IME often it is their fault. Men like to look at breasts. Even ass men even like to look at breasts. If a woman is doing something to draw attention to their breasts, and catches someone looking at their breasts, they have NO right to complain, give dirty looks to, or say anything untoward about it.
So, surreptitiously looking at a woman's breasts are fine, as long as you don't get caught? Don't you find that a tad...dishonest? That's like saying driving drunk is ok as long as you don't get caught doing it....gimme a break.
In my example it is like you looking at this thread...stop looking at this thread STOP LOOKING AT THIS THREAD you can't, because it's right in front of you. There, you're as guilty as I am.......