Farewell Letter To My Dream TG

[smallvoice85]

Yes I guess its a big game to marry a tg, but its for shure a big game marrying a farang woman too.
If anyone have some numbers of devorces for farangs getting married to tg contra farangs married fg`s, it would be interesting.
We also have to remember that (sorry to say) a lot of the farang men that get married to tg`s are not to good. Some are alcoholics and abusers.
I red in a norwegian newspaper that most of the tg`s that devorce their husbands are getting abused, and the farangs promisses of a better life for the tg`s and their children are just empty words.

So for farangs that want to marry a tg, dont promisse things you can not keep. And let her know about your economical situation in your homecountry, and try to fill her in with prices and liveing-costs where you live.
Then she will for shure find it expensive, and be more carefull spending money.

This summer my tgf visited me for 2 months and I let her know everything about my expensive country. When we went to buy food I allways told her the costs in bath, and she wanted to put some of the food back as it was to expensive. I gave her my creditcard to go shopping, but she wouldnt go. She told me to save the money so I can stay longer on my next trip to Los.

I guess its her plan to make me love her, and she know that I was testing her in Norway. So it will be fun to se how things works out when I go back to los for 6 months in November.

 

[good y tu shoes]

I think it depends on the family since I also know girls who got dowry more than one time.

 

[meeeee09]

Well as my finale, I am thinking of posting a picture of my girl. I don't really have a way of first asking her if its okay with her so I hesitate to do so. So with that it may be awhile or I just might post one anyhow.

I wish you could have seen her Nicke, she is really a beautie. Your girlfriend got to see her. The guys at the Bunny Bar were hitting up on her while I was there! Damn dogs, geez if only I could bring her here to the US of A!

 

[RainChimp]

I totally have to disagree with your opinion of that bargirls are careless and totally shite to their spouses or children. If I see what my wive does for her and mine kids then there are about a zillion other american african european women that are more worthless than the shit that comes out of my ass. I know many people who are married so called happy but the they never see each other go their own way and don`t care about there family. I recently met a couple who got 3 kids with ages between 3 months and 5 years. They have nothing to eat. The kids are dirty but dad and mom can spend the whole weekend in the pub drinking away the last penny they`ve got. So at htat point who is shite then.

 

[Sally]

all the girls in all countries are the same. in my opinion, if you want to get involved with a bg, try to find one that hsnt been in the scene that long and isnt that jaded. can you imagine half the times these girls have been screwed over by farangs. im sure plenty of times and i guess they get to a point where they just go for what they can get. i dont fault thm at all!

 

[Raynah]

That girl called Pie on sweet singles is adorable :biggrinlo

 

[NevermoreFairy]

Well, in response to Stevem's advice and on thinking it over better, I won't be posting my sweetie's picture. It wouldn't be fair to her, plus, I don't want to "advertise" her and have all you horn dogs looking for her. She's just too precious to be in this business, really. Sorry boys. But you know theres so many fishies out there in Patong anyhow.

 

[Rebecca]

HI NICKE.........
I AGREE WITH YOU 100 %..
I HAD BOTH...........
BUT..........HAD MORE TROUBLE GETTING RID OF NON BG............
JONNY

 

[Iloveyou]

I keep in touch with my last BG/GF and it is very funny. Obviously, I dont believe evrythigh she tells me and I am sure she doesn't believe everything I tell her but I can see she is always happy when we speak together, even if she stays wit another BF. I try not to care so much about her work even if sometimes it is a little bit difficult for me. Strange to see how she can be jealous if I say that I have a GF in my country, even if she stays with another man.

I have met a couple of days ago a TG (not BG) on a date website and I speak with her every night now on Messenger. After only 3 days, she says that she loves me (I say same same ) and asks me if I want to marry her.

What I want to mean is that TG's (BG or not) tell us just what we want to hear. But I am sure they have feelings too. Maybe not the feelings we hope, but true feelings. Just have a look at any BG when she sees a child, and you understand how big is her heart. I never forget that Asian people are more opportunist, but are we different? If we talk to a good customer in our country, we tell him what he wants to hear too, no?

