Need advice: I'm a MPA starting to fall in love/lust?? with a LE officer!!

[~*Tisha*~]

Oh really, PAUL/IT? It's hard to believe that all those girls who work for you over at IT are all single and available. I've been to IT quite a few times now and everytime I've asked the girls at IT if they are single, they all say they are. Sorry, but Leah's right. If I know that a MPA has a boyfriend, that just kills my fantasy right there. A bigger turn off is if they actually talk about their relationships. One MPA I saw one time went on and on about her boyfriend, how he mistreats her, cheats on her, etc, etc. For me, that was one of the worst sessions ever. I don't pay to hear that kind of stuff.

 

[Pompal 09.]

1) Rusty is wrong... your arm will NOT fall off, LOL
2) If you are seeing your BF as less than ideal now, in a few months he will REALLY have lost that shine and seem not a keeper.
3) That you will be willing to try going on your own, that your happiness is not dependant on the man in your life and that you might enjoy doing something for yourself like a vacation or other big ticket item you work so hard for.
4) You are gonna realize that you shouldn't listen to any psychics at all (especially me,LOL) and to go with your gut more, as nobody knows whats best for you more than you. It's good to talk to friends and have them show you things that you might not have seen for yourself but ultimately you have to make these tough decisions based on what you think rather than others.
5) If we ever meet at your spa I'll not know its you, indicating I'm not a very good psychic

 

[smilez]

I agree 100% Paul.

The top girls I've seen have NOT resorted to lying and bullshit to generate repeat business.

A popular BGirl was telling me about her BF, as part of a wide ranging conversation .... and yeah, she cares for her BF ALOT.

The conversation did nothing to damper our time together and I gave the MPA a very positive review as well I should have.

I'm not saying that Leah is "wrong", but what she presents is only one dimension of a larger whole. I think she paints a pretty damn grim picture of the MP scene.

Leah's correct in saying clients shouldn't visit MP's with any expectations except fantasy, but I find it amusing that she still partakes in an industry she apparantly despises...

I guess the lure of quick cash has won out, propped up by a self-righteous "fuck them or they'll fuck us first" attitude.

 

[DavidaMurdock]

I think Sheik is more pornstar gorgeous than model-like gorgeous but it's a matter of opinion.

 

[keld2682]

Remember, there will be a day when those good look wear out. Then it will be all about personality. Whoever you choose, make sure there is chemistry too.

a 1 player

 

[Zane]

Please don't say that!!! I was hoping that she'd find true love. [And hopefully, me too (since everything that happens to her happens to me one month later.)] She told me she didn't meet him a MP. He doesn't know what she does for a living which is why she's quitting whacking b/c she doesn't want him to find out and dump her. From all the times I've known her, she's never taken such a drastic step for anyone; that's why I'm really hoping that things will work out for her. But I'll keep you guys posted on her situation as well. I loved working with her and miss her lots already but if it means that she's found a better life, I'd rather never see her again and wish her all the best.

 

[e_d_ellis2004]

stockholm syndrome

or ...

great imagination ... (but yes reality is stranger than fiction!)

 

[rpwirthwein]

How long has she known this guy for? If she's serious about this guy she needs to get to know him on a personal level first in order to find out if they're at least compatible. If they are compatible, hopefully their relationship can blossom into the kind of love that my boyfriend Adrian and I share.

Love is a lot like getting peanut butter out of shag carpeting, which is a lot like wiping a really hairy asshole. What I'm trying to say is that it takes a lot of hard work and dedication to achieve.





This sounds like something your psychic told you. Leah, for $1.50 a minute I'll tell you that you'll meet the man of your dreams, move to Beverly Hills and spend your days shopping on Rodeo Drive and fucking your cabana boy while your rich hubby is out making money for you to spend.

 

[Adviser! :)]

Hi goodtime!! Always great to hear from you!!! You have a really good point there. If someone really is psychic, I guess they should know my name and birthdate!! But somehow, Psychic #1 has always been 100% correct though. Maybe next time I see her, I'll ask her why she needs the info; I don't feel like asking her right now 'cuz she'll probably charge me $70. Actually, Psychic #2 didn't ask me for any info. She just looked at me and started talking.

You mean those LE people didn't give up closing us down??!! That's what my boss and his lawyer told us. They told us that since we've been busted twice already and we're still kicking, it's highly unlikely they'll come back again since they probably feel it's a lost cause. Even if they bust us again, we'll open again anyways. But you're right about the job part... you never know. Maybe a humongous pimple will appear on my forehead or something and all my clients will get totally disgusted and my bosses will fire me because I became some hideous troll!!!

