Failed Relationship with MPA

[Jessie62]

With girls from this business it does not matter if they have a good heart, it does not matter if they do not want to lie and cheat, they cannot help doing it because that is all they know. That is why there are no happy endings. You can meet a girl from this business who has some good qualities but in the end she will disappoint you because she has chosen a lifestyle that makes it impossible to act like a normal decent person, and even if she wants to she got all her bad habits at a young age and she is not going to change.

fully agree. they are lazy, but try to get more money without working hard.

 

[cupcrazy]

fully agree. they are lazy, but try to get more money without working hard.

just book a session and your dose of GFE from it.

 

[Daytime Lover]

Nobody here wants to name names but I’ll do it. I didn’t fall for her but 2 guys I share info with did.. AT THE SAME TIME. She strung them along like nobody’s business. Both were in denial at first. One finally wised up but it cost him a lot. The other broke off contact with me because he didn’t want to hear what I had to say. I think she still has him wrapped around her finger.

I said I’d give the name and here it is:

Bella from Muse.

Be careful with this one. Let down your guard and she’ll eat you alive.

Now, to wait for the white knights to attack..

When I saw this guys post I had to sign up because it was very easy for me to figure out who he is. This is the guy who’s obsession with Bella hit the level of stocker he clearly had fallen in love with her or something and was trying to buy her affection this guy even went as far as moving into the building where she lives (she posted about this on Twitter) because she told him where she was living because she trusted him at that point, clearly that was not a smart thing to do. This guy has also sent me a letter trying to turn me off of her and even in the letter said let’s get her and I never responded to him because I know he’s fuckin nuts. Bella and I have always been close friends and never once did I feel like she was using me and I’ve never share any info with anyone about us. Our relationship was pretty simple we were two humans who like to go out and have fun so we did. I bought her gifts, yes why because that’s just the type of person I am and never once have I felt I needed to or she manipulated me too. I did get divorced in the period where I knew Bella but that marriage was long over a while before she came into the picture, did she encouraged me to leave absolutely not actually she did the opposite she help me get through it like a friend and wanted to make sure that I tried everything to work it out and not to do it unless I was totally sure that’s what I wanted, you can think what you want of her but she really does have a kind heart. So when I saw this guys post I knew it was him from the name he chose to the fact that he put his birthday in his profile here the same as her birthday the guy is mentally ill and needs a lot of help!! I couldn’t let this guy drop her name like that when I know it’s bullshit it’s really disturbing that this guy can’t go away and leave her alone. Bella and I have always been close and like any close relationship we had disagreements but I never shared any info about us with anyone in the hobby. I know this guy is her stalker, I think if anyone should be warned about being eaten alive it’s the ladies about this guy. The girls out there should be careful with this guy because he crosses every line out there. I’m only writing this so you guys know the real story and I know this is going to be bashed and probably me too but I didn’t want people to think I was one of his “friends” he was talking about and I want to clear up that he is talking about himself not his friend because he has been stalker her for years.

 

[stripfan]

How much do you spend on Bella per month?

 

[Boston Man Chowder]

With girls from this business it does not matter if they have a good heart, it does not matter if they do not want to lie and cheat, they cannot help doing it because that is all they know. That is why there are no happy endings. You can meet a girl from this business who has some good qualities but in the end she will disappoint you because she has chosen a lifestyle that makes it impossible to act like a normal decent person, and even if she wants to she got all her bad habits at a young age and she is not going to change.

I always believe in a good redemption story so maybe if they left the business for good, then they may change that mindset but while she's in it, now isn't the time to try to woo her and make an honest woman out of her.

 

[King Arthur]

Bella and I have always been close friends

Our relationship was pretty simple we were two humans who like to go out and have fun so we did. I bought her gifts, yes

Bella and I have always been close and like any close relationship we had disagreements .

lolz lolz lolz lolz lolz

 

[Ursus]

No sex worker is your friend.

They are Predators.

You are the Mark.

Get it through you thick, simple mind.

 

[Leviathan]

Ursula knows very well he got used and abused like a naive puppy by his love Asian Angela and Sweet Alice

No sex worker is your friend.

They are Predators.

You are the Mark.

Get it through you thick, simple mind.

 

[Leviathan]

No sympathy. Don’t you think Bella should take some ownership and accountability who she engages as “friends or business associates.” You play with fire you get burned especially putting your trust with fanboys, customers, MPAs and owners.

Poor Judgement. You put yourself in the public eye (social media) you deal with consequences.

Takes 2 to tango?

