totally avoiding the menu driven services, and focusing most of my 'spend' on just two therapists over past months, with one of them the mutual playfulness has now led to some of the appointments culminating in love making sessions with generous amounts of time provided. We still meet for sessions that are focused only on therapeutic massages. The playful sessions tend to be early morning ones, before the busy part of the workday for her, whereas the therapy ones tend to be late afternoon or evenings during regular work day. This is not in Edmonton, but I'm sure that Edmonton has some terrific therapists, some of whom may be open to such ideas with some clients. We can't change the industry, but we can absolutely be in charge of how we spend our time and our funds.


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