GF in Shenzhen -what do you think about it?

[Nathaniel G]

asiatraveller , it's in my opinion a very WISE post. Why ?
1) I'd rather be with a slightly less attractive girl who provides good communication and coversation. I think it does add a dimension. Of course, his isn't to say Logi's girl isn't top class.

- Yes , she isn't a top class but how do you define it ?! Pretty? Inteligent?
Open at the first sight for sex?
Well , communication and conversation is very important !! We've got it.


2) p4p is not a problem in China. But it's not the same.

3) I think we're transmitting/receiving "on the same frequency" ..

 

[Kay]

Logiznam - You said you just want to have sex with her....dude, you're in Shenzhen! Why the hell do you want to waste your time and money trying to have sex with an old dried up (probably virgin and boring in the sack) 28 year old women? There's hundreds of young pretty Chinese pussy in Shenzhen!

Most women have already decided whether she's going to have sex with you or not in the first 5 minutes of meeting her. So, we know that you worked with her for quite a long time and in my opinion most likely she's not going to have sex with you but what she'll do is treat you like an ATM machine like a bank!

She agreed to go with you to Macau because you're paying for everything....free hotel acommodation, free dinner, free this free that!). She's an opportunist and uses men for their money. I wouldn't be surprised that after the trip to Macau with you and not putting out after you've spend alot of money wining and dining her...all you're going to get from her is a fuckin' thank you and maybe a kiss on the cheek Good luck with her. If i were you i'm backing out.

 

[Asad A]

Of course , I treate her with a very big respect. And in fact , thats the reason why I have opened this thread. I understand , there are (I think so)
a cultural differences between Europeans and Asians and I simply don't want to make her feel like a slut. But of course I don't want to be kicked off.
In Europe for instance , it's not a problem. It often happens that girls are making first step. Making the test you've suggested , yeah good idea.
However , I'm affraid mentioning in the email about staying in the same room
(even in a joking way) could make her feel , I treate her as a slut.
Maybe I should simply improvise on place?! Anyway , thks for your advice.

 

[Oh Bob Saget!!]

Logiz, the girl agreeing to go to Macau with you for the weekend is a good sign. I had a similar situation and did the following: Test her by casually mentioning in your next email if it will be ok if both of you stay in the same room and share the same bed. Tell her you will stay on you side but (in a joking way) tell her not to get mad if during the night you roll over and hug her in your sleep. If reply, "don't worry" or gets more suggestive, then you are good to go. Lastly, be a gentleman (to a degree) at first so as to have her feel like a slut.

 

[samra]

I agree with plaboy's last two comments - I'd rather be with a slightly less attractive girl who provides good communication and coversation. I think it does add a dimension. Of course, his isn't to say Logi's girl isn't top class.

I disagree with the idea that 28 years old is ancient as suggested on here. Perhaps in Western countries. It could just be me, but I find it difficult to tell the ages of Chinese girls. I haven't met any 28-30 year old girls in China whom I thought "she would have been good 10 years ago". If they looked good at 18, they still look good at 28. If she looks bad today, it's because she always looked bad. It's a non-issue. It might matter in the USA or Europe, but not in China. I reckon Chinese girls hold their age really well.

The suggestion she is a gold-digger is good advice though. It's always good to beware of these vile creatures.

 

[East Bay Punk Mafia]

So what do you want : a good fuck , or a good conversation ?[/QUOTE]

I agree with Fridolin - straight to the point and assertive. He's right - a good fuck or a good conversation. You can't have both....just fuckin' pick one.

 

[stargirl]

Of course sex only. I agree with you that a long distance relationhip couldn't work. Anyway , thanks for your advice.

 

[Fancy Pants]

What;s wrong with a good fuck and good conversation??[/QUOTE]

Well Playboy - let me tell you what's wrong. After a good fuck with a woman, most men just want to be left alone...there will be no hugging, spooning, cuddling after a good fuck period! We just want her to shut up or leave the room.

 

[Krystyn H]

Take her out on 3 dates and if she doesn't put out then kick her ass out! Do you want to have sex with her or start a relationship? Long distance relationships never work out.

 

[Coconut Guy]

I also sense this girl is a gold diggin' whore...maybe Some girls just wants the fuckin' attention, free hotel, dinner, wine and dine paid for by the man as always I really think Logizman can get younger prettier girl than this 28years old turkey neck and he'll probably have a better fun time with a younger girl than an older one.

 

[Yeehawfreesex]

just treat her like any other female. to tell u the truth if nothing has happened yet its not looking too good.

better get to it before u become a "friend".

 

[As hatred sinks in]

So what do you want : a good fuck , or a good conversation ?[/QUOTE]


What;s wrong with a good fuck and good conversation??

 

[Anish]

No , she's not a type of a woman who whants to show how precious she is.
On contrary , she's well educated and .. modest and polite !![/QUOTE]

So what do you want : a good fuck , or a good conversation ?

 

[Snob 2 (Suspended)]

Hi ,

Two months ago I've been in Shenzhen , visiting for the firs time the company
that we have already business relations since 2 years. The sales assistant
who was responsible rof business relations with me (let's name her Alice)
is so beautifull, gentle and inteligent person. She's 28 , I'm 20 years older.
What I know , she's single , no hubby or BF at the moment.

During my visit there have been established between us a very friendly
relations. A few nice evenings , talking about everything (almost) but
nothing has happened between us - you know what I mean. However ,
I wanted to , but I was to shy to make any proposals.

She told me during my visit that within few days she will not serve me as
a sales assistant bacause she has found another job. Pitty , I said to myselve. Anyway , we still have a contact by email EVERDAY (private).

On August , I go to China again. I've called her and I said that I would like
to invite her for a weekend to Macau. She said , OK.

Anyway , I still don't know how to behave as I will meet her.
What could I expect? Give me advice please.
In Europe , I wouldn't have such a problem.

Regards ,

Logiznam

 

[Girl you dont know]

The girlfriend experience comprises more than just great sex. I enjoy the times when I find some one that I can have great sex and good communication with....It adds another dimension to the adventure. Good luck, and have fun!
I'm in Shenzhen next week meeting with some prospective one of the reps that I've been in email contact is a female: hope that she is beautiful, and I'm as lucky as you