Do men consider relationships warfare?

[beachchick]

Follow your instincts 99% of the time they are right. Not sure why you continue the games this guy is playing. Let it go and find better friends.

Man is a loser.

 

[jronnie22]

From my perspective this dude was just getting back at you for "hurting" him.

Seems to me he's just some ass wipe Player who plays games.

There's a reason why he's notoriously single, it's his type that play the warfare you speak about.

Good luck to you.

 

[HannahTheSwearBear]

I guess I'll have to be freshly showered before my hug. They are better that way anyhow.

 

[Pompal 09.]

Amy, you handled things perfectly - don't blame yourself or change your attitude.

I like that you gave him a second chance, it might have worked for both of you with the reflection of a few months. I also like that you didn't respond to his immature baiting behaviour at the dinner, it speaks well for yourself. You're lucky to find out his true nature early in the game, he might change with maturity but you don't need to be part of it.

I think you'll find someone you're more suited to if you remain open to the possibilities. Don't let one guy colour your attitude about guys in general.

 

[Pompal 09.]

Thanx Curly, I shall do that!

And thank you for your good wishes oyster shucker, you're right.

And Auggie :happy: aww thanks sweetie! You are absolutely right as well!

 

[Harry]

Like you said, you were fucking him for sport anyways. So I presume you're not heart broken.LOL

 

[jenineschatz]

Hahaha I was a different person back then but yes I'm hardly heartbroken over him. I wish I could attract a guy my age who had all the qualities that appeal so much to me that most older men have in spades :tongue:

 

[Chris L]

How did I miss this thread?

On your first post: while you two may have been fuck buddies, it is always nice to know that you'll be missed, even in the slightest sense. Your comment to him said: you are nothing more than a dick with a body attached..happy fucking! In other words: you'll be gone? I won't even notice....

Onto the reunion: wtf is up with this guy? That is a shit thing to pull. Kind of reminds me of a buddy and I, we'd have dinners 2 or 3 times a week and he suggested we alternate who pays, he pays, I pay he pays I pay etc.

So one night he calls me up and says he feels like chinese, let's go get some. So we have dinner, bill comes to forty odd dollars and he hands it to me and says: your turn..>WTF< ?? When it's HIS turn to pay we go to wendy's or harvey's or at the most, Dangerous Dans, when he wants chinese and doesn't have the money he invites me out?

I said to him: man, that's low. YOU are leaving the fucking tip and forget about this alternating bullshit....(I learned a LOT about him that night and it lead to me learning a lot of other things).

Anyhow, you're best to be rid of this turd....to invite someone to join you and not even make an attempt to cover his friend's portion? That's class....low class that is....

 

[SamMarie]

Yep manners, simple social graces and decency... just out the window lol too many people like that nowadays

 

[Hayley-May]

$40 dinner??? That's a lot for you Tboy.

You can't be a hobbyist, are you?

My buddies and I do some liquid lunches that cost $40 each. And that's with one guy alternating to bring the booze to the restaurant. Not bragging, but $40 dinner is cheap. Dinner for 2 at a "decent" restaurant is easily $100.

 

[Pompal 09.]

well oyster...dont mean to take side here but harvey's/wendy's can cost up to 10-15 bucks for 2 people. So theres a huge discrepancy between $15 -$40. In this case, Tboy has a valid point.

Meanwhile I do agree that most of the time I go out for dinner with a friend/date, the bill usually adds up to 100 dollars. Thats the price I pay for not eating at fast food restaurants. However, eating out at asian places can be more affordable compared to "white" food. Besides the former tastes much better.

 

[bkylyt990]

Dunno,

I don't do fast food dinners, never mind 2-3 times a week. Did that in my twenties.

But I agree with you that if they usually spent $20 regularly, his buddy shouldn't have made him pay for the $40 upgrade of a meal.

 

[Gonzo]

When eating out at asian places, be sure to enjoy a delicious dessert:

 

[kirst is back!!]

:ARt ,,,you made my evening as I just got home after a very long difficult day. Too bad I can't enjoy my dessert in real person. Meanwhile I can appreciate this picture....