The fact is that it is the age of social media, Facebook, Twitter or chat boards like this, there is little privacy. In the old days JameBond's experience would have been shared with a couple of close drinking buddies over a beer and ended there. Now thanks to the internet we all share our experiences with complete strangers under the guise of a common interest. Restaurants, movies, landscapers, housecleaners, and RMT's who provide HE's, they are now all subject to public scrutiny through social media
Shitty at times, but its reality.
As for the providers of massage services, they are operating a business with a range of services and should understand the risks of providing "extra's" to what amounts to complete strangers. No one signs a non-disclosure agreement on either side, everyone just hopes for a certain amount of discretion. So, at the end of the day they have to gamble that the extra money is worth the risk and exposure. i suspect that the Vivian's, Sunny's, and the like have made that decision long ago, and it has paid off for them financially as every hound dog on this board and others like it are frequenting them and partaking of their "extra" services.
I don't necessarily like it or agree with it, I just realize it is a fact of life in today's world and all of us on this board take responsibility for it.