Lord Kray

When I saw this guys post I had to sign up because it was very easy for me to figure out who he is. This is the guy who’s obsession with Bella hit the level of stocker he clearly had fallen in love with her or something and was trying to buy her affection this guy even went as far as moving into the building where she lives (she posted about this on Twitter) because she told him where she was living because she trusted him at that point, clearly that was not a smart thing to do. This guy has also sent me a letter trying to turn me off of her and even in the letter said let’s get her and I never responded to him because I know he’s fuckin nuts. Bella and I have always been close friends and never once did I feel like she was using me and I’ve never share any info with anyone about us. Our relationship was pretty simple we were two humans who like to go out and have fun so we did. I bought her gifts, yes why because that’s just the type of person I am and never once have I felt I needed to or she manipulated me too. I did get divorced in the period where I knew Bella but that marriage was long over a while before she came into the picture, did she encouraged me to leave absolutely not actually she did the opposite she help me get through it like a friend and wanted to make sure that I tried everything to work it out and not to do it unless I was totally sure that’s what I wanted, you can think what you want of her but she really does have a kind heart. So when I saw this guys post I knew it was him from the name he chose to the fact that he put his birthday in his profile here the same as her birthday the guy is mentally ill and needs a lot of help!! I couldn’t let this guy drop her name like that when I know it’s bullshit it’s really disturbing that this guy can’t go away and leave her alone. Bella and I have always been close and like any close relationship we had disagreements but I never shared any info about us with anyone in the hobby. I know this guy is her stalker, I think if anyone should be warned about being eaten alive it’s the ladies about this guy. The girls out there should be careful with this guy because he crosses every line out there. I’m only writing this so you guys know the real story and I know this is going to be bashed and probably me too but I didn’t want people to think I was one of his “friends” he was talking about and I want to clear up that he is talking about himself not his friend because he has been stalker her for years.

 

[pluto101]

No sex worker is your friend.

They are Predators.

You are the Mark.

Get it through you thick, simple mind.

Krayjee, get out of your slum apt spend some time in the sun with your grandkids. Lol


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[tnycman]

I have posted here in the past about an MPA, where we were dating and I was blindsided when she told me she as an MPA.. It was very dramatic, and I took it on the chin from many of you with the complexity of the situation, and her transitioning to a normal life.. Fast forward to March, 2019 and all I can say based on my experience is an MPA who leaves the biz, is never really fully out of the biz, as there is always a special client list for extra revenue when needed and I am sure many of you get my drift, I found out the hard way.

Enjoy this hobby for what it is, and DO NOT get involved with these woman outside the spa expecting a fairytale ending as it takes a toll on your health. I may get crucified for this but, even woman that leave the biz (NOT ALL), are damaged goods and continue with some of their patterns such as lying for 1 and the rest is connect the dots.

I am starting to hobby again with a chip on my shoulder, and for those of you on the fence with having feelings for a MPA, or an MPA ready to exit the biz do yourself a favor and avoid this situation all together and just enjoy things for what they are and set your expectations to (– 0). If you have the time and money to invest along with unlimited stomach medications then go for it.


Will be providing some reviews in the coming days, as I am going on a spa visit blitz this weekend .

So you tried to turn a hoe into a housewife?



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[Kawailuvr]

When I saw this guys post I had to sign up because it was very easy for me to figure out who he is. This is the guy who’s obsession with Bella hit the level of stocker he clearly had fallen in love with her or something and was trying to buy her affection this guy even went as far as moving into the building where she lives (she posted about this on Twitter) because she told him where she was living because she trusted him at that point, clearly that was not a smart thing to do. This guy has also sent me a letter trying to turn me off of her and even in the letter said let’s get her and I never responded to him because I know he’s fuckin nuts. Bella and I have always been close friends and never once did I feel like she was using me and I’ve never share any info with anyone about us. Our relationship was pretty simple we were two humans who like to go out and have fun so we did. I bought her gifts, yes why because that’s just the type of person I am and never once have I felt I needed to or she manipulated me too. I did get divorced in the period where I knew Bella but that marriage was long over a while before she came into the picture, did she encouraged me to leave absolutely not actually she did the opposite she help me get through it like a friend and wanted to make sure that I tried everything to work it out and not to do it unless I was totally sure that’s what I wanted, you can think what you want of her but she really does have a kind heart. So when I saw this guys post I knew it was him from the name he chose to the fact that he put his birthday in his profile here the same as her birthday the guy is mentally ill and needs a lot of help!! I couldn’t let this guy drop her name like that when I know it’s bullshit it’s really disturbing that this guy can’t go away and leave her alone. Bella and I have always been close and like any close relationship we had disagreements but I never shared any info about us with anyone in the hobby. I know this guy is her stalker, I think if anyone should be warned about being eaten alive it’s the ladies about this guy. The girls out there should be careful with this guy because he crosses every line out there. I’m only writing this so you guys know the real story and I know this is going to be bashed and probably me too but I didn’t want people to think I was one of his “friends” he was talking about and I want to clear up that he is talking about himself not his friend because he has been stalker her for years.

