I've already addressed your misinterpretation (and misquotation) of "pig in a poke."
No one here is undermining your dignity. But you yourself seem to be creating the impression of someone who wants things both ways. You come to a review board to announce that you are in business, but don't want to be reviewed. You want your privacy, but you do want to use this board to publicize your business.
It's surprising to me that you have been practicing for many years, yet no one sems to have reviewed you or even mentioned you before. Have you practiced under other names in that period, or have you always done business as Anita?
As far as I'm concerned, you are very welcome here as long as you accept the premise and purpose of a review board. But if you just want to use the board for private-message advertising, and not for its intended purpose, that's not reasonable.
There is always a demand for "a good massage with a friendly, mature lady". If you can provide that consistently, you will get good reviews. I wish you success.