Should we be Gentlemen or the Bad Guy?

[WillieThompson]

Since u ask for me bohemian I am here.Just be your self,sampson nail it. Me personnaly I am laid back,but at work I am an asshole at work because I need to be.But there times when it carries from work to the club like when an girl wont take no for an answer.

 

[Andy]

Gang, Thanks for your responses !

A guy that gives a chica too much attention is not challenging, well is not much interest to most chicas. I think your best bet is to be yourself and not obsess with a chica. If you buy her a gift, that is fine, just don't get obsessive and you should be ok. - Sampson
I couldnt agree more with the above, wish I had used this technique from the start in the Mongering world of TJ.

SMD, At first I thought you had written a poem or something For me also mongering is plain physical, if we mix it with the sublime we are damned !

Oc Hobby, you are right, the more scary part is even in personal/civilain life situation how many times have we seen a "bad" guy get the best wife and look what happens to the nice guys like me, they finish last

Come on, lets get more responses on this, Where have all the "cowboys" gone ! Killit, Gmbrldr, Brant, Burt, Fireballs, Mikedude, Amigomio, Poohce..................

 

[Samantha Boyle]

How many times have you seen a hot girl and asked, what is she doing with that ASSHOLE? Face it, girls say they want a nice guy, but they really want and always end up with the ASSHOLE!

 

[Pompal 09.]

With both working girls and non-working girls...
You have a large variety of different girls with different tastes.

Some women like to be treated like pampered ladies and greatly value the men who treat them that way.
Others expect, and are most comfortable, being treated like shit.

I guess one key point, is that most women will let you know how they like to be treated.
Some guys have trouble hearing this.

Another key point... Is that most of us men are different too.
We each often want different things from the women in our lives.
And have definite preferences on how we like to treat our women.

I believe that is what dating is for.
To see what attracts each of us (and what we can attract).
And see who gives to us...and takes from us... the best match-up of what we would want to give and receive.

I'm not so sure that's what whore mongering is about however, at least for me.
For me, mongering is just about physical attraction and no-strings sex.
Not trying to find someone who can learn to hate me - and buying her a house.
(That last line was stolen from Tom Smothers).

 

[blondforeva]

A guy that gives a chica too much attention is not challenging, well is not much interest to most chicas. I think your best bet is to be yourself and not obsess with a chica. If you buy her a gift, that is fine, just don't get obsessive and you should be ok.

 

[Gorgious]

Hello Folks
No mongering for me this weekend, not even a local strip bar ! Let us kick in some Psycho stuff here. I know we saw that, may be read that. I just got this idea while replying to the GFE thread.
Most of you like me ( I am being presumptous !) treat the girl, woo the girl and may be sometimes even buy them gifts, and whatever. At the end of the day does that give us better returns (read sex). Or could it be, that the gentlemens pamper the girls the next guy in line gets the good time ?! Somewhere I read the girls are so messed up that they really like the bad/mean/tough guys ?
And they think the nice guys who treat them nice are idiots ? Expanding on that a bit, isnt it so in civilian life too ?

Man, I have this friend who is like 31, handsome, professional, and he has this girfriend, he bends over backwards trying to please her, make her breakfast, take out to dinners, only to be treated badly at the end of the day ! F**k them !