Chat Does my favourite MPA like me or not???

[OG_funguy]

AND WHY I NEVER GET A RICH OLD LADY TO SUCK IT ????

Because you talk too much

 

[Deleted member 79939]

Because you talk too much

THAT'S IT ====== THAT IS THE CAMEL THAT BROKE THE RIVER NILE. I A FED UP WITH ALL THIS PROFESSOR INSULTS .
I WILL START A TREAD ON CAMEL TOES. SWEATY ONES.

 

[OG_funguy]

Wow, had a recent bout of nostaligia. This was one of my earliest posts and looking back, I was quite innocent back then lol.

When Covid hit, my original "honey" stopped working and we slowly lost touch with each other (of course, I kept hobbying during Covid).

Well recently I popped into a spa and lo and behold, there was honey lol. We talked for a bit but I didn't stay for a session....I guess we had both moved on.

 

[Happyman]

It's a mixed feeling to be friendly with a MPA. I told you that I feel some of the MPAs I used to visit frequently got cold with me because I have not been their client for a long while. This is not a good feeling for me, I don't know why. I saw Coco/SL last week and she came to give me a hug ( a short one this time versus a long warm one). I felt bad and thought that I should visit her soon. Sounds naive, but we are human!

 

[hangul99]

Wow, had a recent bout of nostaligia. This was one of my earliest posts and looking back, I was quite innocent back then lol.

When Covid hit, my original "honey" stopped working and we slowly lost touch with each other (of course, I kept hobbying during Covid).

Well recently I popped into a spa and lo and behold, there was honey lol. We talked for a bit but I didn't stay for a session....I guess we had both moved on.

Like the song goes.

You've Lost That Lovin' Feelin

Lol!

 

[xtc27]

It's a mixed feeling to be friendly with a MPA. I told you that I feel some of the MPAs I used to visit frequently got cold with me because I have not been their client for a long while. This is not a good feeling for me, I don't know why. I saw Coco/SL last week and she came to give me a hug ( a short one this time versus a long warm one). I felt bad and thought that I should visit her soon. Sounds naive, but we are human!

If they c 6 guys/day, say 25 wk… I mean how’d they remember us after 2 or 3 mos?

Some do… but I don’t get my feelings hurt if they don’t.

I’ve had girls I’ve actually fucked that I can’t remember…. A blessing sometimes!

… I saw Clara @ Bellagio after over 3 mos… I deliberately avoided her after she cancelled my apptmnt back then… anyway, she had stuff going on, decided 2 try her again… & she remembered even some stuff I thot she’d forget…

… stuff Lucy didn’t no, so no chance Clara got reminded….

So sometimes 4 whatever reason they really do have an xxxtensive memory 4 men …

 

[kittyhound69]

They have selective memory

 

[Average_Olivia@Premier]

It's a mixed feeling to be friendly with a MPA. I told you that I feel some of the MPAs I used to visit frequently got cold with me because I have not been their client for a long while. This is not a good feeling for me, I don't know why. I saw Coco/SL last week and she came to give me a hug ( a short one this time versus a long warm one). I felt bad and thought that I should visit her soon. Sounds naive, but we are human!

It's all about the $ and you haven’t been putting enough of it in her pockets.

 

[OG_funguy]

She actually found a 'normal' job during Covid but I guess the money difference was too big and now she's back doing this line of work...I guess too many bills to pay and she was struggling with her legit job

 

[UsefulIdiot]

I think for a lot of us sex is at its' best where there is intimacy - more of the brain involved, not just basic drives. And since most "in spa love" goes nowhere, or worse, some hurt feelings are inevitable. I guess it is just the price we pay, and I think I have reached a point where I accept that. Great experiences, occasional heartbreak and drama. And the beat goes on ...

 

[Deleted member 101953]

Some quick background. I've seen many MPAs in the past, almost all work at semi-legit places. I'm really drawn to one in particular and have very strong feelings for her (I've been seeing her almost every week for the last couple of years). By all accounts, she is very average looking and most guys here would not even look twice at her. She's Asian, probably mid to late 40's (she won't tell me her age) and very traditional. Despite the profession she's in, she's actually quite inexperienced sexually (yes, I know this is hard to believe). In any event, I'm not drawn to her because of anything sexual related (even her massage is not that good LOL). Anyways, I know a lot of you have experience from being in similar situations so based on the facts below, please let me know if you think she has genuine feelings for me or if she is playing me just so I continue to see her.

