Question Mentioning review to MPA

[MojoRisin']

Nothing much happened... It's just that in my first couple texts to her, I introduced myself (age, nationality, etc.) and also mentioned that I was an active member of a particular review board. I'm always very polite and courteous in my texts.
I only received a short reply after my second text. Since then, over the past few weeks, I've sent the occasional text, checking her availability, but no reply.

I happened to wander by her Twitter feed recently, and I noticed a recent tweet that admitted that she is actually inclined NOT see anyone who says that they're a member of a Review board, stating reasonable reasons for her preference.

Perhaps I'm getting paranoid, but I'm thinking that my self-introduction that mentioned that I'm a member of a review board may have turned her off.

I don't hobby very frequently. I'm very particular about the indy's that I choose to contact, and I have very particular tastes (=picky) in the ladies that I choose to contact.
So if I'm contacting an indy by text, I've already done the research and read any reviews, so I'm already VERY interested in seeing them by the time I'm texting her. So I don't want to jeopardize my chances of seeing them by saying anything that will turn them off or (heaven forbid) get me blacklisted or blocked.

That's why I won't mention review boards again in my initial correspondences. I just need to fine-tune my initial approach to give me the best chances of getting an appointment.

You're not paranoid at all. You definitely turned her off mentioning you're a review board member. I don't blame her. From her perspective it sounds threatening

 

[curvluvr]

You're not paranoid at all. You definitely turned her off mentioning you're a review board member. I don't blame her. From her perspective it sounds threatening

Thanks for your input. Lesson learned. Maybe I'll try to approach again later.