Imho Bella plays the sweetheart roll better than any women I have ever met ! She is a fucking snake lol
Never got the big hype about he honestly always found her to moderately attractive .
I agree he is probably a messed up guy but what did she do and how much did she suck out of the guy is the question , a whore that posts my birthday is coming in a few day son her Twitter is just a WHORE NOTHI G MORE NOTHING LESS BOYS
Watch out for pigs like that one lol

 

[Borntobewild7]

We should not be condescending about this, and thank the heavens that MPAs do exist when we need need a woman's touch. That being said, if you do get involved emotionally and it doesn't work out, you have only yourself to blame.

Over the years, I've developed friendships some MPAs and enjoyed totally platonic relationships outside the spa. I've had others that ended badly because I got emotionally involved and hurt in the process. But, as your post truly says...I was to blame. I didn't separate session from reality. The few MPAs and SPs I'm still friends with, I stop seeing as a client. We just hang out occasionally and text, as any friends do. No money involved. No expectations. We don't talk about work.

Active MPAs are in business. Lying is part of the fantasy we pay them for. Do we really want them to be honest in the room? We want to hear them say how good our touch is. That they're enjoying it sooo much. I don't resent them for it and don't think it's fair to categorically state it defines them as a person. Not all of them anyway.

Some of them can live a totally separate life and have normal friendships. Would I ever date one? No. Would I ever marry one? No. But, not because I think they're lying whores. I don't think that. I wouldn't because I have a great wife, that I actually love. Due to things we've both experienced in life we have an understanding about how I fill my needs. She's also ok that I'm friends with a few of the girls because she doesn't think they're whores either. They're girls doing a job. The problem for ALL parties is if I get emotionally involved.

 

[Leviathan]

Finally a mentally balanced and self aware hunter who can put things in perspective and man enough to take responsibility for ones decision when things goes wrong.

Over the years, I've developed friendships some MPAs and enjoyed totally platonic relationships outside the spa. I've had others that ended badly because I got emotionally involved and hurt in the process. But, as your post truly says...I was to blame. I didn't separate session from reality. The few MPAs and SPs I'm still friends with, I stop seeing as a client. We just hang out occasionally and text, as any friends do. No money involved. No expectations. We don't talk about work.

Active MPAs are in business. Lying is part of the fantasy we pay them for. Do we really want them to be honest in the room? We want to hear them say how good our touch is. That they're enjoying it sooo much. I don't resent them for it and don't think it's fair to categorically state it defines them as a person. Not all of them anyway.

Some of them can live a totally separate life and have normal friendships. Would I ever date one? No. Would I ever marry one? No. But, not because I think they're lying whores. I don't think that. I wouldn't because I have a great wife, that I actually love. Due to things we've both experienced in life we have an understanding about how I fill my needs. She's also ok that I'm friends with a few of the girls because she doesn't think they're whores either. They're girls doing a job. The problem for ALL parties is if I get emotionally involved.

 

[Proitalian1234]

Life in relationships is an interesting story. You know
For a fact that between true brothers and sisters you would
Get full support. because you were all brought up
Hopefully in a good family. You have to seek that out in your
Partner of life, if ever becoming serious, It's interesting to note
That when my wife made her decision of separation never did
She realize that my daughter decided to live with me. I won't
Go into the details, it was her decision. And she is still with
Me today. She trusts me as a guide in her life. That's what
A woman is looking for. Even if it's your own daughter.

 

[Markman2021]

I always believe in a good redemption story so maybe if they left the business for good, then they may change that mindset but while she's in it, now isn't the time to try to woo her and make an honest woman out of her.

They can change but the money is holding ye.baack from changing because. Theses girl walk away with 2000 grand a night some.time more and they work 4 days a week

 

[therealcole]

No sex worker is your friend.

They are Predators.

You are the Mark.

Get it through you thick, simple mind.

Says the dumb fuck who can not get over Asian Angela. What a lying piece of shit you are.

 

[Markman2021]

I have dated very good girl but I fucked up as I could not expect the fact that she was busting other cocks we deal for like 2 years she even bought me breakfast day gifts and she even shared pic personal pics when she is at home but I treated her like hoe and fucked up she got disappointed at the end she text me she said I am so disappointed you would

 

[felixami]

I have dated very good girl but I fucked up as I could not expect the fact that she was busting other cocks we deal for like 2 years she even bought me breakfast day gifts and she even shared pic personal pics when she is at home but I treated her like hoe and fucked up she got disappointed at the end she text me she said I am so disappointed you would

was this a real relationship?

 

[hangul99]

was this a real relationship?

I'm still trying to figure out what "breakfast day gifts" are.