Massage tipping controversy

[iluhjesse]

To come back in the room and then charge the client for an extra half-hour seems like a pretty shitty thing to do.

Anyways, you never went back which will hopefully teach the MPA and MP to stop these sort of BS practises.

 

[Pompal 09.]

When I was young and foolish, I met this escort at an incall hotel room. Things were progressing nicely when the phone rang. The escort answered the phone and said "5 more minutes". Then the phone rang again (that really spoils the mood) and the escort said to me "we have to leave NOW , they need the room". The next client is already in the lobby and his appointment and every appointment after his has already been pushed back 10 minutes.

 

[Terry]

That would kill my hard-on and I don't even have a dick!

I'll never understand the escorting option for a man. Pardon my
opinion and ignorance about the subject. I am probably just
uninformed about the topic and have pre-programmed images and
examples of escorting. It always seemed "cold" to me. Is there
emotional escorting? Where your "kinda" friends or good acting
lovers?

Sorry I'm hijacking......my bad!

 

[harbersbrent]

If you are referring to the front desk before entering the room, if you are a new face to a spa they may well not give you those rates either (for fear of by-laws)

 

[jms043]

I always go for at least the topless even if she is not good looking that way the $20 is made by her and the problem is solved

 

[Lua]

I know what you mean (I think). But, sometimes a man has to do what a man has to do . A deeper discussion of the subject will have to be a separate thread.

 

[neboptics]

I agree with MJ. Especially at the higher end spas where the rates for extras are posted. any tipping beyond that isn't necessary. Maybe a few bucks for really exceptional service but that's about it.

 

[usman]

I'm not sure whether or not they post the extra rates at the desk, but any MP in Brampton or Mississauga have the tipping rates posted on their websites.

 

[Dragon]

RS I think there is such a thing as emotional escorting . Some sps on massageplanet.net insist on a 2 hour minimum so they can get to know the client on a more personal basis. In other words just not as a f*** doll!

That's certainly not my thing as I can barely afford a half an hour appointment with an sp. The last thing I want to do with an sp is talk---lol. To each his own I guess?

 

[Sim - plicimus]

What really really kills the mood (and the woody) is when you are in an SC VIP and a 6'3" burly man sneaks up on you and shines a huge flashlight in your face . That is worst than a phone ringing in a hotel room or a knock on the door.

BTW During that same hotel room phone incident, somebody actually knocked on the door about 10 minutes into the session. The escort answered the door and she said the guy got the wrong room. How in blazes is a guy suppose to concentrate with all the banging on the door and the phone ringing off the hook?

 

[I am a feet guy]

Rock it sounds like you had two aggravating experiences . However IMHO the flashlight incident sounds like the worst of the two mood killing scenerios!

 

[geegee]

Hey Squash, live long enough and you will experience some bizarre incidents. Truth be told, that loud banging on the door when I was 10 minutes into my session in the hotel room scared the shit out of me.

My first thought was that it was an LE SWAT team and they would arrest me and walk me out of the hotel naked and my pic would appear in the evening edition of the Sun.

My second thought was that it was the escort's husband and he was going to shoot both the escort and me or maybe only me to death and my pic would appear in the evening edition of the Sun.

 

[Ragend]

Touching is a bylaw violation in Toronto. Brampton when they passed a simiar bylaw a few years ago the body rubs got an injunction against enforement of the bylaw. You can not unreasonably restrict which is criminally legal in a bylaw.

Mississauga's great elderly mayor and police are well known for being supportive on in the open massage options instead of it having to be underground.

The Toronto bylaw is probably unenforceable just like in Brampton but with out express legal authority the Toronto clubs don't list the "touch services" such as nude/nude reverse etc.

[Metro Toronto] By-Law 20-85 Amended 17-08-95

36. No owner or operator shall, in respect of any adult entertainment parlour owned or operated by him, knowingly permit any attendant, while providing services as an attendant, to touch or be touched by, or have physical contact with any person in any manner whatsoever involving any part of that person's body.

37. No attendant shall, while providing services as an attendant, touch or have physical contact with any other person in any manner whatsoever involving any part of that person's body.

In the discussion that led to this by-law, the original intention was to prohibit touching or contact with buttocks, genital areas and female breasts -- all these being easily understood as "sexual contact". However, the Committee minutes indicate that Councilor Layton pushed through the no-touching amendment with a five-minute speech. Many other Canadian municipalities use the more explicit version of the by-law, but Layton insisted that the City's legal advisors considered a no-touch law of any kind to be more effective.

The onus in the no-touch by-law lies with owners and managers, many of who considered the law to be un-enforceable and ridiculous -- while having no problems whatsoever with the earlier proposed by-law outlawing sexual contact. To them, it would have been a clear enforceable rule, unlike the one Metro Council actually passed. One manager remarked "This meant I could be in trouble, if one of the girls patted a customer on the shoulder or shook his hand, let alone giving him a hand-job."

In 1999 the Candian Supreme Court ruled that breast touching was legal. Therefore the Toronto totally no touch bylaw obviously would not stand up a court challange. The case was related to a strip clubs but it its not illegal to touch breasts in strip clubs the same I assume would apply to body rubs

Since then, charges against the owners of the Brass Rail and a Montreal club which apparently allowed patrons to touch the breasts of dancers, have been struck down in Ontario and Quebec.

 

[JackHoleJaike]

Haven't been to see a MPA in ages but this was an interesting thread.