Chat Mp vs Sp advantages?

[SJRich1973]

Believe what you want, man...it's not about me. I've heard enough of their stories (often about their fellow MPA co-workers) to know how hard these ladies sometimes fall for guys.

These ladies see thousands of guys every year. I would be more surprised if they 'didn't' meet someone they clicked with and liked...

It is plausible. I have seen 100+ last year (with 3 months in hiatus due to lower back injury). I fell hard on this one girl. I went loco and even got insomnia for thinking too much. My number is just a fractions to these MPA's. For these girls what is the thought process? It is just mind boggling. As you have stated I also think they will eventually like someone. They are humans like us after all.

But in the end these MPAs become pros. Overtime they will adapt and adjust to be able to make lots of money. This is their main motivation. Because what is the likelihood they will end up with the guy they desire for good? Minute possibility and we can even say zero. Then, what is the point? Yes they might for a given time until it goes away or realize it is not going nowhere.

 

[UsefulIdiot]

It is like Salsa dancing lessons. You change partners every time and sometimes you meet someone you like and enjoy your time with them.

 

[OG_funguy]

It is plausible. I have seen 100+ last year (with 3 months in hiatus due to lower back injury). I fell hard on this one girl. I went loco and even got insomnia for thinking too much. My number is just a fractions to these MPA's. For these girls what is the thought process? It is just mind boggling. As you have stated I also think they will eventually like someone. They are humans like us after all.

But in the end these MPAs become pros. Overtime they will adapt and adjust to be able to make lots of money. This is their main motivation. Because what is the likelihood they will end up with the guy they desire for good? Minute possibility and we can even say zero. Then, what is the point? Yes they might for a given time until it goes away or realize it is not going nowhere.

When you boil it down, how is it different from someone in another profession (e.g. RMT, doctor, nurse, psychologist, lawyer, etc. etc.). You think these people never fell for a client before?

They are not robots but humans with real emotions and feelings too...at least most of them.

 

[SJRich1973]

They are pros - but we are pros too! - I'm old enough to have been there and done that - I have a a couple of faves - as long as they keep acting like I'm the one - then its all good for both of us - she gets the dough, I get the pussy!!! -

Thanks for the wisdom.

 

[SJRich1973]

When you boil it down, how is it different from someone in another profession (e.g. RMT, doctor, nurse, psychologist, lawyer, etc. etc.). You think these people never fell for a client before?

They are not robots but humans with real emotions and feelings too...at least most of them.

Damn...The more I read the passage of your explanations the more I am incline to like the girl. Now I am hurting. But I would like to stick with Caliguy rationale "she gets the dough, I get the pussy".

As much as I would like to believe I will have to deflect and not fall on vicious cycle of possibilities. I think this applies to MPAs as well.

 

[smallpantieshk]

The only reason I go to spas/semi-legits is because I can claim on my insurance extended healthcare benefits. Other than that I find less or no value at all. Yes there are some who can truly give good massage and sometimes you can get lucky on extras. But how often is it going to happen? When it does next thing you know the girl is gone. Why would I spend $100 to $120 and sometimes can go up to $200+ on mediocre massage and little extras? In some place you can get nude BS for $120 including massage. For example in Shang-Ri La. It has been posted in the forum several times with good reviews from one of our known hobbyists. Mind you I did partake to validate such claim. I only got disappointed 1 out of 3. Not bad at all it was because the 2 exceeded my expectations. The one bad...just charge to experience and my donation to Shang-Ri La stocks

Question is why do we still go to spas/semi-legits? This might contradict the 1st paragraph but it has its own merit. The answer is...The thrill of the hunt and lots of unknowns. Every time you experience and discover one it is just mind blowing. It is like your first no malice encounter. The sensual feeling is immense. Most of the time I cannot hold in 15 minutes or less. It is because it was fucking unexpected. You thought only it will be another lousy massage and HJ but then you get more instead...This is when you found your gem. Keep it until it is over.

SPs...Simple...You can do what PORNHUB is doing

I'm in the exact same boat as you are. Insurance has essentially cut my hobbying costs by 50%. And furthermore I have yet to shell out more than $50 on tips thus far in the past twelve months. I don't negotiate anymore about extras nor do I mention tips. Whatever she is comfortable giving, I am happy with.

 

[xtc27]

It is plausible. I have seen 100+ last year (with 3 months in hiatus due to lower back injury). I fell hard on this one girl. I went loco and even got insomnia for thinking too much. My number is just a fractions to these MPA's. For these girls what is the thought process? It is just mind boggling. As you have stated I also think they will eventually like someone. They are humans like us after all.

