The truth about sex in Japan

[Kye]

It seems all true.
Except that I met some French bankers there. Too much japanese girls.
Too much sex.

It sounds quite different from this report.

All about context.

 

[tatiana ooh ahh]

I am so amused reading passages like this:

" 3. Go to Roppongi.

Coming from central Tokyo, Roppongi is the second to last station on the Hibiya subway line (the gray line on subway maps). If you're starting on the circular Yamanote train line, you can transfer to the Hibiya line at Ueno or Ebisu.

4. Find GasPanic.

GasPanic is a bar in Roppongi. It is the most popular bar for meeting foreign guys; a fact of which you will take advaneforum.xxxe. If you can't find it, go to Bar, Isn't It. (They have a beer called "Beer, Isn't It" which is simply the worst beer on the face of the Earth.) If you can't find that either, hang around the station, and if a group of girls points at you (and they will if you followed step 1) ask them how to find it. BTW, Thursday night is cheap drink night at GasPanic.

5. Stand at the bar.

Order a drink and don't bother looking interested in anything particular. Chat with a friend if you brought one. Girls will come up sooner or later and start conversations. Then it will be time to choose which one to set your sights on. I recommend you follow these guidelines.
If she looks twent-two, she's fifteen.
If she looks fifteen, she's twenty-eight.
If she looks twenty-eight, she's over forty.
Now that that's all sorted out, and you have picked out the lucky lady:

6. Make Conversation.

Keep things simple. Stay low-key and use lots of vague answers. If you're asked about your job, make up something in the fashion industry or be unemployed. Just don't say you teach English, because that locks you into an exclusive club of 99% of the foreigners in Tokyo, none of whom are known for buying expensive gifts, which is one of the things that the girl has on her mind at this particular moment. If this goes well, then you're ready to

7. Make your move.

Nothing difficult here. Just talk about how crowded it is, and suggest a move to somewhere quieter and less crowded. If she agrees, then you're golden because there is only about one place in Tokyo that is quiet and crowded, and that is a love hotel. For Love Hotels, she will probably have a favorite (for which you will be paying), but if not just look for neon. If you don't know what a love hotel is, consult my Japan Q&A page, about 2/3 of the way down.

There you have it- an easy, simple guide to having sex in Japan. I guarantee that any guy can do this, if he follows step 1, because I have seen it done by some of the most inept quasimodos the world has produced. "

Taken from: http://www.penismightier.com/fenomas/laidguide.html

I went to Roppongi, went to Gas Panic, there are two of them, I have tried them both.

They are both close ( let` s say 500m from the station ) the Almond crossing in the center of Roppongi.

One is a two story building, went there one night, ordered a beer but it was half empty.
The waiter told me that it would be more crowded later.
Came back later, at about 23:30, the place was full of people, maybe 75% boys ( in their 20s, mostly gaijin ) and 25% girls.
The girls were almost all together with a guy and I noticed that all the girls who were with a guy actually came in with that guy.
Only few girls ( 3-4 girls ) in the whole Gas Panic were alone and talking by themselves.
Occasionally one of the ( many ) youngish boys tried to approached them but they made clear that they wanted to stay alone.
I went there one night more, because I could not believe that the whole GasPanic legend was a trash of s...
Then, they told me there is another GasPanic.
That is a disco, on the 4th ( if I remember well ) floor, in a lateral street of the main street of Roppongi.
There, the situation was even worse, if possible.
It was a Friday or Saturday night, I do not remember, but the disco was half empty until 1 a.m.
I asked to a waitress why, she told me that it was because " we have a new deejay, and he is not really good ".
Looked like a real excuse.
I sat in a table in the corner, sipped my beer and looked to how the whole thing was going on..
Here as well, 70% at least of the people were boys from 20 to 30, some sitting on a table, looking around.
I do not remember having noticed girls coming inside alone.
These poor men ( should I include myself in this ) were all waiting for something, maybe they had all read the above site like me and they were waiting for a group of sex-hungry chicks to come in.
But that did not happen, and the boys, who were coming inside with a smile in their faces, were all leaving one after the other, without any smile ( and, you got it, without any girl ).

Just a suggestion for all the new browsers of this forum, do not believe to all they say about Roppongi.

