Question for Service Providers?

[Me M]

Question for Service Providers?

My question is derived from a post I read by Toledoguy99.

“She asked
me what I liked, and I told her that the biggest turn-on to
me is a truly turned-on lady.”

I must agree with him, it makes the experience so much more enjoyable if your companion for the evening gets turned on as well. I am sure this will not happen in every case.

Her reply to Toledoguy99’s question was.

“She was a little taken aback, then smiled and said that this is just a business
to her. She explained she wants to provide good service,
but she holds herself back from pleasure. In other words,
it's all about you, guys.”

It just seems to me if a guy is willing to make the effort to turn on the lady she might make an attempt to enjoy herself. I understand that people in some cases will not click so this will not be possible. I am saying generally as no two situations are a like. Perhaps she is more comfortable with a regular than someone she just met. But, too purposely to hold back why would a service provider do that?

I have read that post a few times and it got me thinking, why should try to turn on an SP when she won’t allow herself to have fun or should I say enjoy the experience. Am I just wasting my time (hour) by trying to treat my companion like a real date? I am not suggesting being rude, rough, uncaring or treating her like a piece of meat, but should I simply skip foreplay. As we all know guys are visual creatures and can be turned on by the sight of a pretty woman, would my time be better spent by paying and immediately getting down to business?

I would appreciate honest answers only! Or feel free to PM if you don’t want to answer on the public board. I would really like to know how most SP’s feel regarding this subject.

LaChatte

P.S. This is in no way an assault on this service provider, just a question that came to me after reading this post.
The Post

 

[Jason King]

Some of my best and most fun dates (not to mention repeat clients) have been guys who like turning a woman on. Most likely because I *am* so demonstrative, and the reciprocity is always more intense!!

But it goes both ways. I, by nature, and a very submissive person and what *truly* turns me on the most is knowing that my partner is having a good time. lol Guys that just play with me, or hand me a toy and tell me to go to town while they just sit back and silently watch kinda creep me out. I don't know if I'm doing it "right" or if they're getting anything out of it. This stifles my own enjoyment and just takes us both on a downward spiral.

So... what am I trying to say here? Basically, that I *love* it when we can blow each other's minds and give each other as much pleasure as we want in the limited time we have together.

In my opinion... If this were "just a job" for me then I don't care *how* good the money potentially is, I would grow to become disenchated with it, bored with it, and then hate it. There are also *far* too many risks involved... physically, financially and legally... for me to do this if I weren't having the time of my life!

Ok, so I'm new... I've only been an SP for a little less than 3 months. Maybe I'm still in the "Honeymoon Seforum.xxxe" and I'll see things differently when I've been at this for 2 or 3 years. I sincerely hope not, but, *shrug* I'll jump off that bridge when I come to it.

Have a good day, everybody.

Anne