Well my friend, I would suggest, you invest in two tantra sessions to get a real hands on idea on how you can apply this, keeping in mind that tantra coaching (with a real open mind) works best when you have a coach work with a couple! Unless, you have a very openminded and interactive tantra godess. These sessions will likely start at around 400 for two hours. I think that's the best you can do if you really want this kind of hands on work.