Someone and some spa

[rosalva s]

Hi guys, new to this board, and wanted to do a review to prove my worth.

This isn't so much a review as a sad story. I won't mention her name because she obviously is in need of money and I don't think it's fair to her to ward you all away.

I stopped in to a well-established low-key spa after striking out on BP all day. Three girls working; one in a session. The first attendant didn't do it for me looks-wise, and then in came the third. Exotic and petite, even if not the prettiest of faces. I spent half an hour FS as a sample. About 5 minutes into the main act, doggy, it became apparant that she wouldn't match the vocals of the girl in the next room. The LG slipped out, and we opted to switch positions.

In doing so, she kept tugging and pulling at the rubber. "It not break, no?" she said in her heavy spanish accent. She man-handled it so much for several minutes that I told her she might be tearing at it with her nails and we should get a new one.

A minute into the new position, and she was closed up. She had stopped looking at me completely (during the massage she was very giggly and affectionate), she held her arms up over her chest, and kept her legs against my chest preventing much penetration. Normally not a bad position to be in, but emotionally she also felt a long long way away.

I couldn't continue once I recognized that she wasn't there because she just happened to enjoy the company of men. She glanced towards my face, and she seemed... not in a good place... not in her head anymore... perhaps close to tears.

We cleaned up and talked briefly. She went to leave the room, and ducked back in when the first girl told her to wait. As I was leaving, two large guys were in the waiting room, calling her name like a couple of brutes... and I heard the first attendant yell "I'm sorry, but you have to! I'm busy in this room, (the other girl's name) is busy in that room, you have to take this one!" ... or words to that affect.

Kinda puts me off the hobby.

 

[ALL OR NOTHING]

That sounds pretty sad Little Duck.

You need to find a SP who loves the sex as much as the money, and you will leave with a big smile on your beak.

I can't make any Edmonton recommendations but read some more reviews and go from there.

 

[Aaron J]

You are correct in that it is indeed a sad story, but it was just a crappy session more than anything.

Trouble is that this "review" does not really prove your worth for a few reasons. First, you just joined a day ago, and a negative review is your first post, both not great signs. The other bad part comes from the title of you thread, "Someone and some spa", you did not name the spa or the girl so essentially the review is worthless. We have no idea who this is about, so kinda defeats the purpose of posting on a review board.

At the very least you should name the spa, and we can likely figure the rest from there. Hard to use the information if we have no idea who you are talking about. As well, if you don't think it is fair to her to warn us, why even post?

Other than that, welcome to massageplanet and hope to see more, but hopefully more relevant and useful reviews from you in the future.

 

[cleverbutdumb]

unless you own the spa then f.....g name it so we can make and draw our own conclusions!

 

[alienist]

You don't think it's fair to name her, but you think it's fair she continues providing shitty service to others ? Sorry, but get some balls bro and name the spa and provider. What do you have to lose ?

mayday

 

[Pompal 09.]

Whats the point if you don't say where you went or who you saw it just makes for a sub par playboy magazine fuck story.

I could make up a better review then that by not even going to a place if I didn't say where I went or who I saw.

The best reviews are where you say where you were what you thought of the place who you saw and the service they provided for the money you paid.

 

[cashflowpatrick]

First off LittleDuck welcome to massageplanet and good for you for posting so soon. That is great to see actually. But like the others have stated you may want to consider that you name the SP. This board is all about the sharing of information and this tale of your does not really provide value.

Now I can understand your hesitance to post it but if you look around the board you will see how many have assisted others by letting them become aware of service that is not up to par. So I encourage you to post it.

 

[Ana-Maria]

First post / review is always the hardest one to get up the guts to post but I'd have to suggest to say the SP name and the spa.

LittleDuck the help you will get from the members here will quickly put this sad story behind you. It will nothing but a bad memory, with the great girls working in Edmonton there is not need for anyone to have a bad session.

Newfie

 

[Pompal 09.]

Sorry boys, this wasn't meant to be a review, that's why you don't get her name or the spa. I wanted to write a review and found this new girl... but I didn't leave with a review. I left with a story. It was just a true tale of what happened, letting you draw your own conclusion to the situation or mental states some of the ladies in the spas may be in. There's a lot of desperation and abuse out there, even in the sanctuaries of our parlours away from the sleeze of backpage or the streets.

I've had many excellent encounters way before I knew of these boards, but they've been with reviewed women. If I have nothing to add, I won't. I'll continue to visit lovely ladies and new girls. This is the first time in a LONG time I've had an uncomfortable session such as this.

Maybe I didn't make it very clear: She didn't provide poor service because she was just ripping me off for my donation. She provided poor service because either she hates herself for being in the industry, or something else is happening in her life. She didn't want to be on that massage table. "If she didn't need the money, would she have said yes," I asked myself. No. I think you boys know what it means when a woman doesn't want to have sex but through force or circumstance does. I stopped the session as soon as I realized that this wasn't alright for her.

You boys may want her name or the spa name, but to me, that's victimizing her further than she is every time a brute of a guy gets her into a room. This session made me feel awful about myself for putting her in this situation. I have too much compassion for this lady and whatever circumstance she may be in to drag her name into this, or to name the spa and have the owner abuse her should the owner learn of this.

Don't you boys have any real feelings for the ladies? I thought your were gentlemen on this board. I posted my story because there appeared to be some concern for the ladies in this industry from this board. You read my the story, and you all just want names, slam me for being negative with my first post, etc. etc. I guess I judged you all wrong, and you only care about the ladies who enjoy (or put on the act of enjoying) their jobs.

