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[Deleted member 89502]

What are your views on East Asian men?
Cause in dating, we are not as desired in terms of like online statistics but in terms of clients?

I feel confident in saying that I'm speaking for 99% of sex workers when I say that we don't care where you're from, what you look like, or what size your penis is.

The things that matter most to us are:
- Do you treat us like a human being?
- Are you clean?

Almost all gripes that sex workers have with clients comes down to a violation of one of those two things.

Edit: I don't know who told you you are not desirable. I would personally like to date a Japanese man - from what I know, respect is deeply ingrained into the culture and women are treated like women, not like donkeys.

 

[Deleted member 89502]

xoyourfriend,

I have enjoyed this thread and reading your thoughts. I believe you to be older than your stated age or perhaps you are just an old soul.
I believe you to be the type of woman that can look into a man's/persons eyes and see into their soul. You have been hurt, but survived. You are probably an only child or the oldest. You are a survivor.
At some point in your life, perhaps you were quite young, you were deeply hurt by someone close to you. It took a few years to consolidate your thoughts on this before you could move on.
You are solitary and brave but have insecurities you do not share with anyone.

I respect your anonymity and hope you continue to entertain us with your thoughts on life.

My question for you is what is your end game?

You are right on all counts except the consolidation of thoughts - that is an ongoing monologue.

I have no end game for this thread - this is strictly for entertainment purposes, as it were.

 

[Asslvr7777]

I feel confident in saying that I'm speaking for 99% of sex workers when I say that we don't care where you're from, what you look like, or what size your penis is.

The things that matter most to us are:
- Do you treat us like a human being?
- Are you clean?

Almost all gripes that sex workers have with clients comes down to a violation of one of those two things.

Edit: I don't know who told you you are not desirable. I would personally like to date a Japanese man - from what I know, respect is deeply ingrained into the culture and women are treated like women, not like donkeys.

So would you say it was the case that if a client was clean, polite, and respectful that their session will be just as spicy as an attractive rich client?

 

[playfulfun]

@xoyourfriend
Thank you for coming on here and answering these questions
If I overstepped in any question I asked i apologized.
I always treat any of the ladies I have seen with respect and like a woman should be.
I am a mature man who was brought up to be a gentleman.

You have added some entertainment to this board at a time when there is nothing interesting.
I would love to know who you are and take you for a coffee or something one day.
I do not expect you to tell me, just a wish or dream for me.
You are a very interesting person.
I am sure I have never seen you as I only go to the premier chain.

 

[Deleted member 89502]

So would you say it was the case that if a client was clean, polite, and respectful that their session will be just as spicy as an attractive rich client?

Define 'spicy'?

Some girls still won't give a "better" session to someone just because they are attractive - in fact, many girls think it's a turn off.

Universal rule in life, though - all other things being equal, the more attractive one wins. This isn't news.

 

[Deleted member 89502]

@xoyourfriend
Thank you for coming on here and answering these questions
If I overstepped in any question I asked i apologized.
I always treat any of the ladies I have seen with respect and like a woman should be.
I am a mature man who was brought up to be a gentleman.

You have added some entertainment to this board at a time when there is nothing interesting.
I would love to know who you are and take you for a coffee or something one day.
I do not expect you to tell me, just a wish or dream for me.
You are a very interesting person.
I am sure I have never seen you as I only go to the premier chain.

I will not be revealing my identity. Maybe we will cross paths one day organically.

Thank you for the compliments

 

[Asslvr7777]

Define 'spicy'?

Some girls still won't give a "better" session to someone just because they are attractive - in fact, many girls think it's a turn off.

Universal rule in life, though - all other things being equal, the more attractive one wins. This isn't news.

Can you explain what you are referring to above "in fact, many girls think it's a turn off." - which part is the turn off?

I have spicy to mean a hotter or more erotic massage experience. Not necessarily mpa extras but those items that are in the grey area....digits, lfk, bls etc.

When I had read or heard about other sessions with the same MPA and they sounded better than my session its a cause for dissecting YMMV.

The only different variable is essentially the customer/me or are there other factors?

Could I have done more (already clean and polite) for it to have lead to more? Or is strictly that is better looking guy with more in his wallet?

 

[Deleted member 66315]

Where you sexually assaulted growing up? What makes you able to do this to every guy with money?

 

[gcoogieben]

This is the closest I’ve ever witnessed anything close to a bukkake.

 

[xtc27]

I didn't understand your answer to your favourite car. What's an Elenor?

Do you feel the cock pulsating in your vagina when it's cumming?

