This definitely has been the most interesting thread I have ever read on mpnet. As the previous poster put it, certainly well above the typical "how many chicks i fucked and for how cheap" thread.
I just feel like putting some thoughts down on paper, and if some of the experienced folks are still reading this thread, I look forward to some responses. If this thread is dead, thats OK too, but thanks again for all the great stories.
I'm 34 now, and just spent the last 3 years living in the PI, working for an American company. I went through dozens, but certainly less than 100, Filipinas in my stay there. All of them were young 18 thru 26, and 90% were bar girls. I'm not predisposed to banging young girls, but the sad truth seems to be that Filipinas age so badly (when left in their own country, different story when you bring that back home) that I just never saw any decent looking girls over 25 or so. So I was "forced" to always bang the young ones. And because of that, I never found one at all I could "connect with" (except for a very specific 5.5" of my body). They were all too cute, too simple, and just didn't work for me. Even banging them got old in a hurry, because even though the girl might be 22 or 23, I could only lie next to her the next morning, with her grabbing at my nose saying "malibog" over and over before I started to feel like I was fucking 13 year olds.
Fortunately, the job I had allowed me to travel, intra-Asia, very easily. I could have gone anywhere, for about 10 days per month, with no airfare charge. So what did I do? Like most others, I feel into the LOS trap. I spent ALL my time off, about 10 days each month, in Thailand. Specifically, Bangkok. In 3 years of visiting Thailand almost every month, I only went to Chang Mai once, Pattaya twice, and Koh Samed once. The rest I spent in Bangkok, specifically Soi 4.
So I met a decent group of Thai bar girls, and fell into the same rut I was in when back home in the PI. The Thais were better looking to me (I prefer a taller, lighter skinned girl), but not necessarily better in bed. They were a little easier to "talk" to about about "grown up" things (when I could find the rare one that spoke good English), however, they were much harder to joke with and be funny around than the average Filipina. Filipinas love giggling at anything! So for my 3 years of visiting there, I didn't make any life progress. I banged a bunch of Thai bar girls, and one "normal" one. And while it was fun, I still feel as if something is missing.
Now, to bring things up to date, I'm moving to Hong Kong in June. I have the same type of job as before, where I can travel intra-Asia very easily and quite often. Since Thailand is still available, and I know bangkok very well, I want to avoid that trap again. I'm afraid I'll start heading to Bangkok on all my time off, just like I did when I was in the PI, and miss this place I've been dreaming about called "Tokyo".
This thread about "normal" girls in Tokyo has me all jazzed up. I've never even met a Japanese woman, let alone experienced one in bed. I really dig the way they can be a bit taller, white skinned, and plump in all the right places. I love the way everyone says a Japanese girl is the liekly the best lay you'll ever have. I like the way they are sexually open from the get go,and willing try more things than just missionairy or cow-girl style sex. I can symphathize with one poster who said he banged so many girls, he simply got bored of normal sex. That's how Im starting to feel too, so some kinky sex with a j-girl sounds great!
But Tokyo can be a bit of a scary place to go visit for the first time, solo, and speaking not one word of Japanese. I'm 34, and look, on my best day 29, so from what I've been reading Rappongi might not be a great bet. The names of the places that you guys are referencing while playing nampa are all Greek to me, I don't know thing one about that city.
For some starters, wheres a decent place to stay? In Bangkok, I know right where I want to stay on Sukumvhit, and have two favorite places, one for when I'm in the 75 bucks a night mood, and the other for when I'm in the 45 bucks a night mood. When I walk out the front door of NRT, where the hell do I even go for a place to stay for say, a week or 10 days? I don't know Thing One about Japan. After living in the PI and Thailand, basically all I wore, 365 days a year (when not a work) was khaki shorts, flip-flops (sandals) and a nice, untucked golf-type shirt. Thats what I would have brought to Japan for a summer time visit, had I not read this thread first. Again, thanks guys!!
My first goal will be simply to bang my brains out, as like I said before, Ive never even met a j-girl. But more longer term, I realize that I'm not getting any younger, and sooner or later I'm not going to be in my mid thirty's anymore. I'm going to be in my mid 40's. And then 50. You see how its going. Eventually, I don't object to a wife, though from my experiences with Filipinas and Thais, I pretty much rule them out as wife material. I'd like to eventually see if a j-girl would make a good wife (bringing her out of Japan of course, either to Hong Kong or the USA). But again, first, I just want to bang bang bang. I'd prefer "free" girls, but I fully understand about giving them some money the net day. But I'm open to P4P too.