I had hoped to spark some serious discussion about how these ladies need to be cared for so they're not in this industry -- or not feeling like they have to do things they don't want to do -- because of external influences. Or maybe some guidance... or, fuck that. I was just feeling grossly disgusted with myself for having my cock in a girl who 5 minutes earlier was giggling and full of spirit, and was now nearly balling her eyes out looking disgusted with herself. Maybe I was just reaching out to a broader community because I can't exactly talk to people about it. I guess this isn't a place for higher thinking, sorry, I didn't mean to ruffle your feathers.

If I had said she took my money and said "okay, stick it in and tell me when you're done," then, yes, I would have named names. Hell, I would have sat by the back door telling everyone to light their cash on fire and save themselves the trouble.

You guys are harsh. Victimize the victim? May be your style, but it's not mine.

I'll just post reviews on well-reviewed ladies only, and ridicule new members every chance I get, shall I? That's the constitution of Canada Adult Fun, right? The subtext to the rules?

I'm hugely disgusted by your responses and call for blood. Didn't realize you were all from Calgary... whatcha doing living in Edmonton? Yah, I said it.

Moderator, can you close this thread. I know all these boys will now rip me to shreds. You'll probably ban me for being so upfront so soon to me joining the board. I'll continue to have great experiences with wonderful ladies. We can all go on oblivious to the realities of the world.... so it will all work out.

Cheers!

 

[rakib]

Since this is a review board, your story was taken as a negative review. I myself have posted a anonymous review myself, and have taken flack for it.

But I can relate to your story......



Dex

 

[Christina C]

Well let's see what to say here ...

First off the comment about Calgary is totally uncalled for and please refrain from such in the future.

And with your opening statement you stated this was a review and of course the membership would want to know who it was about. What you should have done was posted this in general to generate a discussion there about it. You would have found that this would have taken a whole different direction.

Now I would encourage you to not give up on the board and continue to move forward from here and contribute to the community.

 

[Ann M]

x 2

If you wanted to discuss the finer points of women being in situations that they wanted out of, then you should have started a thread about that. You could have used your unfortunate situation to document how it happens right under some of our noses.

If, however, you want to enlighten us (whether positive or negative) with a review about a sp, then names are crucial in order for the rest of us pooners to make an intelligent decision on our own whether or not we want to make an appointment or run like hell in the opposite direction.

It's not that we are all heartless bastards on here (HB40 not included), in fact you will find over time that it is actually a pretty caring batch of all walks of life that just happen to share the fact that we enjoy this hobby.

Don't let this hamper your future reviews or comments on any other general discussion. If you are hesitant and unsure of something then send a mod a pm and ask for some advise where you might want to post a topic.

Finally, welcome to massageplanet and I hope you stick around and contribute to the board.

 

[Pompal 09.]

First of all LittleDuck, you don't have to shit all over the board and everyone on it just because you disagree with the opinions of a couple of posters. Believe me, the vast majority of pooners on this board are very respectful of SPs and massageplanet does more to protect and help SPs than just about any other resource available to them!

After saying that though, I welcome you to the board and hope you stick around and post some actual reviews in the future. As this was not really a review but rather just a story of an experience you had, it might have been better if you had posted it to the General Discussion section rather than the "Reviews" section as others have also commented. You being new I can understand your confusion of where to post this. You posting it in a review section without it be a true review is why some members were frustrated by your post. Their frustration is also understandable.

That being said, I commend you for the compassion you showed the lady by stopping your session with her when you noticed her frame of mind. If she really doesn't want to be involved in this trade, I hope she has the wherewithal to quit. I really don't think anyone at a reputable MP would force a girl to do anything but she may have a boyfriend who isn't quite so nice.

Whatever the case may be, the business can be tough on the ladies sometimes and if they don't enjoy their work, it's probably best for everyone concerned that they choose another profession.

 

[Elisa]

Well said, BadSanta. Agreed

 

[peacelove]

Bad Santa wisdom definitely shines through on this post. Little duck, we're here to write reviews and to help one another. I believe we all bare the responsibility to both the pooners and the providers to get it right. I make every effort to make sure my bad reviews only focus on the quality of the service. I try to focus on the good and the bad points. I never comment on a lady's appearance.

White washing your review like you did in your OP has resulted in a pointless thread with no benefit to the pooner or the provider in your review. Your OP helped nobody.

 

[Caramel Eyes]

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[Pompal 09.]

I don't think she doesn't want to do this biz or doesn't want to be there, I think she was simply in pain, but wouldn't say so. As in physical discomfort type pain. You don't go from 100 to zero in five minutes unless something specific happened. You don't go from friendly and smiling and playful during the massage, if she hated being there, it would have been obvious from the beginning. She already knew it was to be fs, so that couldn't have been the reason for the turnabout.

She maybe got fearful (about a previous session with someone who removed or broke a condom during doggie or alternatively because it hurt) Maybe she thought that was going to happen during that position and it freaked her out. Either one of those things would have resulted in her actions in the next position, what seemed to be holding her hand to prevent more penetration could as easily be described as holding the condom to make sure it is in place. It seems apparent that her english was not that great, maybe she had trouble expressing that, or misunderstood something the OP said?

I think the OP, by cutting it short, did the right thing in this case. The only alternative was to try to assure her of her safety or deal with pain if that was the problem. Maybe going for an alternate ending would have resulted in a change in her attitude back to the beginning of the session. It would be great if sps never had a bad session, never had a reason to distrust new clients until they get to know them a bit and prove they are not a danger, but that isn't going to happen any time soon.

 

[Ummar]

the best way to help this girl is to name who she is and where she works so everyone else can avoid her and her services and not add further injury to her seemingly fragile emotional state.
nobody wants to have a session with a provider who absolutely hates the job to the point of breaking down in tears during the act.
if she stops getting customers, she'll have no alternative but to find some other source of income and indirectly save her sanity. no?

NRGizr