That is sooo true!! I have also been almost surprised how many offers I get from civilians, but as I have gotten older I have also gotten wiser. I usually turn these offers down since I know the motives and consequences are unwanted and not worth it.
When I was young, I was just happy to get sex. Now, I am far more picky and discerning.
. . . ohhh, maybe a touch of wisdom??
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