RAFEEQ - DOHA
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mtnlionz said:Do you find you are compensated (seems like a weird word in this conversation) just as well considering the driving time, etc. involved in outcall?
Yes I do. Obviously I avoid situations where I would be in rush hour traffic and I limit my radius of outcall travel to a reasonable amount of miles. I have lived here for most of my life so I know the ins and outs as well as the side streets and alleyways. I don't spend that much time traveling. I do get paid pretty well by the standards of our profession.
mtnlionz said:Would you mind telling us how a conversation about your fees goes when you have a new client, for instance? I really want to visualize and try this on.
Sure, when a new client asks what I charge I just simply say "I don't have a set fee. I am happy to let you decide what you can pay and what you feel the session is worth. I am grateful for whatever that is." They initially seem happily shocked as it is such a radical approach culturally. We are so focused on materialism in our society that we are often referred to as "consumers." I hope we are all so much more that that. People who know me realize that my sincerity is real and suddenly the pressure is off someone laying on the table thinking about how much this is going to cost them. We are in the de-stress business after all.
mtnlionz said:How long have you done your practice this way, and what was it like in the beginning for you as you made the shift?
3 years now. It was well received at the outset and effortless to implement. Bear in mind I have the luxury of being very well established so I think that helped. I work in an area that places a high premium on people taking good care of themselves. My client list is a "who's who" of Hollywood and that alone brings people to me. I have been incredibly lucky but I also work really hard every day to keep myself at the top of my game. For me this was the logical way to go as I have the freedom to be creative in the business end of things. It was never my goal to be "the most expensive MT in Hollywood." I'll leave that to others. I've seen them come and go in my near quarter century of doing this so I must be doing something right because I'm still here and business is good.
I've been paid anywhere from nothing to $1000.00 for a massage (I tried to refuse it but the client was adamant.) In the end for me it's all about the work. You don't get rich doing this but you can be free and that's worth more to me than gold. Plus I dislike the concept of competition in my work and I abhor the onslaught of focused dog eat dog "competitors" entering the massage biz. Totally wrong energy for this line of work. These are usually business types capitalizing on a hot new "trend" who don't do massage and know very little about what it takes to be an MT so they don't know the real value of the work. I compete with no one. I want all MT's to do well, seriously. Pricing myself this way makes that easier for me to do that.
mtnlionz said:Anyway, thanks elsewhere for your help!
Anything for my colleagues. I love people who do this kind of work. We are unique so why run our business's like everybody else? My model might seem radical but it's really freeing for someone like me.