Question Going rate?

[Love2Massage]

What's the going rate for a semi/legit massage? Just a good massage w/hj?
Thinking of getting back into it, but only considering massage/full body, nothing else.
I got bills to pay lol
I'm curious.

 

[bigbill]

Many are now asking $80 for the hour and $60 for the ending. I stick to those charging $40 for the ending. $120 total is my max budget

 

[Love2Massage]

That's what I was thinking.

 

[CU4FUN]

Many are now asking $80 for the hour and $60 for the ending. I stick to those charging $40 for the ending. $120 total is my max budget

That’s what I normally pay sometime less time but more happy

 

[Wills_willie]

As above, 80 for the hour. But I always give 60 for the HJ plus 20 for topless, plus 20 for nude and body slide. And we go from there. All depends on the menu for each particular masseuse.

 

[Bullet]

As above, 80 for the hour. But I always give 60 for the HJ plus 20 for topless, plus 20 for nude and body slide. And we go from there. All depends on the menu for each particular masseuse.

That seems to be the rates here, and that is what I pay in CowTown

 

[Bob the Knob]

$80 for massage and $40-60 for extras has been the rate for many years now

 

[socalguy]

I've always been firm on $40 for HE and $80 for body slide and no one has ever said no.

 

[Love2Massage]

Eh yeah.... I'm not into all those extras. Hence why I'm reluctant to get back I to it, i hate be pestered for more or grabbed by clients. Just enjoy the f'ing massage with a finish lol

 

[Shaadows]

My main reason for going is a good massage ... a hj to finish off, bonus, but if the provider is indifferent or totally 'mechanical' about the hj, I would rather skip it, as for me it can take away from what could be an amazing session ...

 

[Wills_willie]

My main reason for going is a good massage ... a hj to finish off, bonus, but if the provider is indifferent or totally 'mechanical' about the hj, I would rather skip it, as for me it can take away from what could be an amazing session ...

Agreed. A good massage with a nice finish with no stress is appreciated. Annie at Stony Medical Massage does an awesome job.

 

[MASSAGE.MAESTRO]

Eh yeah.... I'm not into all those extras. Hence why I'm reluctant to get back I to it, i hate be pestered for more or grabbed by clients. Just enjoy the f'ing massage with a finish lol

If you are one to wait for them to ask, and you agree....just set the boundaries up front.

Also remind them: the moment their hairy palms start trying to crossing over to the promised land, you will be parting the Red sea that is your doorway. From there, you will be kicking their sorry banned ass out...and your massage table will be a Never Neverland for their happy ending dreams.

 

[MASSAGE.MAESTRO]

That's what I was thinking.

As a Caucasian provider, you would have no problem charging $60 and keeping regular h/e customers. The number of Asian RMT providers versus Caucasian RMT providers must be like 50/2.

Likewise, when they provide a basic h.j. for $60, they usually will get few loyal customers. Ultimately, it's a cultural bargaining tool: they start high, hoping you will pay $60. Or, if they know you're are a regular, they will ask you "what the other girls charge you", to compete internally for your business. There are a few regular contributors on here, who draw the line in the sand at $40, right from the first visit, or at the very least...after, subsequent visits.

 

[bigbill]

Eh yeah.... I'm not into all those extras. Hence why I'm reluctant to get back I to it, i hate be pestered for more or grabbed by clients. Just enjoy the f'ing massage with a finish lol

That sucks. I've never touched a masseuse without first asking, and I rarely ask for more than a HJ unless we've developed a rapport and you've made it clear there is more to be had. People need to be considerate. But, people suck.

 

[Love2Massage]

Just an FYI, I'm not accepting bookings.

 

[tklterry]

AS I wrote in a previous discussion if one begins with a new provider and you gently put your hand on the back of their calf you are not groping them but give the opportunity for the provider to say "I don't like that"
Then as long as you are intelligent enough to to respect their limits then you and the provider can enjoy a nice session

 

[bigbill]

If my hand is on the edge of the table and they grind their crotch on it, well, that's a pretty positive sign. Otherwise, I ask.

 

[deepbrowneyes99]

Just an FYI, I'm not accepting bookings.

Noted…..

Was always wondering if you ever got your direct billing… sort of irrelevant now

 

[CU4FUN]

If my hand is on the edge of the table and they grind their crotch on it, well, that's a pretty positive sign. Otherwise, I ask.

That’s the approach I have the best luck with

 

[distinguished.gentleman]

AS I wrote in a previous discussion if one begins with a new provider and you gently put your hand on the back of their calf you are not groping them but give the opportunity for the provider to say "I don't like that"
Then as long as you are intelligent enough to to respect their limits then you and the provider can enjoy a nice session

tlkterry, I have to disagree with you. In my opinion, if you put your hand on their calf, that's groping. It doesn't matter what body part it is. As Bigbill noted, if you want to touch, you should ask.