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[xtc27]

Agreed that the girls are "at work", however few jobs, in fact no other job I know means getting "physically intimate ". Notice I did not say becoming intimate in a mental sense, some girls can completely distance their thoughts from an encounter where they are doing the same things physically with a total stranger .. or a "regular" as they do with a S.O.
Others can develop big issues with this and that is where many turn to a diversion of reality such as coke or other pharmaceuticals to escape the mental ties. The money can be great, however the mental attachment given the right chemistry can be a torture.
This can be the case for the provider or the client, or both in these "business arrangements". I'm sure many of us have been there.

Definite hobbying hazard.

Acceptable risk IMHO!

 

[UsefulIdiot]

That’s fine. But wether we like it or not, the reason they are there is to make money, because they are at WORK.

I think I have a healthy relationship with my regulars. I treat them well, and they treat me well. Human moments do happen, and I value them, but only in the MP. I hobby for fun and adventure, not for love. If anyone has greater emotional needs than this they should get girlfriends.

 

[Crushing-It]

I think I have a healthy relationship with my regulars. I treat them well, and they treat me well. Human moments do happen, and I value them, but only in the MP. I hobby for fun and adventure, not for love. If anyone has greater emotional needs than this they should get girlfriends.

Even when money is involved, human connection is definitely possible.

 

[xtc27]

Even when money is involved, human connection is definitely possible.

Preferable, IMHO.

 

[zombie]

Even when money is involved, human connection is definitely possible.

I had seen a provider about 8 or 9 times over a 9 month period. She sent me a GIF that said "I love you". Never went back.

 

[Crushing-It]

I had seen a provider about 8 or 9 times over a 9 month period. She sent me a GIF that said "I love you". Never went back.

I would have gone back at least once to investigate if more mileage was there.

 

[Bigusdickus]

It is great when that happens!

I was the one who gave you that recommendation way back , been taking a break from hobbying but may look for a few new experiences. Any input appreciated.

 

[UsefulIdiot]

I was the one who gave you that recommendation way back , been taking a break from hobbying but may look for a few new experiences. Any input appreciated.

Welcome back. Are you still seeing or planning to see Chanel? These days I stick close to home in downtown. Nobody as pretty as Chanel, but these days for me it is all about service.

 

[Bigusdickus]

Welcome back. Are you still seeing or planning to see Chanel? These days I stick close to home in downtown. Nobody as pretty as Chanel, but these days for me it is all about service.

I saw her a few times,not sure if she is still in the biz as she was going to college for airline stewardess ,hopefully she addresses some of her issues and doesn't succumb to the easy money and "(spa) lifestyle ".when I met her she was fresh and open with here feelings ,a genuine gem.