Look, you are asking these girls to sleep with you. If they don't want to, for whatever reason, it's up to them.
Some girls don't like fat guys either, are they fattist? What if a guy stinks and she says no? Is she a stinkist? What if a black guy happens to stink and she says no? Is she a racist or a stinkist?
I don't care too much for white chicks any more, does that make me a racist? Hang on, I married a Thai girl, hmm, not really the thing white supremescists do is it?