Oh!!
I also remembered which is the name of the pub with the models ( see my first post above ): it is called Lexington Queen, you can see the site here: http://www.lexingtonqueen.com/gallery.html.
The photos of the models are probably real, and the whole explanation about how the business works for that pub ( models enter for free, but you have to pay 4000 yen to enter and you can not approach the models as they stand in a separate part of the disco where you can not enter ) has been told me by the Serbian waiter.

The escort agency I was talking about in my first post is Alla Escort, 35000 yen for one hour service, but the photos are all fake and the escorts are all about 35 ( the one I had sex with were from Russia or Lithuania ), except one youngish gal, who now came back to Russia, who is about 25, I guess.

 

[audilicous4]

I want lover#2, lover#3, lover#4..

 

[H.E DUBBLE HOCKEY STICKS]

don't worry, super, i'm not considering you as a client. enjoy that trip to thailand.

 

[Iris]

then why are you complaining?

 

[CasualFan blocks idiots]

Oz,
the American girl I made love with for one year was ( is ) an English teacher.
She felt quite lonely, but she told me that 80% of the English teachers in Japan are male.
And I have no spare time to go after Nova teachers, hoping that they will go with me.
I have money, but no time.
Also, as far as my ex-gf told me, all the Nova parties, more or less allow only Nova people, so it is difficult to get in, unless you are, for example, a Nova student.
Tonight, just coming home from the Grand Hyatt, went to dinner with the Velours girl, took me 19600 yen ( French restaurant 2nd floor, I took pork with lentils and the bitch took some kind of fish, also she drunk two ( 2 ) glasses of champagne.
But she is gorgeous, one " top shelf ", as we say.
She said she will call me soon.
Having sex with gorgeous girls it is difficult, also in Japan.

 

[Lee]

Super, why not try for non pro gaijin gals in Tokyo? There are a lot of lonely female Nova teachers and other eigo no sensei there. Japanese guys rarely talk to a white woman and if they came to Japan with their gaijin boyfriend chances are they will soon lose him to a jgirl, I saw this happen a lot in Japan, most male Nova teachers hook up with one of the Nova staff and dump their white girl, Nova employs some really sexy office managers and staff, they seem to have a policy of not hiring many ugly Jgirl staff. Nova is the only school that hires a lot of white girls and they have a huge turnover since few white girls last long in Japan (many leave after being groped by a chikan and discovering that the cops couldnt care less), so hang around outside busy Nova schools, talk to the Nova guys too, most gaijin are happy to chat to another gaijin and before long the Nova guys will invite you to a party where you will meet Jgirl Nova staff and gaijin girl teachers.

 

[Sal (yeah)]

Also, it seems to me that you charge a lot for your services..

45000 yen for one hour?

This is not my business, but you can get a round trip to Thai with that money.

 

[bettierage]

Already have gf and lover, though..

 

[sianisiani]

You're a sucker bro. Sounds like you swallowed hook, line and sinker. You don't need to pay for a shag in Japan period.

 

[marimiata]

stick to pros, super. doesn't sound like you're gonna find much of a wife/gf in japan.

 

[protein6x]

Just got a reply from the girl of Velours:
" Dear ( my name )

I hope you had wonderful holidays.
I'm replying to your email about why I don't want to see you.
If you take me a nice restaurant such as grand Hyatt at Roppongi hills,
I would love to see you again. I only like gorgeous and romantic
place.
especially the beginning of relationship.

I hope see you soon.

Best regards,
( her name )

This was the mail I got in my keitai.
Did copy and paste here..

 

[le_rogers@rocketmail.com]

I tend to agree.
I have seen one beautiful nihon girl with a man 20 years older than her ( I mean, married with ) and the man in question ( a gaijin ) is rich, not extremely rich, but has a nice two floor house in the center of Tokyo.

 

[Meg!]

Allow me to make a sweeping generalisation, the very best looking Jgirls the 11s very rarely non p4p go with gaijin. It does happen and I have seen the odd gaijin with a top top shelf Jgirl but not often. The typical experience of a gaijin in Tokyo especially if over 30, is that he will get a girlfriend a lot better looking than he would have got at home in Kansas or Brisbane. Most of the very best looking Jgirls dont have a gaijin koibito, they have one or more very old very wealthy Nihonjin. The wealth that some Japanese men have is seforum.xxxgering, after the US Japan has the most seriously mega wealthy people, and considering the US has 300 million people to Japan's 125 Japan is equally represented among the mega wealthy.

