SH,
You are showing how classy you are by keeping the details to yourself. Mind you, I am curious about how good a time you had, but it is enough for me to know "H" had a numinous experience.
On the other hand "A" is not only lacking class, but also civility, grace and maturity. Maybe it's because I am in my 50's, but these are some of the qualities I value in people.