Everywhere, we can meet bad or good girls but I will always like TG's. It is one of the reasons why I like LOS beyond many more.

 

[MichealTracy]

Absolut true, loosing face makes thai woman sometimes really dangerous. But thai man also.

(i know what i`m talking about... )

 

[Llado]

This story was told to me by a FL I spent some time with.

She worked as a receptionist at a big engineering corporation in a city near BKK for 12 years, but when she was 32, they let her go, because they wanted someone younger and prettier to fill the position which just required greeting clients when they arrived and some phone duty. Unable to find employment, her and a friend borrowed some money and went to BKK to make their fortunes as FLs. Her first customer was a handsome farang from Germany who worked in BKK. He became her BF, and they saw each other every day for several months. She didn't go with other men, and he gave her just enough money to get by on, and she continued sharing a cheap room with her friend. One day when she went to see him, as she approached the building she saw him kiss a girl and he put her in a taxi and sent her off. When she got to his flat, she confronted him with what she saw and demanded an explanation. He told her that they were through, that he was in love with the other woman.

The next day she waited outside his building. When she saw the woman come out of the building, as her BF went to hail a taxi, she rushed the woman and stabbed her several times with a butcher knife before he was able to intervene and disarm her. The woman was hospitalized, but survived. The man was unharmed. My GF spent four months in prison. She wasn't my GF for too long after she told me that story, 'cause I was a bit scared of her after that, although I took care not to let her know!! mg:

 

[TIM_TAM_09]

Where did you met this "chat-girl?"

Here is one I like:
http://www.sweetsoulmate.com/mar02new.html

 

[Eclipse]

It's a shame (and lucky for us?!?) how Thai girls they blame the "other woman" 100% for the cheating guy's decision to change partners.

I've known couples with cheating husbands, whose new girlfriends have called, asking the wives to divorce their husbands, so that the new girl could have him free and clear. Some girls have bigger balls than we do!

 

[Magic But Mediocre]

I'm two weeks into my return from Phuket and I have a TG
there who I spend most of my time with when I'm there and I can relate to the feeling of attachment, especially if they aren't a very experienced bargirl and have a good heart. But I tell myself even if I could bring her to the states I'm positive the honeymoon period would wear off quicker than with any American girl I could meet. She would only know you and have no friends or any means to get about your home country........she would be miserable.

And at the end of the day you would still want someone you could really talk to about common interests other than the fact that you "love" each other and your good hearts.

Everyone gets old and breaks down, you need a companion with a common frame of interests and background thta you can communicate with about other things than sex and money.

 

[Kelle]

Wow Tintin, you found a top model. What a cutie.

The girl I chat with is on http://www.face-pic.com/nan_thailand

:cheers:

 

[Kristin B]

and there i was giving you names and locations of girls i have had that you liked
;(
steve

 

[Sky Daddy Bingo]

I pretty much agree with Marc's point of view. Sure, how many BGs ask you if you want to marry, take them to your country after you've known them 2 days? But they know most all men will disappear, never to be heard from again. But the how many time do you read the post where Nicke or Geespot or someone else or someone's BG says two girls from my bar getting married, going to Europe. So they keep trying because they never know if you might be the one who says yes. It's crazy but sometimes it works for them. When they go there, maybe happy, maybe not, just like any couple, Thai or farang, some have happy life, some not!

Heywood, Very beautiful quotes!!!!!

Steve, Quote for you: "Life is Suffering." Buddha

 

[rad!]

ULL KNOW BETTER THE NEXT TIME STEVE....................

 

[Catprints]

Holy mother of God this chick is REALLY HOT! Of course she is a model and a good girl and wants falang husband however somehow she looks like someone that I met about three weeks ago at Angels Disco.......

Seriously, if you guys are seriously looking for a nice girl that works for long term relationship you should explore dating Japanese women. Japanese chicks have a fairly adjusted western point of view, many are really cute, they are mostly well educated, very polite, have good manners, nice in the sack, loyal to their husbands and at least in LA, Florida and New York they are all over the place. Just my two cents

 

[Frud]

Agree on all, but that education and "fairly adjusted western point of view" can be a real pain in the ass sometimes. Ever get the impression that Japanese girls think they know everything?...