 

[Juu]

A chap must adopt a different attitude when in Japan, unlike every other Asian country I have been to you will see p4p everywhere, but the p4p Jgals and the chinpira will ignore you, only the Chinese girls and the Nigerian and other gaijin touts will solicit you. I have NEVER gone to any bar with gaijin touts and on this board have heard nothing but rip offs from any unfortunate and naive chap who did. A chap from India suffered an enormous rip off by the Nigerians early this year which he posted here about. Also you must ignore the Chinese massuases UNLESS you speak some Chinese and/or are VERY familiar with Chinese girls and how they think, many would be very poor value not because they are neccessarily out to rip you off, but many are shy and inexperienced in p4p just looking at them I can tell the ones that are into it and the ones not, but can you????? unless you can then avoid the Chinese in Tokyo.

You have to be more confident and pro active in Japan (pun intended),than is the case in the rest of Asia where girls will seek you out, basically Jgirls dont need to seek you out since gaijin have no more money than Japanese men andoften less, you have to go and find them dude cause they aint gonna come to you in Tokyo, and outside Tokyo even more so.

 

[superlisa96]

My favorite part of the whole thing was the ending!

 

[Sourkandy19]

i think the title of your post should be 'why i can't get laid in japan', as your report is far from the truth.

i wouldn't try nampa, if you can't get a decent p4p, then you sure won't get one for free.

might i suggest a good night in with some swedish porn, a bottle of wine, and a well lubricated hand?

 

[Mountian_Baby]

Dear all,
let me present myself.
I am a 35-year-old, tall and good looking ( other people say not me ) and it is almost 2 years in Japan.
I have been mongering in Brazil, Argentina, Czech, Amsterdam, Hungary,..
Let me tell you my experience here about sex in Tokyo ( paid and free )

