I'm late learning about this, but apparently, "Alexa di Carlo", the author behind The Real Princess Diary's blog was a guy posing as a sex worker/sex academic in San Francisco. He's been outed by the bloging community a few months ago.
Since I agree with a lot of what this blogger said, I thought I would let the community here know that the reference I gave in the OP was based on a fraud.
Since I agree with a lot of what this blogger said, I thought I would let the community here know that the reference I gave in the OP was based on a fraud.