How To Treat An MPA

[Kelso]

Good insight. Guys need to figure out what they want from the above list. And then choose an attendant with a matching personality and service style. Myself, I like the 'buddy type feel' and 'treat you like a King' girls. Its not about looks, its about their personality and how they treat the guys.

 

[aeroqueen]

Treat them like.... PEOPLE, sheesh.

Sure you won't be real boyfriends, or even just regular friends with them, in the sense that you'll hang out outside the MP. But as long as they treat you well, as most do, they deserve your respect.

Look at it this way; a waitress is paid to serve you food, their nice behavior towards you isn't a means to falsly become friends with you, and of course as we all know they have to be nice on the job. But that doesn't mean their show of niceness is entirely an act, in most cases that really is their nature, just peoples nature. So why not treat them with respect?

 

[CatsDogsFrogs]

Gonna go see my fave tomorrow. We have developed a relationship over time whereby my 'mileage' is not in question when I visit. Guaranteed to have smokin' hot fun.

I might even wear a Santa Hat on my dick ( if it will even fit on my head...). ...PMP laughing...

Just by-the-by.. How many of the previous posters are married?

Cheers,
Jack

 

[Chipmaker]

I'm not asking whether or not they should be treated with respect.

What I'm asking is in regards to the fact that some people seem to think of MPA's as girlfriends... while others think of them as a means to relieve some sexual tension.

 

[Khun Bob]

I'm single that's why I see MPAs. I too go to "drop my load" as some have put it. But with my repeat MPAs a relationship of sorts has developed. By no means do I consider these women girlfriends, but you get to know each other and this makes the experience much better. A personal connection with the girl always makes it better. My last two sessions have been incredible with one of my regular MPAs.

 

[Synsane]

I find it very irratating when a MPA rushes u to cum jsut to get it out of there, there are all after ur money, when has a MPA actually enjoyed the experience?

 

[moxy]

Reason for some with categories of S-friends, emotional support friends, and others to general hang-out with. Too much work to figure out who belongs in which category, imo. I just stick with 1 general catch-all, LF. (Ok, sex optional...)

P.S.: Pool's sig video is cute. La Isla Bonita...Ah, the good old days before they're famous.

 

[Mantis]

If its just about dropping a load you are missing out on the whole massage experience. E.g. I like an attempt at a massage and teasing before doing the deed. If a lady rushes to the conclusion I usually don't repeat. To me it's like renting an action movie and skipping to the car chase. Now at the same time I'm not suggesting you need to show up with flowers and take out her garbage and ask her how her day was but I find the best MPAs realize that the repeats come from providing a more holistic approach instead of just the release. If its just about the release may I suggest some of the cheap $40 places and skip attractiveness, customer service and the options.

I like 60 min sessions so that I can fully enjoy the experience rather than rushing it in 30 min. I mean especially if you like places like SRM and HFH. It'd be like going to a gourmet restaurant and wolfing down the $50 dollar steak and chugging the wine.

 

[Pompal 09.]

Whether you realize it or not it's more than about dropping the load otherwise why take the time choosing a MPA since at the end all of them can do the job. At the very least looks plays into the equation, so is that not just a fantasy that suits you? How you are treated also plays into it otherwise why would guys complain about mechanical or rushed sessions. IF getting your money's worth is a thought that crosses your mind then you are looking for more than just a release.

Personally, I think people who have to put down the MPA have issues. My own issue is that I believe in treating people well.

 

[Ann O]

JC.........I'm confused after having read your opening post and then comparing it with your latest. The first was just a little offensive and you were looking for a reaction. I kinda think you've been hurt by an MPA recently.


Does this post equal this???



Why didn't you say this in the first place and leave all the other stuff outside on the porch!! This is a pretty common question and a fair one. Personally, I have in the past developed some friendships with one or two MPAs. We have connected. They have told me quite a bit about themselves and I have told them some personal things about me. I have looked forward to each and every session. Those one or two remember things about me and I have good recollection of the things they've shared with me. We have developed a "comfort zone". I realize they are not girlfriends, that its part of the persona, they are human, have their goals and dreams and its also part of being professional. A means of relieving sexual tension, you betcha, but its more. Its the wait in the lounge, and some of the eye candy that catches your attention, its how hot she looks when you first see her, its catching up on things, the undressing, that first hug, her touch, the total experience.

 

[hellokity017]

I think we've found one of the three missing wise men.......nicely said frankcastle

 

[shadow95340]

Naw Mac if I was one of the three wise men I'd have enough mirth and frankensense (spelling?!?!!) to get all the slides that I want. Or at least the wisdom to get GFE and or PSE from the all the lovely ladies out there.

 

[Willy]

Mac just described how my sessions with my fav goes every time.
Treat them like the same way as you want to be treated by others.
After a long lay off recently, I went to see my fav MPA as I was feeling a bit down and a bit sore. She rectified both situtions, and I was on my way.

Just remember that they're doing a job that really takes a lot of courage. For this alone, I commend them.

 

[Rebecca A]

I get your point. I treat them as a means to relieve sexual tension, to fulfill a fantasy of making out with a gorgeous girl, on the flip side, they just treat us as someone who pays for their services, nothing more, they are not gonna miss you if you don't go back. Some guys may think they are really special to some MPAs (time for reality check, guys), well, that's their job, the good ones would make you think that way. Have to admit, there are always exceptions, albeit very few. If you get into the emotional game, you'll get hurt.

 

[Army Chick]

Seems funny that if mileage is what you want that you'd go see MPAs. On average you pay less for the same high mileage activities with SPs. Or if you don't care about looks go cruising around in some of the areas reknowned for hard street action (cheap high mileage and looks will not be available). I think the board has something about talking about street action so lets just say go either east or west of the downtown core and you'll find it in spades.

$60 will go pretty far but it will be like the massageplanet.net version of fear factor.

 

[The Man with No Name]

I think Jack Crack is right. They are machines. Deposit the money, get jerked off, depsoit alot of money frequently and they'll pretend to be your GF for an hour or so, and then forget about them. They jerk you off for money. There is no relationship in that. Do you really think that they give a shit about you? Have you guys ever heard their conversatios in the back rooms? They do talk about how pathetic some of you are. Do you guys not know this? And you guys want to treat them with respect and tenderness and caring, awwww it brings a tear to my eye. Danm alot of you must be really lonely. Man, no wonder why these girls are making so much money. there are so many chumps around.

 

[Pompal 09.]

I don't think any "experienced" client views an MPA as a GF... but there's no reason why a regular MPA can't be considered a good friend.... and treated accordingly.

I've met some fabulous ladies over the last couple of years, and look forward to their company each and every time

 

[Suzie Homemaker]

Come on Canam tell us who it was that fucked you over so terribly. How's that dictation software working for you?

 

[hollee w]

It's your money JC and only YOU can decide what really pleases JC.

My only concern for you is that "dropping a load and leaving" sounds great from a theoretical perspective but it's harder to initiate in reality.

If you come across as cold and aloof coz you don't want to know the MPA, she'll probably pick up on that and react accordingly.

Then you'll be wondering:

"Does she have a bad attitude, or has she just figured out I don't really give a shit?"

Also, I can tell you CATEGORICALLY if you get to know a regular MPA your service will increase exponentially. I'm not necessarily talking about mileage, but she'll know WHAT you like and HOW to please you...

You invest a little more but you get BACK more in spades....

It's something to think about

 

[Cathy]

If u treat them like jerk off machines they'll treat U like release machines..

Canam U sound like U never go to MP , if so why r u here on massageplanet.net
Common man stop pretending