Quitting the Boards

[yunesa]

I'm with Ang..... what happened ? Something must have gone wrong in Blissland. maybe her focus will be on civilians


if you are reading this ... Bliss best of luck to you.

 

[jsscsquires]

I'm getting a feeling of deja vu here...

 

[Sniper Reconnoiter]

She can post as often as she likes as long as at least onea week is some girl on girl photos *eg*....

I still can't get over how incredibly cute the one in her last set were :666:

 

[Aisling M]

I enjoyed your posts and honesty Bliss. You had a take no prisoner attitude and spoke your mind, hopefully you will be back.

 

[Drogo]

Good luck Blissful. It's okay to agree to disagree (as we may have). Diverse opinions are healthy and educational.

 

[Gee G]

She previously wrote that a member here PMed her and told her to leave the board, I suspect it happened again. You shouldn't need to grow a thicker skin on here, it shouldn't be like a locker room.

 

[thecheapest902]

Gee , :na:thank you for your permission to post :na:

 

[e w]

but you shouldn't have to run away because some internet bully pms you or threatens you either. Haters are all around us, in real life as well as the boards, grow a pair and tell the haters to put a noose around their necks and do us all a favor!

 

[Very General]

Amber, I want to lick your elbows and bite your toenails. Now will you stay?

 

[Pompal 09.]

Why shouldn't it? This is a site where guys who pay women to fuck them congregate. Why can't a group of guys have ONE place to go to be M E N not metrosexual androgynous dweebs?

Here we talk about sticking our cocks into some woman's ass and then brag about it.

If one doesn't like the locker room talk, there's plenty of sites where one can go and talk about flowers, and pot pourri, and what body lotion is better when used with what loofa pad...where everyone can sit around and sing kumbaija and hold pity parties.

Like I said before: there's a few women who come here, post and get down and dirty with us M E N

 

[x Fireheart<3 Mackenzie C]

This is all a bit puzzling. How much "backbone" is required here, seems like a pretty friendly place to me. I must have missed something. But I agree open-minded women will always be missed.

 

[Benjamin!]

Not much at all really. But if you go into a thread and start talking about something totally off point, 3 pages in, and don't make much sense when you do, you'll be called on it.

I mean, cg gets razzed for all his girl on girl pics, I get razzed for standing on a soap box a little too long, and I'm sure there's others. It's all part of being in the group.

Gen promoted herself to defender of all things female and used to jump all over me (and not in a good way lol) whenever I posted anything on the man/woman dynamic. I just asked her politely to stop, and she did.

As I said though, if you want to hang out with the boys, you have to be able to stand on your own two feet and of all the places on the net, I think this should be ONE place where a guy doesn't have to pussy foot around and embrace everyone's unique sensitivities. I mean, here we should be able to act like guys and by that I mean: I've been called a fucking asshole by friends and called them Fuckhead and 20 minutes later we're watching the hockey game. Here though? You do that and you get sent to Banned Camp.

I think what the problem with some of the civvie women who come here is the fact that sp's seem to be tougher somehow than civvies. Take amber for example (and oh I'd love to 'take' her lol), she gets along fine here. But Bliss wasn't/isn't an sp and can't handle it. So maybe she would be better off over at say POF or somewhere where there are an equal number of women and it's less locker room. I mean, I go there to talk about other things and in a manner befitting the environment.

 

[derek b]

OK, now that I dispensed with the formalities...

Its not even that tboy.... She just didn't handle criticism very well at all... and in this forum, criticism is the nature of the beast. It is HOW you handle that criticism that makes the difference.

Sure there's the whole spelling issue and truncated sentence structure thing she had going on, but its not even that... it was how she started getting all defensive when people would start calling BS on some of her posts. She would go on and on and on about certain things, and when you do that eventually someone will call you out!

It is HOW YOU handle being called out that other members will judge you on. One has to learn how to play the game in order to be accepted, it is that simple. She never understood that concept.

There are PRIME examples of how to "play with the boys" in the club properly. Both male and female and professional and civie. Some develop the knack quickly and others do not...

It is really just that simple.

Anyway, that's my nickles worth.

 

[Phoebe]

and if you can't handle it, you always have the ignore button.......maybe that's what triggered it? People putting her on ignore?

One thing I've noticed about the ignore button? When you tell someone you've put them on ignore, they stop with whatever they were doing to have you put them on ignore.

So let this be fair warning (maybe I shouldn't say): just because I say I've put you on ignore, doesn't mean I have.....(insert shit eating grin here).......

 

[Jackie F]

Well fuck all that and just come back as Bliss2.

Never understood all your posts, certainly did not agree with all your posts, occasionally I actually did agree with some of the things you said, but most importantly, you sometimes you mentioned things that I did not know about and you caused me to learn about things that were beyond my experiences.

I greatly miss the patina your comments added to this little mosaic of society.

 

[Tizz]

I just read that line from Lag's quote.

Maybe that was the problem? She was looking for "support". I don't think this is the place to come for support of any kind. I look at places like this as a place to go to post comments and exchange ideas. If you find that many don't agree with your ideas or posts then maybe this isn't the place to come for that? I mean, if everyone agreed with everyone else, how boring would that be?

I think it's time someone posted a thread on how a bad cop broke the speed limit or accosted a brat teenager. It's been a while since we had that discussion lol.....

 

[Tessa]

I'm a little surprised at how much effort some of you are putting into wondering why Bliss left, especially those of you who seemed to not really like her that much.

People come and go from these boards for a lot of reasons, and if Bliss has chosen to not share hers with the class we should respect that.

I do hope she comes back, as I think she's a little better at playing with you boys than some of you think she is.

 

[redfoxknight]

One shouldn't let one bad apple ruin the whole cart.

We'd love to have you Bliss (that sounds kinda dirty doesn't it, heh heh).