I was looking around for that particular rule, too.
Although, I guess when the rules are made up as you go along, it is easy to penalize someone for breaking said rules. (btw, your wife was banned FOR LIFE?!)
I guess sense of humor is a subjective thing.
Did you know that the "Cycleguy got banned...WTF" thread is up to something like seven pages? lol Now, THAT is funny!