Choosymonger
Active Member
It's good helping someone in need but once they feel this person is good and " paise wala hai" they start demanding more and more . Telling different stories. Their demand never ends. This is my experience in some cases. I helped one indi for CT scan of his younger son who had knot in head. Later she started demanding more and more every day telling new stories.Hi Folks. Today I came across one of the situations which I feel some of us must have gone through but only a few would follow what heart says. This is not an FR hence I won't quote name of the girl but incident touched me and hence I thought of sharing it with my monger friends.
From quite a few days I was planning to meet one of the Indies ... last week we had planned but due to some urgent work within the family I have postpone it and that too when she already left for the place and have to come back half way. Felt bad for her but more important was to get family related closure ... from then onwards we were on what's app and finally we decided to meet today. From past 2 days she was constantly asking about this meeting and I was feeling that might be she is too desperate for this but it was something else. Today morning I messaged her and she was ready for the meeting but once again honi ko kaun taal sakta hai ... again klpd and I have to cancel it due to my family issues. I messaged her back and she was too sad ... she was like ek ghante ke liye hi MIL lo and I was like why r u so desperate. Later I got to know that she had her youngest son birthday today and she promised him that she will take him out for dinner. She is a divorcee and was completely dependent on this meeting and didn't schedule anything. I seriously felt bad and I went mum for few hours. I don't know from where it came in but I messaged her if need be I can give her 1000 Rs right now and later once we meet we can adjust. First she was reluctant saying kaam kiya nahi to Paise kaise lu and I was like 1000 mein mera Kaunsa bunglow ban jayega but at least it can bring smile on your sons face. She was very happy and I transferred the money ... just a few minutes back she forwarded pics of his son and her having dinner in one of the restaurants and I felt relieved.
Sorry for long story here but sometimes we have to think beyond our needs. Some of you would appreciate this and some of you would also call me an idiot but it was a gesture which was not thought of but came in just like that. Might be it gave me more pleasure then taking her in case in the bed.
PS : Please don't ask for her number as I haven't tried her yet. And will surely make it by next week and share FR as well.