There's no reason not too as long as he is a registered professional - maybe you should get a couples massage (you both get a massage from different masseurs in the same room) - you may find that helps you relax about what it entails. My husband and I did just before we got married and he had a female masseur and it was fine.
Like everyone else is saying - it's not a sexual massage and doesn't come with a "happy ending" but if you do have issues then your wife should acknowledge that and try to find a good female masseur.
Like everyone else is saying - it's not a sexual massage and doesn't come with a "happy ending" but if you do have issues then your wife should acknowledge that and try to find a good female masseur.