No brainer, just go.
And when you're there, well simply watch which bars you're in (Prob the ones in the main area will be ok esp the crowded ones). Check your drink tab every time it comes - that way they'll know you'll spot any scam.
If something looks dodgy - then it probably is. Good advice anywhere that - Leeds, Sydney etc.
Don't get so drunk you can't safely find your way back, although if you're just hitting Bangla and staying at SBH then you'd "probably" be safe even if you were crawling along the street, but you know what I mean.
Don't be walking around after say 2am on your own in the quieter areas if you can help it. The first time you try, you'll know exactly why.
Oh and do not go walking late night down Beach Road
Even worse, don't go on the beach. So you'll prob be ok but it would complete you're education
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Thing is, it's common sense. I live in a town that can be a bit rough shall we say, and I felt safer in Patong at night than in my town, but it isn't a nuns teaparty. Just be aware as you would in say any city, and you'll be totally fine and have a great time.
As for the 7k bar thing, well if I was the club owner I'd probably do the same thing and charge more than it cost to repair. If I charged just repair cost, then I bet the same fatboy would come along the night after and wreck it again for the laugh of it
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