Chat Goodbyes from MPAs

[UsefulIdiot]

just curious is it safe to do 69/DFK/BBBJ at a massage parlour? I am a newbie so please dont troll me. Just asking question to the experienced users.

You always take a risk when seeing a sex worker (or a civilian). It comes down to what level of risk you are comfortable with. So far so good for me. Apart from a urine infection I got from my first adult girlfriend I have not contracted anything. An argument could be made that by indulging in this risky behavior you strengthen your immune system (which would explain how sex workers can go for years without problems). As soon as I wrote the last sentence I thought about deleting it. I will leave it in to make the point that I am just a guy with opinions, not a doctor, so take what is written on Massage Planet with a huge grain of salt. Reckless people live stupid lives, and people who do not take chances never really live.

 

[xtc27]

just curious is it safe to do 69/DFK/BBBJ at a massage parlour? I am a newbie so please dont troll me. Just asking question to the experienced users.

… just wanna chime in w what @UsefulIdiot says…. Totally agree… just like 2 add, bbbj = not riskfree, but its not as crazy as bbfs… what hobby = riskfree? Oh yeah, stamp collectng… I mean fun hobbies ofc…

bbfs = very hi risk of stis … yer hi school health class didnt lie…

bbbj = some risk, but… if gal looks healthy, no sores on her mouth etc, doesnt do bbfs w strangers… well, Ive nvr caught anything worse than uti (which clears up but speed it along w cranberry juice) , & lotsa dudes on this board & others say the same…

DFK? Likely a bit more risky in truth… same rules as above, plus no d’uh, bad breath , stay away… definitely u can catch flu, rsv & stuff f/ kissing that u likely avoid if she just blows u… anyway, u likely catch that just being in rm w her…

So while unprotected mouth sex has risk, its not crazy… any gal been in biz awhile & seems healthy likely nose what shes doing…

 

[cali99]

I have seen just about every topic covered here that relates to the sex work. It occurred to me this morning that I have not seen anyone post about the goodbye part of sessions. You just had a good time, got dressed, paid and made your way to the front door. Every MPA handles it differently. Some just disappear, some are impatient for you to leave, most will linger near the front door, be friendly and ask you to come back, some will give a hug or a kiss as you leave. Sometimes they introduce you to the others working there. Some MPAs leave you feeling welcomed, others let you know they are done with you.

I am now a regular at Fantasy Spa, 437 Dundas West, in downtown TO, formerly known as SJ Wonder. So far I have been with Coco, Julia, Nancy, Eva and Nina. I have had great experiences with each of them. As far as I can tell it is Julia that sets the tone here. She is friendly, direct and funny. I usually go there close to closing time. When I leave most of the MPAs are just going off duty and the vibe is relaxed and friendly. When I left the last time, after being with Nina, Julia and Nancy where there and all three of them were friendly and joking. Julia made a show of grabbing at my ass and dick and asking me to fuck her next time (I usually just get 69, and I think she wants to get paid more). In a way it is weird to be around three women you have seen naked recently, who you know have talked about you (it was my first time with Nina and there was no discussion about service or price, she knew what I wanted already and how much I pay). The friendliness and the positivity of Fantasy Spa keep me coming back. A very good goodbye!

I guess MPAs have their own observations about how hobbyists say goodbye. Some of us leave with a feeling of shame and embarrassment, some feel disappointed, some are happy and chatty, some are polite and friendly, some hang around too long.

Random note: I have been with Coco a few times and she never remembers me. Despite that she is great every time. Julia and Nancy know me well and seem concerned when they have not seen me for a while. I have only been with Nina once, but I can tell that she keeps track of all her customers.

Good job ole chap!
sounds Like they are into you and hope it
continues down a good path for you!

for leaving:
the one thing about leaving is just fairly a simple thing most times I find and just a goodbye or small chit chat, see you next week kinda thing.


beware though!
Julia may invite you out for after work
conversations.

kudos and happy hunting!