But in the end these MPAs become pros. Overtime they will adapt and adjust to be able to make lots of money. This is their main motivation. Because what is the likelihood they will end up with the guy they desire for good? Minute possibility and we can even say zero. Then, what is the point? Yes they might for a given time until it goes away or realize it is not going nowhere.

...sounds logical except... most MPAs don’t stay in biz yrs & yrs.... aside f/ Shangri-La, most spas=80-90% turnover < 2 yrs...

...girls not all seasoned pros yet ...

...so they can & do let their guard down& catch feelings...

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... when old spa closed, my fave took me out 2 sushi dinner 2 say gbye... went back 2 spa after, didn’t even hv one last session... 2 sad... real human connectn... she lost money on me that day, no hope of getting it back...

..& she’s a veteran MPA.

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.. lotsa guys= jerks... smell bad, say cruel things, try nasty things... some grab girls face, force them to kiss or touch... &’they have 2 decide, session almost over, let it pass? ...

... Me=clean,nice, respectable gentleman, tip appropriately, speak w/respect & kindness... being normal human being... I’m amazed @ free extras I get...

...legit RMT, would not accept any tip f/me, during 3rd session, crawled right on table w/me to cuddle... & still refused any tip after... other guys told me similar stories...

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...above = obv huge spa advantage...

SP: nice 2 them, instant free services possible, but less common... & YMMV applies 2 them, 2... WTF... they can decide not 2 provide agreed service...

 

[RealBadman]

MP Advantages
- Can see what a girl looks like before paying to see her
- Most MPAs at a specific spa tend to offer standard service levels
- Spas have a more relaxed atmosphere
- MPAs are better at getting you in the mood, using massage and teasing
- Can walk in without appointment
- Girls are usually better looking
- MPAs tend to be less of clockwatchers
- Spas have showers, you can wash before/after

MP Disadvantages
- FS is often extra cost
- If you run into other johns they know what you're there for
- Some MPAs tend to be more prudish and have more restrictions
- Some MPAs just give you a jackhammer handjob and nothing else
- MPA menus are a mystery until you meet her, YMMV more likely

SP Advantages
- See them in Airbnb, hotel, or motel.
- Can call them to your home or your hotel room (costs more money)
- Guaranteed FS at lower prices
- Can communicate with the girl directly if she's independent.
- SPs more likely to let you film, if that's your thing
- SPs often have less limits, they're more upfront about what they offer in their ads

SP Disadvantages
- Need to be booked in advance
- Risk of it being a police sting or a robbery setup
- If going into an Airbnb/Condo, might get dirty looks from security and residents (if incall)
- More likely to get ripped off, less chance of getting your money back if bad session
- Usually more rushed, SPs tend to get mad if you don't cum quickly
- Experiences tend to be more hit and miss
- SPs sometimes need references

I personally prefer MPs to SPs, I find it more comfortable going to a spa than going to meet an SP personally, and I don't like the fact that SPs tend to rush you.

 

[dickinabox]

Sps alot of the time are in condos and hotels where you will get dirty stares cause everyone knows what is going on

 

[cupcrazy]

Sps alot of the time are in condos and hotels where you will get dirty stares cause everyone knows what is going on

traffic should be significantly more at malls than condos

 

[xtc27]

traffic should be significantly more at malls than condos

...for MP: plan yr attack.

Many hv back entrance... some walk f/ North instead of South, nobody notices...

...ad up there, Pink Paradice... 1st spa I visited in 20 yrs hiatus... a Nubie... walked there right past Tim Hortons... fuckn walk of shame, everyone stared @ me coming & going... but f/other side, nobody notices when I ducked in...

...Shangri-La & Just Relax, just walk in... nice little nook, nobody can c u.... Yonge & Sheppard hv back entrances, incl LaLa Wellness...

But for SP... hard 2 do...

... a lotta SP above strip malls... I’m getting gd @ sporting em now... locals know where & y u going...

...’Asian Eva’: huge condo building where friends of mine live... prolly yr friends 2... really nerve racking... no waiting room either... (worth it tho)

...short of pizza delivery boy ruse, not quite sure how 2 attack SP place discreetly... hobbying hat & shades, different jacket if u can... but somehow can’t look like yr hiding... park yr car or bike a bit further away 2, unless discreet place...

...punctuality? If u show up late, not gd... spas may scold u, but still make sure u leave happy... or just walk in, no appointment, prolly somebody will look after u...