I see I'm in the minority here!
That's cool. To each their own. I guess the reason I'm against the "assuming stance" is three-fold:
1. I've had new clients say they left prior MT's because they were too pushy about rescheduling. This has been particularly true if an MT told someone they needed massage more frequently than the client felt was necessary.
2. As a client myself, I've personally been offended by the hard-line approach. I had one MT actually tell me he wouldn't let me leave the office without rebooking because my back was one of the worst he'd ever seen, and I needed a number of appointments for him to "fix" me. (One of the few times I've ever felt like slapping someone upside the head.
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3. As a massage therapist, I've had good success in my business with the "soft-sell." Since I started my practice, I've been lucky in that I've always had regular clients. Giving clients the
option of rescheduling was always enough encouragement for them to rebook. For the ones that rebooked regularly, I quickly gave them the option of a "regular time" (same time & day weekly, biweekly, monthly as appropriate.) Soon, my schedule was full of regular clients, all by their own choice.
Because of my own bad experiences with hard-selling, I can get my hackles up when I see it recommended. However, both KneadedMassage & Breathe have shown how it can be done respectfully. (Intuitively knowing who to approach with this method; keeping your tone of voice and body language relaxed; being graceful when someone declines to reschedule.) It's still not my style, but that doesn't make it wrong.
Breathe, a quick question: When you were struggling with 8-10 clients per week, were you giving clients the option of rescheduling (without mentioning a treatment plan) and most were refusing? Or at that point, did you not bring up rescheduling at all?