Spiritual Side of mongering

[Martin F]

I would love to read more of what you have to say and would love it if I read more of what your ideas and experiences are all about. If you have to set me straight I would welcome that.

I also lurk on other sites to see what people have to say. But I could never set an account somewhere else and abandon my good friends of mpnet. I've found that in this site and more specifically the TJ and CA forums(where I mostly post) we have members that are very tolerant of each other's ideas and tastes(whatever they may be). And this is what I love and enjoy the most about it.

 

[Lux Marmont]

Thanks for the kind words, PMs, and emails.

Things are going great with me and my wife.

I haven't been to Tijuana for about a month now. For at least the last decade I never made it over three weeks before I had to hit TJ again, but last year there was a stretch where I didn't go for five weeks! So if I do have a sex addiction it's manageable now.

I'm going to try to keep this up till the end of the year, but who knows after that. I don't think I could quit, or really even want to quit.

Just the other day I picked up with Black girl very late at night walking home when it was very cold. I asked her if she needed a ride, and she said yes and jumped in. She said she went to Jr College, and was 20 year olds. Wow she was cute. It was hard to see you body because she was wearing a coat, but you just knew she had a nice body, and she did have nice size tits, and a nice ass like some Black girls have.

She was talking and acting like a typical young college student, but I smelled some sort of drugs on her, and asked her about that smell? She said her uncle was smoking marijuana and it got all over her clothes. I think she might have been coming off a high, and that smell was Marijuana laced with something else, but I couldn't tell but if I were to guess I'd say meth/ICE?

Right there my old self would have come out and told her I was looking for a girl, and even if she wasn't a prostitute I would have asked her if she wanted to make some money. She was very nice, and seemed like a civilian coed student, but something wasn't right with that girl, and she had to drive her to a bad part of town where she says she lives with her sister. But I just dropped her off and told her have a nice day.

Yeah, I'm still not my old self yet, and I was kicking myself later for not taking her to a motel and fucking that young cute Black 20 year old girl that probably would have jumped at the chance at making money seeing where she lived. ( but if she turned out to be just a college girl, and never sold her body or did dangerous drugs. I would have felt like a lowlife. Since I use to monger in the states years ago. I'm pretty good at detecting who the hookers are, or potential hookers, but a few times I have been wrong, and the girls would flip me the bird.

I'm still lurking on these sites, but since I'm just lurking I spend little time on them, although at times I do want to post, especially when I see stupid posts on other sites talking about what studs mongers are. Yeah right, it seems every monger thinks they are studs. There is also a thread here that almost got me to post because I see a lot of ignorance there, but I won't.

The good news is that I think I'm sleeping at least an extra hour a day since I slowed my postings way down. I did write a little bit on my blog which is kinda fun, although a lot of mongers still don't know I'm on Hiatus.

 

[Helen (lost count)]

There were many things you wrote about in your post that saddened me. This part was the saddest.
Take care of yourself & I wish your issues resolve favorably.

One of the best decisions I made a while back was to leave another forum around 20 months ago for this reason.
One particular idiot was unteachable and posted his ignorance EVERYWHERE on that forum.
I am far happier that I no longer read the dribble.

The pleasure has been ours.

 

[Cathy C]

when he's out tossing his bone in a young whore, the fool isn't hanging around trying to sweat on her tired old cunt. It makes them both bappy, sounds like a good deal.

 

[Little One]

I think it has to do more with the hispanic woman's age. The older ladies will not do or say anything. The younger women will want some pay back if they feel there is some truth to any rumors about you having extramarital affairs. That same young hispanic chick will probably won't even care if you cheat on her 30-40 years from now.

With that being said I been in relationships with young hispanics where they actually gave me the green light to have sex with another woman. But you really have to question those because they might want that same "cheat" card themselves later on.

One even "lend" me to her friend so she could cheat on her cheating husband that made trips to La Coahuila. That was the craziest thing ever and I'm even less proud of that than practicing this hobby.