 

[lasslicker]

My only complaint about one of my favorites, Eva Evanka, is that she is too strict about time. It is probably her German DNA (German and Japanese people are on time all of the time). Once your time is up you get the bum rush out the door. It is one reason I have not seen her in a while (another is that I like to get drunk and high before a session and she is not within walking distance of my house). Contrast this with conviviality of places like Oriental Spa and Fantasy Spa, where I often feel so welcomed that I want to return a day or two later.

FYI. Eva is actually Macedonian. She was always on the officious side, BUT could be given over to clients with serious $ to spend.

 

[Sajam Enjoyer]

Any genuine (or at least well acted) gestures of friendliness on the way out is good with me, it doesn't have to be the MPA getting her hands all over me to feel good while leaving. If its a simple hug done with care, some smiles and eye contact, I'm a happy camper. One girl gave me the warmest smile and softest eyes as I was walking out the room, never took her eye off me as I was leaving and even that made me feel good.

 

[lasslicker]

I was exiting a spa yesterday from the back door.. There was an outer fire door and an inner one leading to the spa, so my MPA had to unlock everything for my egress.

Between the two doors when I turned to say ciao, as we were completely isolated and off camera I ended up in a lovely embrace, kiss smile wave scenario which left the most indelible impression and immediate desire to return.

The privacy component allowed for unreserved action.

 

[snoopdoggie]

My only complaint about one of my favorites, Eva Evanka, is that she is too strict about time. It is probably her German DNA (German and Japanese people are on time all of the time). Once your time is up you get the bum rush out the door. It is one reason I have not seen her in a while (another is that I like to get drunk and high before a session and she is not within walking distance of my house). Contrast this with conviviality of places like Oriental Spa and Fantasy Spa, where I often feel so welcomed that I want to return a day or two later.

Sometimes I think clocks and watches are a burden to society. If it was up to me, I would outlaw timekeeping in order to rid life of needless stress. The world would be happier and healthier place if we weren't always rushing through things.

 

[snoopdoggie]

just curious is it safe to do 69/DFK/BBBJ at a massage parlour? I am a newbie so please dont troll me. Just asking question to the experienced users.

It depends on which Spa or girl you're with.

 

[The 6ix]

@UsefulIdiot What are the rates at the former SJ Wonder?

 

[UsefulIdiot]

@UsefulIdiot What are the rates at the former SJ Wonder?

$60 for the room for one hour. $100 for 69 with BBBJCIM, $150 for FS. Keep in mind I over-pay (which is probably why they like me and give such good service). Massage there is usually very good.

 

[The 6ix]

$60 for the room for one hour. $100 for 69 with BBBJCIM, $150 for FS. Keep in mind I over-pay (which is probably why they like me and give such good service). Massage there is usually very good.

Thanks for the response. How do the MPAs look, and do you get a choice?

 

[UsefulIdiot]

Thanks for the response. How do the MPAs look, and do you get a choice?

Age rage is 25 to 45, average looks, Julia has the best body, Coco is the most sensual, Nancy is great at everything. All are friendly. It is a busy place so I just take who is available.

 

[SuperSport]

One time departing a Spa, I was given one of the longest hug and kisses I ever had from any MPA,

or any of my wives for that matter (while standing ofc).

I left thinking I'm the new all time great Don Juan this side of the pond. Then some minutes later, I'm driving away,

and for some strange reason, almost a 6th sense feeling, I look at myself in the rear view mirror - I never do that.

To my total shock and surprise, on my cheek and across my face there's a bright as the sun red lipstick imprint

along with a smear that was so huge that it could easily be seen by other drivers through the windshield / side window.

There's a massive back ground to the story which continues to this very day, and my point is, be careful what you wish for.

