Is getting a massage considered "cheating"?

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OK, so sometimes I've run out of options for getting a "release". Happy marriage, OK sex life - not as frequent as I'd like, but kids, scheduling and sleep take their toll.

Opportunities to take care of matters myself have also become limited for the same reasons.

These massage places are almost antiseptic - 30 minute massage, flip you over, you're done a few minutes later. It's practically a medical procedure, and you're back in the office shortly thereafter.

I know, I know - using the metric "if your wife knew, would she approve", it's wrong. She wouldn't.

But is this really "cheating"? There's no reciprocal touching, and no expectation of a relationship.
Umm... yeah. "Flip you over" = "happy ending".

Unless she thinks you're a cop. :-)

And no, I wouldn't mind if my wife enjoyed a similar service. Doesn't matter where you get your appetite as long as you eat at home. And having some guy rub her off would be fine, and would most likely just increase her appetite.
What's "observing SPF"?
 
Many women consider lap-dances cheating and a massage, without a happy-ending, is already more hands-on and more intimate than a lap-dance.
Most are also hypocritical about this point.

"My spouse doesn't approve" does NOT make it cheating.
Cheating is breaking the rules of the relationship.
The rules of the relationship are determined by the people in it.
If you've never discussed what those rules are together than you both will have different ideas of what the rules of your relationship are.
 
If you paid for the services and their were no reciporal touching it wouldn't be considered cheating. But that doesn't mean paying for sex is not cheating. there is a difference.
 
If you're getting the "happy ending" it's cheating. If this person isn't rubbing you're genitals with any part of their anatomy...No it's not cheating. It's relaxing and if it helps you relieve stress feel free to continue.
 
Who cares....... everyone has their secrets.
Ya missus could be doing the same for all you know,.
 
you should talk to your wife and let her know that you need help more often with your release... alot of times in a marriage that can bring a spark out of her... she feels needed by you and it shows how interested you still are in her!
 
We all know there are Massages where licensed massage therapist perform the massage in legitimate businesses, nothing wrong if you go there. They don't massage areas that might sexually excite you to the point of orgasm for fear of losing their license and being placed under arrest for prostitution.
Then there are those places that may or may not employ women who are licensed massage therapist and whose sole purpose is sexual gratification. Both are antiseptic as you put it for fear of spreading disease and in 30 minutes you are done.
Which do you go to?
If the latter, you are cheating.
 
If your marriage is happy, having a massage with extras is wrong may I suggest getting a friend, relation or even a baby sitter to take your kids out for an hour or two so you and your wife can have some quality time alone.
 
According to president Clinton oral is not cheating so if you are
a democrat, next time get a BJ. If you are a republican, become
a democrat and get a BJ. If you want to cheat, go for the
one hour massage and turn HER around
 
You answered your own question...If your wife knew, would she approve?

No? There's your answer.

Here's what you should think about...How would YOU feel, knowing she was getting a simple massage from a hot guy...a studly, masculine...shirtless Dude...Rubbing her back down...then flipping her over, and "finishing her off"...

Really wrap your mind around that scenario...And how do YOU feel?

If you're good with it...then by all means, go do what you're gonna do. But if the thought of your wife being pleasured by another man...bothers you.

Well then, you have more moral fiber than I gave you credit for...I hope you make the right choice.

If she finds out...your happy marriage...Will be out the window.
 
Would you mind her having the same experience?
The best way to love your children, is to love their mother.
BTW, what is "really cheating"? Is it like "really pregnant"?
 
No cheating buddy. So long as it is clean and done for relaxation. Perhaps your wife might want a massage too. She will appreciate that gesture from you.
 
Even u know the answer to this, or u wouldn't even be questioning it. It is a "form" of cheating because first of all anything u have to hide is questionable, and u are going to someone else to please u whether it's touching u or not. Your wife should be the only one that should do that for u. I know life can be busy and hectic, especially with kids and this type of thing happens all the time, but there are ways u can correct it without doing something that u obviously feel a little guilty about. You need to make more time for your wife and u. You should get a sitter for the kids one weekend and just get away with your wife and have some one on one time. During that weekend maybe u can focus on how u can schedule more time in for each other. Maybe a "date" night twice a month. We can always seem to fit everything into our lives when we have to .........work, appointments, meeting etc, but we always seem to put our relationship last. I think if u make your relationship a priority then u will be having a much more fulfilling and exciting love life compared to the "medical procedure" u described.
 
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