When I first came to Japan last year, I was horny for sex, but I could not go to Roppongi, so I tried first with www.asoboo.com and with ads.
I did not have good luck, I tried with some girls on the street but they did not care about me, nobody replied to my ads and the same on asoboo.
I have to say that I am speaking about about the OLD asoboo, the new one is totally different.
I started to go out with one Jap girl, she spoke very good English and we have been out for four or five times in Yokohama, then I said that I wanted something more, and she said I was not her type.
Same thing happened with a worse looking girl, she was looking for an husband, went out four or five times, at the end, I tried to kiss her and asked for more and she said no
I was desperate.
Tried to find escort, but could not find one, started to go to Sugamo every week or so, 3000 yen for a BJ, but it was always with condom and I could not come
Then I got a reply from an ad, she was a girl very bad looking, so bad looking, fat, not clean, no tits and even completely stupid.
She lived with a rabbit, I asked many times if she wanted to eat that rabbit ( for joke ).
We met once, and she said clearly that she did want a real BF, no sex-friend and I said yes, then we met another time and I started to kiss her, but she did not want to give me more, so I was about to live, with my dick very hard and at the end she surrendered.
Gave me the worst blow job of my life with her teeth, but I managed to fuck this fat lady and I left.
I do not remember if I fucked her once or twice.
She started to became insisting and I left her, she insulted me via mail.
I have to say that I have always ( almost ) paid for dinners with girls.
Then I started getting a little bit more confident, started to spam asoboo a lot ( sent some hundred of messages to girls ), maybe 5 or 10% replied.
Other forums for chatting just did not work, as the criss cross friends of Metropolis, spent a lot of time with that one, but it just did not work.
80% of the replies were from women of 35 to 40, bad looking and not friendly at all.
Some were good girls but did not reply to me after the first time we met.
I always offered good lunches and dinners to them paying 100% myself.
Then I met this Russian lady, quite good looking, divorced from Japanese, we met twice, then she invited me to Shinjuku, brought me to a love hotel ( I paid ) and she fucked me.
But then she started replied and not replying to me, as she was busy with her job, I think we fucked 3 or 4 times ( maybe 3 ), but we went out together at least 10 times and I spent with her a lot on dinners.
We are still in contact, she said that I am an amazing lover but she is just too busy.
She said that she does not have another man.
Then I have met my current ( real ) girlfriend, I met her in December last year, she is little bit ugly ( let` s say, average, not ugly ), but she is a very good person, and the one I may marry.
It is one year that we stay together and we fuck, she was used to come at my place, but then she found one time a hair left by the only girl I have fucked in Roppongi ( see more ), and I got afraid, so now, we meet at her house.
I also once sent a message to her, but the message was for another girl, but she believed me.
I fuck her without condom!!
Together with this one, or during this relationship, I had another relationship that lasted one year, it was with a girl I found by an ad, she was American, not so good looking, but she had two big big tits.
The big problem is that she was a ball-breaker, all the time complaining about Japan, how much she hated Japan, so I was to break with her, but we met again and she gave me a good blow job ( until the end ), so I wanted to fuck her without condom, and we remained together for some time, until some time ago, when we split.
She also keep on saying that I am an " amazing lover ".
But, also, keep on about speaking about marriage + children.
With her, I have always paid for lunches, cinema, train, I also gave her some money for some medical tests.
With this girl and with the Japanese above, we took the HIV test together.
In the mean time, I have tried other pink salons, I went to one near Shibuya ( or Shinjuku ), but I paid 10000 yen or 15000 for what had to be full sex, but I received an hand with a glove!!
Now, I only go to Sugamo, when it is few days that I do not fuck.
Then I kept going with Asoboo and the ads, I think I have met some 15-20 girls only this year, many of them were bad looking, I met one Jap girl who played the piano, I say girl, but she was about 40 ( she said around 30 ), and not so good looking, she did not want to fuck with me, as she was scared that i could fuck and leave,but I insisted, brought her to restaurants, the to my house, I think I managed to fuck her twice.
Then I found this other girl which is about 30, she was bad looking but had a strong body, very strong legs, she was swimming twice per week or so, she said, I brought her to restaurants, but she did not speak much, then I brought her again to a restaurant, then to my house, I was not sure about how to behave, I kissed her and she put her hand on my dick, and started to move.
I wanted to fuck her as she was available, but she was not good looking, and very muscular, so I had a bad time with my dick, but at the end I made it.
I think we fucked twice then we did not call each other back.
It has been more or less like fucking a bitch, fun but not too much.
In the mean time, I went to Korea for 2 days for the visa, managed to fuck a whore there, but expensive.
I also went out with many other girls, one found in an ad, she was from Madagascar, went out, but she was not good looking at all, paid some 6000-7000 yen in a Chinese restaurant, but I did not call her back.
Went out with some other girls, spent money but wither they were too bad looking, or they did not call back.
I had this experience with this Mexican lady, she was the most bitch of all of them.
