Thanks everyone for the feedback so far.
My first thought when she said it was โyea right, no wayโ but itโs something thatโs stayed in my head. Iโm usually good sleeping on something and having good judgement the next day, so the fact that Iโm now leaning towards doing it is why I posted it here.
The idea of not having cash/valuables is a must and could be good to get a hotel. Also, she said she would send her address tomorrow, so I can check to see what kind of place it is, before deciding anything.
I can take an Uber or cab and use my burner phone, so that would reduce risk, and maybe have my location recorded to that as an additional measure.
Iโll keep reading this thread and see what I think after I sleep on it another night