First off, shaving you bag is fine.
Trimming around mr. happy is undertandable from the point of view of leaving a brush cut.
Going bald in the entire nether region, hmmm, I guess to each his own, not for me though.
Shaving the crack of your ass

, sorry that's just plain gay and you just crossed the line there.
I am sure that there a some "fancy boys" at the Y who prefer that look, but......
I for one like a hairy pussy. I also like bald ones, trimmed ones, landing strips, hitlers, etc.
The one thing i don't like though is if a woman lets it grow and it gets to be about 3 or 4 inches long.
Yikes.
Or the ones that grow EVERYWHERE down there.