I have a monger friend who I don't talk to him about what his wife thinks about this but I assume that his wife is okay with it. One time she came so close to tell me that she just doesn't care what he does. I think they have some sort of a pact.

My experience with hispanic women has been that the older women will put up with it. But is most likely that they don't care anymore. And the younger ones will try to get revenge if you cheat on them. And for some unkown reasons the younger hispanic women will ocassionally try to "share" you with other women. Maybe they are trying to test you but they are dead serious.

 

[H.O.P.P.E.R.]

Good luck fireballs, you don't know me but I've gotten some good info from many of your older posts. But out of curiosity, can anyone list other popular monger sites that have an active discussion on tj? This is the only one I know of that I've ever found useful. Thanks.

 

[Harmony ~beat it~ trolls]

Darshman says: "My general impression is that hispanic women tend to be more understanding of a man's sex outside of marriage.

Nope... not true.
Maybe 30-40 years ago they would keep quiet, grin and bear it, but not any more.

 

[mattclaptongad]

Works for me! Whole lot more fun that Christianity, that's for sure.

 

[Pompal 09.]

Fireballs, I read your other post, and I think it's great you have a very understanding wife. My general impression is that hispanic women tend to be more understanding of a man's sex outside of marriage. However, it goes both ways.

Although I never considered the spiritual side of mongering, some say that hedonism is the new global religion.

 

[u d]

Fireballs

Thanks for the information that you have helped me with through out the years. i will miss your points, good or bad.Like you I have had to slow down alot, and rarely get to post these days. Be good to yourself, someone has too. Good hunting

 

[Lightgreen]

You will be missed by many, including me FB.... take care sir.

 

[Tomb Raider]

I'm going to use this thread "Spiritual Side of mongering" one of my favorite topics to announce something about Fireballs,and other handles I might use on different sites. ( for privacy concerns I use a different handle on every site I join, and not because I'm trying to fool anyone) Over the years I had a lot of people try to out me, and even now I have this blogger spending hours on end trying to find out anything about me. At one point this guy even claimed I was Sampson! I guess it didn't help when I told him he guessed right, and that I wanted his 20 year old daughter, and effeminate 19 year old son to work at the "MLB' agency. Sorry Sampson.

It looks like I ended up outing myself to my wife of many years when she found evidence that I was visiting Tijuana! The only thing she really knows is that I go to TJ, and I didn't admit to anything else, but she knows me really well, and I'm sure she knows what I been up too.

Surprisingly she took it very well, and even made some jokes about it, but she is hold this over my head for years to come. So I'm going to have to cool it for awhile, and I'm going to have to cool it online too, and I'm taking a hiatus from the sex forums, because I don't want her to catch me posting there, but I'll continue to lurk, and maybe even post a little from time to time.

There are two other reasons why I want to limit posting, but briefly I have a few minor health issues that I may be able to take care of with a better diet, and exercising more than the 1/2 hour I do 4 times a week.

I'm also tired of dealing with trolls, idiots, and racist mongers online. That's always been one of the reasons why I enjoyed posting over here where it's so mellow and I don't have to deal with all the different personalities although we have had our share of trolls over here too, and many of them have followed me over here from that other sex forum.

I started a blog links below where I talk a little more about this as I really want to keep it off the blogs, and off Google's searches so I could delete it later if I want. Anyway in the weeks ahead I'll write more about this on the blog, and write what I really think of the trolls, idiots, and racist mongers that I have come to know on these sex forums and other places.

It's been a real pleasure talking to many of you:

http://rodrigoplayground.blogspot.com/

 

[sunnySindhi]

Alright Fireballs, thanks for writing an extensive post on Far eastern "Sexual mysticism" if I may. I am not that knowledgeable abut have read a couple of articles. Hinduism and Buddhism are very related and very ancient religions, in fact Hinduism is not a religion but a way of life, it has not set dogmas and do and donts unlike Christianity or Muslim relitigion, most of us have heard of Kama Sutra. Now about Tantra that seems like some exotic stuff ! In Hindu mythology it is not uncommon to have prostitute serve the general population, and it wasnt considered anything wrong, only they had a different terminology for that a la "consort" girls !