She is older than me, was about to divorce form Japanese husband.
I bought her to the best restaurant, I really wanted to fuck her, spent money, once, we went out with her sister, I think I paid little bit less than 10000 yen that night.
But she always said that she had financial problems.
Once, I gave her some 20000 yen and then, one week after, I call her and a guy replies.
The guys tell me to fuck off ( in Spanish, which I understood ), and that if I had ever called that number again, he would beat me up.
I was so angry that I sent a message saying that all the Mexicans are stealer's.
Few weeks later, I decided to write her a message asking why she behaved so bad with me, she replied that that guy was not her BF, she just lent him the phone, and she was so angry with me for what I had written her.
We managed to meet again, spent other money on restaurants, she was without job, so I gave her money, I managed to touch her pussy once, but never managed to do anything more.
That time, in my house, I tried hard to fuck her, touched her pussy and she was wet, but I did not make it and she went away and my dick was very hard ( poor dick ).
I thin that, overall, I have spent more that 200000 yen with her, or so.
And spent a lot of time in messages and calls.
Now she has a job and does not write me so much.
She says that she wants a guy who takes care of her ( not just money ), which it seem I do not.
I also, in the past, offered money for sex, straight, at the beginning she said yes, but then no.
The only other quite good looking girl I managed to fuck with I met on websites, was this Jap girl, quite good looking, she had lived in New York, or was it Los Angeles?
We met in a strange web site, I sent a lot of mails to anyone and this one managed to reply, she said “ I do not like playboys “, I think I brought her to dinner 2 or 3 times ( always paying ), then to my house, and then i managed to fuck her, but it has not been so funny.
I managed to fuck her twice, then we did not call back.
I am just telling you about the times in which i managed to fuck, but in many other cases I did not.
Also, with the Russian above, I went out with her some 10 times, sometimes to good restaurants, we are good friends, but I fucked her only 3 or 4 times.
The only other girls I managed to fuck with ads are the two Filipino girls I have met.
I thought Filipino to were difficult, but I fucked one the third time I met her ( and she was virgin!! She was 30 and still virgin!! ) and another one the second time.
With the virgin it has been quite difficult, as my dick is big and she was virgin, so she complained all the time that it hurt her, I could not fuck her too deep, we fucked 3 times ( if I am correct ), but I could not fuck her well not even that third time ( maybe she is still a virgin? ), even if I cummed at least two times, if I remember well.
It has been a pretty difficult fuck all the time.
She was not so good looking, short, completely without tits.
The other one was even worse looking and with a bad character.
I fought with both very soon, so we left.
In that time, if I remember well, I managed to fuck for the first and only time in my life with 4 different girls in 4 consecutive nights without paying.
My previous record was three, in Europe, but always with not-so-good looking girls.
It has been not so good with the Filipinos, even the non-virgin she did not move and I always cummed only because I was horny.
Oh, I forgot another girl I met this way, she was the youngest of them all, 22-years-old, quite pretty.
I brought her to restaurants as always, the second time to a restaurant with a separate room, and she kissed me, not so funny as she smoked a lot.
The she started to work and I spent much time sending messages to her, after one month or so, we agreed to meet in my house, I prepared a good dinner and did not know until the end if it could happen or not, but I managed to do it.
But I was very tired from work, or did I also fuck with the American the day before, maybe I am becoming old, but i did not fuck her so well, I managed to come but it has been difficult.
We managed to meet another time about 20 days ago, I invited her to my house but she wanted to go to an hotel close to her parents` house, I dunno why, spent 18000 yen for hotel + dinner + 1 night out of home.
I kissed her but she said she was tired, tried to fuck her but she said “ it hurts “, then she felt asleep just after saying “ we will do it tomorrow “.
The day after, i went to take a shower and when I came out, she was already dressed and ready to leave.
About 25000 yen for 5 seconds of sex ( literally!! )
Then let` s speak about the big delusion of my staying in Japan: Roppongi.
I first went out to Roppongi this year, around May I think.
The first impression was not good, I went to many places, but everywhere chicks did not look at me, and always the ratio of dicks to chick was about 80 to 20.
Went to many places and pubs, always the same result.
Then I have been suggested, from people in this forum, to try to go to Hearth Land.
I have been there at least 10 times, if not more, and almost always managed to speak with a chick or two.
The problem is that the chicks there, they give you the mobile no, you bring them to dinners, but they do not fuck with you.
This is at least what happened to me.
I met this girl, she was good good looking, she said she had been a model, she was ( is ) 25, we talked a lot, she gave me her mobile.
We went out to dinner once, and she spoke a lot that she had been to study in the US, that she had been to Mexico, Europe, all the places where she had been, etc. her life and so..
I was so happy to think that I could be together with her, but she always replied to my messages to wait that she was busy, etc.
It is almost 4-5 months from that dinner and today she wrote me to stop E-mailing her, that she is not in Japan, she is busy and she will write me back when she is free to meet me.
I think she will never want to meet me again.
