Again those are the excuses of addicts to make things right. If you are so sure this is all very innocent, and compare going for sex to a game of golf, post your selfies with spa workers on facebook, tell to your colleagues or wifes how much fun you had. The excuses are no different from alcoholics who claim they can stop anytime, that it's all just a little fun, no harm done. Your neurological pathways are now hard wired to make you believe this behavior is normal.
The truth is that it is harmful behavior, and it does hurt others. And I can speak freely about it because I was that kind of person. I've been cheating on my wife for many years, spent household money on prostitution, that we could have used for better things. Because let's please be honest, we are John's visiting prostitutes, if you want to call it a hobby or massage, fine, delude yourself. I am done pretending. And it is an addiction, a road to nowhere. Studies have shown most sex addicts, like other addicts, need more and more stimulus, more frequent visits, to feed the need. The outcome is criminal activities, divorce, bankruptcy, severe depression, impotence (yes really), and suicide. It is a demon I am fighting every day.