Eleanor:

Eleanor (automobile) - Wikipedia

en.wikipedia.org

.

 

[felixami]

@xoyourfriend
Thank you for coming on here and answering these questions
If I overstepped in any question I asked i apologized.
I always treat any of the ladies I have seen with respect and like a woman should be.
I am a mature man who was brought up to be a gentleman.

You have added some entertainment to this board at a time when there is nothing interesting.
I would love to know who you are and take you for a coffee or something one day.
I do not expect you to tell me, just a wish or dream for me.
You are a very interesting person.
I am sure I have never seen you as I only go to the premier chain.

And who is this COSMO?

 

[praetor]

Of course, nothing that would reveal my identity but other than that, fire away. I'm just as bored as you are.

You sound intelligent and I’ve enjoyed your responses so far, but I have trouble understanding what the point of this is if it’s not a way to advertise your services by showing your personality. I completely understand the need for discretion though, especially on this forum.

If people want to learn more about an MPA’s life, they can just ask about it at their next session.

 

[praetor]

This is the closest I’ve ever witnessed anything close to a bukkake.

It IS a bukkake, it's just socially-distanced.

 

[Cool-Story-Bro]

And who is this COSMO?

Just another simp, ignore Cosmo for now

 

[Cool-Story-Bro]

Here's my question.
Why are most MPA drug addicts ?
What's the actual reason behind it
Stress or being bored ?

 

[Deleted member 89502]

Can you explain what you are referring to above "in fact, many girls think it's a turn off." - which part is the turn off?

I have spicy to mean a hotter or more erotic massage experience. Not necessarily mpa extras but those items that are in the grey area....digits, lfk, bls etc.

When I had read or heard about other sessions with the same MPA and they sounded better than my session its a cause for dissecting YMMV.

The only different variable is essentially the customer/me or are there other factors?

Could I have done more (already clean and polite) for it to have lead to more? Or is strictly that is better looking guy with more in his wallet?

That a hot guy would come to a spa. Not the money part.

It varies. Like I said, all other things being equal, attractive people win, typically.

It might have been you, it might have been her mood that day - who knows? A lot of girls have seeeeeeeeerious troubles at home, a lot are in very abusive romantic relationships, she might have been on her period, it might have been you. Do what you can to be a pleasant client, tip (even adding $20 at the end of each session will garner a better session with 90% of MPAs). If you're still not happy, time to move on. The only other thing would be coming on a regular basis (usually weekly), with a break every so often. We treat our regulars better because you save us on slow days.

 

[Deleted member 89502]

Where you sexually assaulted growing up? What makes you able to do this to every guy with money?

No, but many were.

I think of what I'm using the money for and have really strong boundaries to ensure that I never feel the need to totally disassociate to get through the workday or am having a bad time. Of course I'm not always enjoying the session, but I aim for neutral/pleasant and better. I mentioned earlier, my spa does allow us to terminate sessions if clients are being aggressive, rude, we've found a camera or they are too insistent/pushy. I understand that I am completely expendable but I feel that I am generally valued as an employee, and generally valued as an MPA due to the [general] calibre of clientele my spa attracts.

 

[Deleted member 89502]

You sound intelligent and I’ve enjoyed your responses so far, but I have trouble understanding what the point of this is if it’s not a way to advertise your services by showing your personality. I completely understand the need for discretion though, especially on this forum.

If people want to learn more about an MPA’s life, they can just ask about it at their next session.

I would never answer half of these questions in a session, for fear of retribution/outing/bad review etc etc etc. You have to understand that the majority of spa clientele are giant narcissists.

I have always participated in industry forums in every job I've had.

 

[Deleted member 89502]

Here's my question.
Why are most MPA drug addicts ?
What's the actual reason behind it
Stress or being bored ?

Not a discussion I've had but theories include:
1) Born addicted due to mother's drug use.
2) Need it to get through the day as they are doing things they are not okay with.
3) Troubling life outside work and they need it to get through work.
4) Some girls use the quick cash to finance pre-existing habits.

 

[Deleted member 66315]

No, but many were.

I think of what I'm using the money for and have really strong boundaries to ensure that I never feel the need to totally disassociate to get through the workday or am having a bad time. Of course I'm not always enjoying the session, but I aim for neutral/pleasant and better. I mentioned earlier, my spa does allow us to terminate sessions if clients are being aggressive, rude, we've found a camera or they are too insistent/pushy. I understand that I am completely expendable but I feel that I am generally valued as an employee, and generally valued as an MPA due to the [general] calibre of clientele my spa attracts.

how often do you find clients trying to film sessions?