 

[Flyingfox]

I have a similar experience

One of my goto girls loves to put on lipstick after the session but before escorting me out. In addition to a hug, she normally give me a few kisses on my lips before i go.
After one of my sessions with her, I went back to the office and after a working lunch, I realized i had a red lipstick imprint on the tissue I used to wipe my mouth.
I don't know whether my co-workers would have noticed the lipstick colour my my lips. I then took a picture of the tissue and show it to the girl at our next session. She now does not give me a goodbye kiss any more.

 

[xtc27]

I have a similar experience

One of my goto girls loves to put on lipstick after the session but before escorting me out. In addition to a hug, she normally give me a few kisses on my lips before i go.
After one of my sessions with her, I went back to the office and after a working lunch, I realized i had a red lipstick imprint on the tissue I used to wipe my mouth.
I don't know whether my co-workers would have noticed the lipstick colour my my lips. I then took a picture of the tissue and show it to the girl at our next session. She now does not give me a goodbye kiss any more.

Oh damn!

… story has unhappy ending!

 

[Cornjuggler]

Sometimes a good goodbye can override the post nut clarity shame.

 

[Cornjuggler]

I have seen just about every topic covered here that relates to the sex work. It occurred to me this morning that I have not seen anyone post about the goodbye part of sessions. You just had a good time, got dressed, paid and made your way to the front door. Every MPA handles it differently. Some just disappear, some are impatient for you to leave, most will linger near the front door, be friendly and ask you to come back, some will give a hug or a kiss as you leave. Sometimes they introduce you to the others working there. Some MPAs leave you feeling welcomed, others let you know they are done with you.

I am now a regular at Fantasy Spa, 437 Dundas West, in downtown TO, formerly known as SJ Wonder. So far I have been with Coco, Julia, Nancy, Eva and Nina. I have had great experiences with each of them. As far as I can tell it is Julia that sets the tone here. She is friendly, direct and funny. I usually go there close to closing time. When I leave most of the MPAs are just going off duty and the vibe is relaxed and friendly. When I left the last time, after being with Nina, Julia and Nancy where there and all three of them were friendly and joking. Julia made a show of grabbing at my ass and dick and asking me to fuck her next time (I usually just get 69, and I think she wants to get paid more). In a way it is weird to be around three women you have seen naked recently, who you know have talked about you (it was my first time with Nina and there was no discussion about service or price, she knew what I wanted already and how much I pay). The friendliness and the positivity of Fantasy Spa keep me coming back. A very good goodbye!

I guess MPAs have their own observations about how hobbyists say goodbye. Some of us leave with a feeling of shame and embarrassment, some feel disappointed, some are happy and chatty, some are polite and friendly, some hang around too long.

Random note: I have been with Coco a few times and she never remembers me. Despite that she is great every time. Julia and Nancy know me well and seem concerned when they have not seen me for a while. I have only been with Nina once, but I can tell that she keeps track of all her customers.

That place is great. Always reliable, they girls are usually okay, and they are always so nice. I love walking down those stairs after smelling the pussy and bootyhole on my fingers like a teenager.

 

[afroman102]

Thanks for the response. How do the MPAs look, and do you get a choice?

Thanks for sharing. Does Nina provide FS? Have you tried Emily.

Been with both, massage Nina is better but reserved a bit, did not have FS. Emily is super fan (but a bit tip hungry) and zero English .

 

[UsefulIdiot]

Thanks for sharing. Does Nina provide FS? Have you tried Emily.

Been with both, massage Nina is better but reserved a bit, did not have FS. Emily is super fan (but a bit tip hungry) and zero English .

I want to see both Nina and Emily again before I review them. I think I was in the wrong place mentally with each of them and need to see them when I am in a better frame of mind. They were both good but I will likely enjoy them more later.

I did not do FS with Nina, just 69/BBBJ. I did FS with Emily. Emily was a gentle teaser, which was frustrating, but it led to once of those drawn out and intense orgasms.

 

[garrett1976]

After what I still maintain is a vastly underrated massage compared to her other talents, I have often left DT Maggie's place with warm, lingering hugs and very expensive chocolate bars. Bottled water as well. Not too bad.