 

[blueberry]

On another site some monger started a spiritual thread in order to push his 'new age' religious ideas. He is a teacher from "A course in Miracles' a group that believes some old women was contacted by Jesus, and told to scribe this new way of thinking that's completely 180 degrees different from the teachings of Jesus from the bible, saying things like Jesus didn't really die on the cross, and there is no such thing as sin, and guys like Hitler aren't really evil, because nobody really died because life is an illusion etc etc. I of course can't let that pass, and tell the guy either that lady is suffering from schizophrenia who is hearing voices, demon possessed, or it's a hoax to make money. So the guy couldn't take my criticisms as most leaders of cults can't take any kind of criticism. So the guy tried again and again to get me ban. Finally after crying so much he was able to get me banned from that one thread. It's a shame a site has tools like that, now I'm sure it will be abused, but for me I'm sorry because I was also posting other spiritual things and how it relates to mongering, for example 'Tantra.' a very interesting part of eastern religion. Hopefully I'll post more about stuff like 'tantra' over here, and leave out the religious stuff that causes heated debate.

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Here is something I wrote about Tantra on another forum:

The only eastern religion that I find maybe useful and at least very very interesting is called "Tantra" that had it's roots in Hinduism or Buddhism as they argue who copied who, but there seems to be more history in the practice in Hinduism, however I'll be writing more of the Buddhist practice of Tantra.

What I like best about Tantra is that it doesn't teach you that the world is an illusion as so many Hindu practices do and new age false religions do. Tantra teaches that the world is real, and you're to enjoy the physical aspects of this world.

What Tantra does is harness the sexual drive which is one of the most powerful energies we have within us, and transforms it into a powerful force that puts us on a path to spiritual ecstasy and enlightenment. Even Freud recognized the power of sexual energy, however he didn't tell us how to put it to good use - Tantra does.

But they tell us Tanta is dangerous the Buddhist version that is, the Hinda version is more for lay persons and not that intense, but the Buddhist tell you it's really dangerous almost forbidden unless you you practice their teachings almost full time, and have a spiritual teacher who shows you the way. They say Tantra is the short path of Buddhism.....the direct link to the summit, and that you aren't running circle paths around the mountain being weighed down with safety equipment, but rather your taking on the vertical mountain straight on without oxygen. The time is quick, when they make it, but many fall off the mountain Another analogy used in Vajrayana Buddhism is," The image of a masterful tantric practitioner is that of a peacock who loves to eat deadly snakes and poisonous plants, which only make his tail feathers blaze more brilliantly. However, if you lack the master skills poisonous plants can kill you, working with the poison-laced intense passions can kill the spiritual life too, if misdirected."

They tell us we are not to use tantra for hedonistic indulgence for sexual pleasure, as tantra has been misguided commercially by people trying to make a buck by pandering to the prurient nature of man. They tell us to not be loose with our sexual organ, and that Buddhist monks don't have the same type of problems as Catholic priests, however many of them use the excuse of tantra when getting involved sexually with other people.

I believe what the Buddha tells us about Tantra, that "selfless sexuality and heightened sensory awareness are the key to sexual satisfaction." How many jerks do we have on this forum that tell us they don't care if a provider cums or not? However, I also believe the Buddhist just don't want common lay persons to know or attempt to follow any of the teachings of the 'trantra.' because of the possible misuse of the art.

Tantra definitely has a dark side to it's use, but really I don't see the harm in learning a little about it's techniques and using them with your favorite girl, although they tell you that you must have the right partner.

Perhaps next writing here I'll cover a few tantra techniques and beliefs the Buddhist have?

I'm also shocked that on a prostitution board the word 'tantra' is only four times since this site opened, once by me, once by Avisado, who seems like he disappeared because of criticism towards new age? Maddog, defined Tantra once talking about group orgies, and it's in one another thread by someone else. I didn't know mongers were so spiritually dead, because spiritually and sexuality really go hand in hand......gone are the days that girls are just whores who are only good for one thing......but then again maybe not?