Planning to arrange an erotic massage for my wife by a male escort.?

[Kris]

Hi I am planning to arrange a surprise erotic massage for my wife by a male escort on our wedding anniversary. We are from India. What do you guys think? Should I go ahead and arrange it? The massage will be arranged at our home, I will pretend to be away, but will be recording the massage.

My wife is a shy lady and has accepted to get a massage from a male. She does not know that the massage will turn on to be an erotic one.

 

[Libby]

Don't record it. If you do, get both the escort and your wife's permission first. It's wrong to secretly record other people in sexual or "compromised" ways.

I also don't think you should do the erotic massage without your wife's permission. She may feel like the man she thinks is a professional masseuse is molesting her. She may become very frightened and call the police.

In short, this is all around a really bad idea. If you want your wife to have an erotic massage, do it yourself. And don't record it.

 

[Adam's Girl]

ew, I just threw up in my mouth a little. That is a weird fetish you have where you want to watch your wife do other guys. Definitely want to clear this by her first, or the masseuse may end up injured or having a rape charge on his record. I know I would throw blows if some guy giving me a massage starting getting freaky.

 

[Thomas]

While I have given many sensual and erotic massages some arraigned by the husband, I would never agree to what you are suggesting. She needs to have consistently found the fantasy of another man sexually massaging her to be both exciting and desirable. For a couple that finds the idea of a threesome exciting then a massage where the woman is more willing to be naked in front of the stranger and acceptable to be touched is often a good ground breaker. However, even then about a third of the time the woman is not comfortable enough to move on to full sexual activity.

When facing such a massage I explain that "her husband has arraigned a "full" body massage. I explain that in Europe, where I was first introduced to massage, there is no imaginary line between areas that are sexual and those that are not. Instead in her massage no area is off limits and yet there is no expectation that she is going to respond one way or another. This massage is simply about her pleasure, if it feels good we will do more of it, if it is not pleasurable or if it makes you uncomfortable we move on to some other area - I will simply follow your body's response and your verbal or non-verbal clues."

Most women become aroused, but that does not mean they will want further sexual contact. This is delicate and I warn husbands I will be fully in charge and no matter how excited you may be I will follow her lead, not yours. Also i think the secret recording is a bad idea. Most women respond much better, with the husband there if she is not fully in on what is going to happen. If she knows it may be sexual then her being alone is best.

If she enjoys the first time there will be many opportunities to record it later.

Personally it sounds like your fantasy not hers - that is usually a bad sign.

 

[melouofs]

Yuck, I would hate that as a "gift"--and you hiding to record it is beyond creepy and gross.

What a lucky lady she is--and yes, I am being totally sarcastic when I say that.

 

[4REEE]

Bad move!

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[Sabeena]

nice troll

 

[ani]

Your wife is lucky, she has got a very trusting husband. I think should go ahead with your plan.

 

[Semper Fidelis]

This is disturbing I hope you're not serious. Why would you pay someone to cheat with your wife on you? You do know that an "erotic massage" implies touching of the "erotic parts" and sometimes more, right?


Give your wife the erotic massage yourself, skip the creepy random guy. OR give her a massage at a reputable massage therapist.

 

[Liz]

Ugh that is awful! Do not do it!

 

[SupR]

Go ahead and have it done. Your wife is going to enjoy it a lot. Great, India needs open minded husbands like you.

 

[Unregistered]

have you ever watched another person pleasure your significant other, its a real turn on seeing them pleased and pleasing. if you havent tried it dont comment anything negative about it. but the video taping part you should ask your wife if shes cool with it, now the male escort, fuck him, your paying him he dont need to know