"rusty"... my arms DO feel like it's gonna fall off soon!! I don't know how some girls can put in more hours than me!! They gotta be nuts. But I guess some of them just want to make some quick money and get out. Me, I think I'm gonna be a lifer. Can't see myself doing anything else.

"wumpscut"... you are SO right. My feelings for the bf is definitely going away faster than I thought it would. Right now though, whenever I think about ending things with him, I still feel really sad. So I know my feelings are not completely gone yet.

BTW, does anyone know for sure whether a place can get busted a third time? I mean, seriously, are they going to really bother knowing that we'll pop up again in less than a week? It seems pretty pointless for them to keep coming. I don't mind the yellow tickets but I really can't afford a blue one right now. Got too much expenses to pay. If they come in after September with blue tickets, I wouldn't mind as much since financially, at that time, I should be in a better position to deal with it.

 

[Frankie Jay]

It's not that extreme or cut and dry. I rather have Leah's no games or lead-on attitude over the 'how long can I string' this guy attitude.

 

[chipper35_1999]

Slippey Pete, where have you been??????

The massage board has been a colossal bore with you.

 

[Nude]

I'm glad to hear you'll be freeing yourself from your BF. You work hard for your money and deserve to spend it where you think it needs to be spent rather than have your BF gamble it away. And being as you'll be single for the first time, I hope you can resist the urge to rush back into another relationship. As terrifying as it might seem, being alone might not be so bad. Think of a few things you have wanted to do but didn't because your BF wasn't interested. Well now you'll be able to! Friends you like to hang out with that BF didn't like, now you can! Things you want to buy but couldn't afford as your money was going into your boyfriends pocket, now go treat yourself. Being single does have some upsides too, LOL. And when it comes to guys, make a vow to yourself that this time you will pick who YOU want rather than be picked. Even if takes a while and you are not in a relationship for awhile don't give up, think of how you will be getting stronger and more independent as time goes on. But I got to admit I was amazed to hear how shy you sound as being a MPA seems like a job a shy person couldn't do.

 

[Annihil88torr]

Leah

Would you be wanting to break up with your boyfriend if another man had not come along? If the answer is no then forget this LE officer, be good to your boyfriend and do your job. Try not to fall for charming clientelle.

 

[Kieran D]

She could be cuddling instead of 'whacking'...

Perhaps Leah is a hugger with heart for us ex-BFE types...

 

[Danielle K]

I think the only solution is to date me.

 

[Pompal 09.]

Between the LE, and the MODS, when do thy make any money?

 

[Fontofall]

Leah, sorry to hear about you selffish beefcake BF. Like Svend said, don't go from lousy to unlikely. There are lots of nice guys who would appreciate you. You deserve better.

 

[Aarif Ameen]

leah, be brave. Change the lock. Be strong. Loser BF can get by on EI. It's common story in many circles. Like frankcastle says, best to depend on yourself, rather than someone to sweep you off your feet. As when things work or don't work out, you answer to yourself. I know MPAs proud of their independence. The reward of success, the experience of failure just means opportunity to do it better next time.

Being alone is not a crime. Better to be alone that with useless bum imo.


Love and happiness imo depends what one puts into the relationship. If I have my way, hope all the sweet girls out of biz. Many good news in MP circle lately. All the best to the ladies. Be strong. Walk proud. Don't look back! The world is full of opportunties. It's up to you to seize it...

BTW, I recognize faces, even when she's dress down. So true, you wouldn't think some girls are MPA when you see them in different makeup/dress.

 

[Pompal 09.]

If I said I was an LE officer, would I get freebees and at your place after hours? Just curious cause I;d really like that... My normal lines of, Im a pro football player dont work, too small.... Comedian dosent work, Im not funny , Business owner dosent work, I am too dumb, maybe I could be a LE?

 

[Coastal Doc]

No kidding.

Sorry but I have a hard time believing that any municipality would fund it's vice cops getting handjobs around town just to see if any of them get offered a blow job. Is that a seperate line item in the budget?
I want to be in court to hear the testimony on that one .

How many places did he go into that he didn't get a release ? I s there a law that says handjobs are more legal than blowjobs ?

This plus the original thread and the numer of guys that responded seriously to it is pretty funny.