Reasons why she might actually like me:

• She has told me many times that she has strong feelings towards me (I'm not naive and can usually tell if someone is genuine or not).
• Our sessions are very intimate and include both passionate and tender kissing as well as cuddling. We also have pretty deep conversations.
• No surprise here but she tells me that we do things that she doesn't do with anyone else (in case you're wondering this doesn't include FS or even BJ).
• I know her real name and birthday (in case this actually matters).
• We've gone out once and she insisted on paying for the venue. At the venue, there were many people that know her. I mean the "real" her, they have no idea she is an MPA. We had a great time together and no, there was no fooling around at all.
• She does nice things for me, for example sometimes after our session has ended, we'll just sit around and she'll feed me fruit or something.
• We chat regularly via IM and sometimes live so yes, I do have her number (and she claims I'm the only customer that has it).
• I asked for and she sent me photos of her younger self. She grew up in China without digital cameras so these are actually pictures of pictures.
• I don't tip her anything above the norm; when I do try to tip her more, she refuses.
• I've offered to buy her small things and she refuses.

Reasons why she might just be playing with me:

• Mixed messages. She knows I'm falling for her (yes, I'm breaking the golden rule) and basically encourages me to see other MPAs but then she'll send me a message saying she's afraid to lose me. Then a week later, she'll say not to see other MPAs. The constant back & forth is confusing.
• This is the big one. Except for the one time we went out, she has not agreed to go out again (except for her birthday which is coming up). When I ask why, she can't really offer up a good reason and avoids the topic. Now, she does know I'm married so that could be it (she has said before that if I was single, she would definitely date me). But if this was the case, why did she even go out with me that one time. Also, I recently asked again if it was because I'm married and she said no.
• So basically the only time I see her is during our paid sessions.

Sorry for the long post but I really would like to get your guys thoughts on this. Thanks.

Post 2023-24

Do you two still keep in touch with one another? If you do, I honestly think that's awesome. You have found a true gem bro. I think she actually likes you. Nothing wrong with that. We're only human..

 

[OG_funguy]

Post 2023-24

Do you two still keep in touch with one another? If you do, I honestly think that's awesome. You have found a true gem bro. I think she actually likes you. Nothing wrong with that. We're only human..

Not really...just some small exchange of messages on holidays and birthdays.

Like I said, I was still pretty new to this hobby when I wrote that...I was infactuated with her for a very long time.

Since then I have become much much closer with a few other girls...like on a different level altogether lol.

 

[LuckyShot]

Not really...just some small exchange of messages on holidays and birthdays.

Like I said, I was still pretty new to this hobby when I wrote that...I was infactuated with her for a very long time.

Since then I have become much much closer with a few other girls...like on a different level altogether lol.

Like becoming a Dad

 

[Deleted member 101953]

Not really...just some small exchange of messages on holidays and birthdays.

Like I said, I was still pretty new to this hobby when I wrote that...I was infactuated with her for a very long time.

Since then I have become much much closer with a few other girls...like on a different level altogether lol.

Ah, the don't put your eggs into one basket theory..

 

[OG_funguy]

Ah, the don't put your eggs into one basket theory..

Back then, I only liked her...I did see a few other girls from time to time but never felt anything with them.

Then one day, I met another girl, saw her every week and got close to her...then another...five years later and I'm still very close to them, way beyond a normal spa relationship...as well as a couple of others too....yes, including the 'pregnant' girl

But yeah, definitely don't put all your eggs in one basket...

 

[Deleted member 112428]

Back then, I only liked her...I did see a few other girls from time to time but never felt anything with them.

Then one day, I met another girl, saw her every week and got close to her...then another...five years later and I'm still very close to them, way beyond a normal spa relationship...as well as a couple of others too....yes, including the 'pregnant' girl

But yeah, definitely don't put all your eggs in one basket...

I read the original post and was like "wtf" acting like he's a teenager, then saw the date, LMAO

 

[Jumpin’ Jack Flash]

Back then, I only liked her...I did see a few other girls from time to time but never felt anything with them.

Then one day, I met another girl, saw her every week and got close to her...then another...five years later and I'm still very close to them, way beyond a normal spa relationship...as well as a couple of others too....yes, including the 'pregnant' girl

But yeah, definitely don't put all your eggs in one basket...

well it only took one egg to get you in your predicament

 

[OG_funguy]

well it only took one egg to get you in your predicament

Yeah yeah yeah...I guess I deserve all the cheap shots

 

[Jumpin’ Jack Flash]

Yeah yeah yeah...I guess I deserve all the cheap shots

Come on you love the attention. Why else would you share this with everyone online.

 

[OG_funguy]

Come on you love the attention. Why else would you share this with everyone online.

It can get dull in here sometimes...shared that in near real time because it caught me by surprise lol

Guys need to be sharing their stories more...IMHO much more interesting than some of the other nonsense that people talk about on here