Then I talked with a Spanish girl in HL, not gorgeous but good looking, we talked for 30 minutes that she said, I have to make a call, and I waited one hour for her at the door, just to find that she was talking with another guy.
I went lose to her and said ( in Spanish ): “ you could have told me that you did not want to talk to me, it is one hour I am waiting for you at the door “.
Then I tried to talk with few Russians, in HL or outside, but always been turned down.
I met another good looking girl in Velours, been there few times, we went out together in total for three times, but also with this girl it has been very very difficult, and I do not think I will ever fuck her.
I brought her to T.G.I.F. and she complained as she did not like the restaurant, for every 10 messages I sent her, she replied me once, then I brought her to an Italian restaurant, and she complained as she only like Jap food.
She sent me a message few days ago asking me how old am I, maybe she thinks I am too old for her ( I think she is between 25 to 32, but I may be wrong ).
I do not know if she will ask me again to go out together.
Last time I also made a present to her of some 12 roses and I said to her that I loved her, but maybe that did not work..
Went also to other clubs in Roppongi, Muse, but I am too old for that place, managed to get few phone numbers, but they never wrote me back.
Vanilla, same story, only kids from 20 to 25.
Then I have been to the clubs near Almond, never managed to pick up a girl there, even if I saw other younger boys dance cheek to cheek with some good looking girls.
I know about a friend of mine who is 24 and went to Roppongi and fucked the first night he was there.
Or the second one.
Maybe I went to the bad places, maybe I am too old, I do not know..
The only time I scored was in HL, I met this good looking girl ( probably, the best one with whom I have fucked in Japan ), but I fucked her for a chance.
She was tired and she was living close to my house, so I offered her a passage by taxi home, then I said, you house is far, why do not you stop at my house, I will not touch you.
We went to my house, prepared the bed for her ( she was very suspicious of me, I think ), laid her on the bad and, after I closed all the light and took shower, I came close to her and start to kiss her.
At the end I could have sex ( that means, I had sex ), but it was not so good as she did not move at all.
Later, she refused to go out with me, saying that she had problems with her father` s health, that she had a different boyfriend that lives in Russia, etc.
I met at HL again, but she said she was waiting for colleagues of work ( which I saw was true, I think ), then I met her another time, always in HL, hand in had with a fat guy.
I sent her a message: “ do you prefer that fat guy to me? “ and she replied that they were just friends and that the fat guy had a nice job in some investment banking.
Few weeks later, she wrote me that she was going to marry with the fat guy.
Also, in HL, I managed to meet a girl, who was maybe the worst looking girl I have ever talked to in my life.
Even worse than the girl above ( I mean, the first girl I have talked about ).
She had big glasses, her face was completely covered with acne, her hair were oily.
But I wanted to fuck that night, and she seemed pretty desperate, so I invited her to my house, and I tried to use the same technique, we went to sleep in separate beds, then I had shower, went to her bad and tried to kiss her.
She lat me touch her, but she did not let me fuck her, as she was always saying “ next time”, “ next time “.
Apparently, she had been fucked and laid off.
I could not fuck her and I was horny.
The day after, she wanted to come to Shinjuku with me, and I felt embarrassed to walk hand in had in her.
Then she wrote about meeting and I replied no.
She asked me not to talk with her again, in case we would have met again in HL.
No need to say that, dear.
The following stop was massageplanete` Latino, nice club for dancing salsa, I invited a lady to dance, she danced with me ( I do not dance so well ), asked for her phone and she said no.
Went to a very nice club near massageplanete` Latino, and almost had an heart break, as I some of the most stunning models I have ever saw.
Later, they told me that in that club, models enter for free.
I tried to talk a little bit with some of them but you can imagine the result.
Went again few times in Roppongi, got other phone numbers, but the girls, for any reason, do not call back.
I forgot to mention Kabukicho, went her twice, and twice I have been brought to the same place, where there are two girls ( between 20 and 35 ), not Japanese, whom you can fuck for 20000 yen.
But, while you fuck, they keep asking for money.
In any case, the first time I managed to come, the second one ( tonight ), I did not ( and have to give 5000 yen to one of the two fer over-time ).
Then I have been, always in Roppongi, to some clubs, I mean “ strip bars “, but I already know the club-scam, so many gaijin in their 40s, enter the club, pay 20000, 30000 yen and more for talking to girls.
The girls, they may tell you that, after work, they might meet you, but they will not, so I have been told.
Girls who make 500000 yen per month only dancing and chatting with older guys have no need to get 50000 yen becoming prostitutes.
Last thing I tried is www.***************, girls come at 35000 yen ( transportation included ), but the photos are 100% false, of course.
I used their service twice, once the girl was about 25, big siliconed tits, and quite good service.
The second one, was about 35-to-40, I think, had blue contact lenses that made her look like a Martian.
She did work-out a lot, so her body was fit, so I enjoyed fucking her.

That is all folks.

If you have had different experiences, you can reply here or, if you want, send me a PM; I am willing to learn if there is something I did not try ( yet ).

Nanpa?

Edited to correct grammar mistakes